gher
Bluelighter
Nah, they were (almost) all goody two-shoes the other week. Maybe only two seemed remotely psycho.
mr UnS:
I don't know Ms Z at all, but you're way cool, so hope it goes as well as my BL rel
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What she did was a betrayal of your trust. You just dont keep people like that near you, as a friend or even as a casual fuck.The ex said she might be in town over the next week and that we could still date casually, and though I have no objections I really don't care what's going to happen. It seems about two thirds of the people I've told think I should just kick her to the curb, while the remaining third think we should remain friends - and that third consists of most of my friends who have met her including my grandmother! It seems to be turning out ok so far and I'm just going to roll with it.
Fuckin WORD, sista.Being young and single and having unserious flings is fun !
I realised over the weekend
that I feel
absolutely no emotion for the ex.
I don't love her
or
hate her.
I'm starting to see the bright side of being single.
I just don't see the point in it. Best case scenario, I find the perfect someone, they're gonna leave at some point anyway, that's just what people do. Whether we break up or he carks it, at some point I'm gonna be forced to rely on myself again, so I just think it makes sense to cut out the middle man.^In saying that though, would you not agree that there may be that *someone* out there who doesn't make you feel insecure about yourself and who actually makes you feel fantastic. It's not a matter of looking and searching for this someone, but if you happened to find them, would you embrace it or shun them away?
I completely agree with the ridiculousness of being expected to find a "soul mate", but if i do indeed find that person, then great. But as you said, im not going to do my head in trying to find them.
Just a thought.