This!!! I applaud this. More men should be like this, it’s just the right thing to do.
Yeah seriously. Although I'm not a big fan of uhh, what's his name, Asher Roth, some friends used to play the I love College song and there's that line "don't have sex if she's too gone." I was never a big fan of Asher Roth aside from a few songs friends would play, but this comes to mind. Some people just get it, you know? He was just that typical frat rapper who partied a lot but even he recognized that yeah, if a girl is too fucked up, don't do anything. She's not in the right mindset and probably won't even remember.
But yeah, during my sober period and hanging with friends this happened quite a few times. It was quite annoying actually, I mean I appreciated that this one girl in particular really liked me but similar to me, she's very quiet until she gets drunk. I've seen it go on like a light switch. So if there's drunkenness going on at a friends with a little party or something, I prefer a sausage party lol.
Breaking the 3 year streak was nice though. A big factor were the anti-depressants I was on, which I've been off for awhile. My libido was destroyed to the point where I was borderline asexual when I was a total freak in my teens. Most guys apparently hit a sexual peak in their early 20s, for me it was 15-16. I finished puberty very early which may be a factor. I kind of hated it actually, being one of the only things I could think about at school sometimes. But I was a much different person regardless and even then I knew better. My libido gradually has been returning since I quit them in November or December, been on different types since October 2016.
Didn't actually have my first drinks until 17 though, a month before turning 18. Was on 11/11/11, a night to remember for sure especially given the date. Alcohol in your teens is just so much more euphoric, or it was for me. Just pure joy and wanting to hug everyone, no hangover, etc. After awhile getting drunk just made me feel like shit. Once I discovered kratom I basically nearly replaced alcohol with it. And now I use kava which reduces inhibitions in a very similar way without getting me fucked up or a hangover, I love this stuff.
Anyway yeah it's sad that a lot of guys don't get it. One of my best friends is an alcoholic mess, a functional alcoholic more or less. I was surprised when we chilled the other day and just blazed, I haven't chilled with him not drinking in forever. He's had some issues though, cheating on his girlfriend, hence the whole thing about me mentioning his ex. He claims he "accidentally" slept with her friend Mia because he was so drunk. The story was like "oh I was in bed with her but we had no intentions of having sex" ...yeah, sure. I couldn't even take his side, that's on him and now he probably has herpes. She does and I doubt he had a condom on him. The whole story was just shit. I think this was the only time he really cheated while dating her but I kind of doubt it.