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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

up all night said:
I'm trying to work out if I need to tell him I previously dated someone in his extended group of friends. Actually, I'm really trying to figure out if it matters. Would you guys bring it up?
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Ask the guy you previously dated.
If he thinks it would be an issue if your current finds out, divulge info beforehand.
Otherwise, fuck it. He'll assume that if you brought it up, it's more serious than it really is and then jump to conclusions.

Fuck, too much Dolly Doctor for me.
 
Does anyone remember Dr. Feelgood on Triple MMM i think it was years and years ago? She could take on Dolly Doctor any day!

I used to listen to her at night and think it was naughty.
<3
 
m4dd0g said:
Wow - sorry to hear all the bad news peeps <3

Things really are very back to front. Im actually quite infatuated with a girl which happens once every 5 yrs or so for me

...but singles thread die hards dont panic! It all comes to a screaming halt in a few weeks when i leave the country for good :\
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:( sad to hear dawg. From what i hear your girl is a diamond in the rough and i just hope (which i'm sure you will) you keep these fantastic memories when you have you have to leave <3

I hate the saying right person, wrong timing! It's not fair.....
 
^ Thanks trancegirle - you're a sweetie :)

Nothing more open and honest than living in the moment
 
drugfukkdrockstar said:
I'm trying to work out if I need to tell him I previously dated someone in his extended group of friends. Actually, I'm really trying to figure out if it matters. Would you guys bring it up?
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I personally would, as it's always good to start a relationship being up front. Also it saves them finding out through someone else and then feeling confused on why you never told them.
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I was told by a good friend of mine, if you don't know whether you should or shouldn't, you should.

It is a good test for the girls to use to see how much esteem the man of their desire has. Most able minded men would not mind too much, and may actually be interested in hearing your past exploits. Especially the failed ones. ;)

This brings to mind a past friend of mine with whom I was passionately involved. She had shown me a collection of pictures she had of nude male models. I found it entertaining at the time and did not think twice about the intentions. Perhaps on her part it was an unconscious or even conscious way of testing me.

The worst you can do is lie, as it would spread through your rose garden of passion like a thorny weeds unchecked.
 
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I think It would seem weird and sneaky if you didn't. I remember a friend's bf spazzing out about this very issue.
 
Down 'Em

^
I'm headin' more
&
more in the same direction.

She's comin' 'round tonight
to collect more assorted shit
from what used to be
a garden of unity
&
now looks like half of Nagasaki.

I'm tryna drown as many cans
of juice assi man
before she arrives
lest I be uncivil
(yeah, it werks in reverse fo' moi)
or,
emotional an' break down.

BRAAAAAAAAAAAH!

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Nothin' says
HARDEN THE FUCK UP
like 20 beers.

:\;)
PEACE
UnS
 
Unsquare:

Im sorry about your situation. Scenes like this are very distressing, and you are a great person who will weather this storm and come out the other end in one piece, <3

I have been there before, and know that you need a lot of TLC from your close friends right now.

Also, it might be easier on both parties if this isnt dragged out, by moving things willy nilly- sometimes a bit of self defense tactics on your part would save you a lot of heartache. You are not helpless and she does need to be respectful of your feelings. Would you consider telling her to come get EVERYTHING she wants out of the house and settle up the practical side of things like bills and rent at a specific time and date so you know when she will be there and when you will have your own space without her coming into it?

I know this is hard, but its like the old "ripping the band aid" off metaphor.

It;ll hurt either way but at least your home wont be like a bomb hit it and you left to pick up the pieces.

Or maybe go stay with a friend and have a comfortable atmosphere around you. Chaos is not good.

Ill send you a pm this avo after my appt, got some stuffs to tell you.

Things always get better, remember that hun


xxxxxx<3>3
 
I am no longer single.

We wrote each other a note.
"will you go out with me?"
[yes] [no]


Both ticked yes.

And love each other.


After being married and self suficiently single for a long time, I have found a great deal of value in being both single and in a long term relationship.

I find absolutely no pleasure in short term dismal failure flings though. Unfortunately they do happen when incompatible people get together with unrealistic expectations of false pretenses.

Its easy to fall into the trap of isolating yourself from other people to avoid being hurt if you have not dealt with past relationship dramas. I did this for a long long time, but still ended up in yet another epic fail of a relationship.

I am happy now though as the mistake I made was not going with my gut instinct and assuming that a relationship would work out when deep down I knew it wouldnt due to both of us having major drug issues and other shit in our brains.

My gut instinct with my love now is all good. Happy. Trusting and it feels so good to have regained the ability to openly love someone that I feel really normal, not deteched and alien in society.

Being single, living independantly from being looked after by parents or other people does help you to get to know yourself and if you can be a good partner to someone else. I did not like myself for a long time and lost my way.

But am bouncing back with avengance, and my love will be a very very happy and satisfied man as a result.

<3

(I love you babe <3)
 
OMG, Uns, did you guys get back together ?

<3

That is completely heart worthy !

I completely wish you every happiness!!!!
 
Don' Get It Twist'd, Y'all.

Miss UAN said:
BL is pretty
stupid
....
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But fan yeah. :)

Miss B'Ya'delf said:
OMG, Uns, did you guys get back together ?
<3

....

I completely wish you every happiness!!!
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Thanks Miss M :)
No.
She's totally not eva on the map of my life
again.
Topographically speakin'.
Fo'reala.
She's dead to me,
an' not jus' becuase I've been watchin'
Dexter 3/7-9
through 'alf the night....

Miss M said:
I completely wish you every happiness!!!
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Please,
doe,
keep it up.
An' continue to write of y'ur Me'hi'co adventures.

They rock.
:D

Merely got (more than)
lucky
meetin' an' A.M.A.Z.I.N.G.
[ ] tick box pls.
person
that
was/is/will-be
A-A-A-M.A.Z.I.N.G.E.R.
(UnSquare can Squaredance
with the true.)



Eden Guitar was there,
Scott McCray,
& a lil' bit of 'Bama.

Yeah!
My Super Ha'f-Nigga-Brotha!

So,
a) No,
Not interest'd my half,
even with a 20ft pole.
b) The quicker,
Miss M,
I never have to see L.A.
a gain = A+++++++++++++++++++++

Fuckin' UnBelieveable.

Shit I have all types of a hang-over fuckin' hang-over.

An' yet strangely,
it matters
not
at
all.

People are strange.

All of them.

But some seem fuck'd
&
truth is a commodity
that seems to sufferin' from the same problem
as
the Minin' Billiton.

Thanks You,
tho,
an' all
others
fo' your support.

All y'all again.

<3

Thinks can rapid change, ch'air?
Both fo' bad
&
good.

I'll go with great on this one.

Neato.

Newsteam Assemble!​

Miss L said:
^j'adore<3
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Moi said:
Ídem
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<3<3<3<3<3<3

UnSquare
Happy.
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----------------
Now playing: Sublime - Love Is What I Got
via FoxyTunes
 
Nicky What?

^
Good Work.
Happy Fo' Ya Capt'n N.
Does she dig yo' nang'enis?

Anyway...

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Brave-Fuck-O-Bro

PEACE
UnS
<3:)
 
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