Being a private person I have found this very difficult to do, there’s a lot I could say which I’m most proud of but not sure about revealing all, anyway here goes…
1. I’m a bloke.
2. I’ve served 23 years in the Royal Air Force.
3. I have a Jack-a-doodle dog called Alfie.
4. I love reading; it’s a great distraction which isn’t always very healthy.
5. I have travelled to places that some might dream about.
6. I self criticise all the time and analyse every thing I say or am told, also not healthy.
7. I have worked in a Night Shelter for 3 years coordinating a group of Counsellors.
8. I am a big believer that as we were born with two ears and one mouth we should listen more than we talk.
9. My mother died of cancer last year and I miss her terribly.
10. I’m not really sure why I use BL but find it very interesting reading what other people write.
11. I went skiing in Norway and had to be helped down the slope by a couple of 12 year old, I forgot to get of the lift when my friends got off so went to the top, now that was scary.
12. I’m a carer.
13. At times I get very lonely.
14. I love going on long walks with my kids.
15. My wife has MS.
16. I’ve been bungi jumping in Canada.
17. I work in drug treatment.
18. My passion is studying, I have done it all my life even been to Medical School which was v hard.
19. With all the suffering in the world I’m not sure if I believe in God, I do believe that there is no greater power than what I hold within, the decisions I make govern my journey in this life and will determine my fate.
20. I am also a volunteer Counsellor for a charity working with survivors and have done so for about 8 years now.
21. I hoovered out my car this morning and broke the hoover, not sure how to tell my wife I’m thinking of leaving it and saying when it’s mentioned “really hun how on earth did that happen…”
22. I have many favourite quotes but this week it’s "What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller.
23. I have been in therapy for years and love it.
24. I tell everyone I don’t believe in ghosts, yet enjoy going on ghost hunts, not sure what that’s all about.
25. I have never been asked for my ID in a shop or bar like some I have read on BL, but I’d really like to be.
There done, hey that wasn’t too bad after all.
![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
) walking around downtown Ashevegas, and picking up or filling out job apps. I had one interview at a discount organic grocery that is SO close to my house, so I'm hopeful about that one! There is another local organic grocer that's hiring for the deli and I'll turn in my app there tomorrow. SOOO many restaurants gave me the, "We are always taking applications" or "You can drop off your resume if you want" or "We will PROBABLY need new people soon, now that the weather is nicer; not sure though." It was freakin HOT today too! The UPPER 70s!!! I had to change into a tank top and shorts just to walk around. Spring is in the air here, for sure. There were lots of cute (but young!) skater boys doing their thing. Apparently there's a skate park downtown. 
