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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

Loneliness got the better of me the other night. I felt better yesterday though still starved for female attention. I decided it's time I got back out there and met some new people. So I went out last night because it was the only chance I had to go out this weekend, only to find that there were no decent gigs on and the city was almost deserted. Fuck. And the girls that I did talk to were both not interested and not people I would be interested in anyway. Well at least that craving has been satisfied.

It's hard for me to stop caring about someone who was that close to me. Perhaps I care too much in general, not just in relationships. It sucks sometimes but thankfully I don't overcommit as much as I used to.

Maybe I should just man up and stop whinging in here.
 
^ Nah, what happened to you sucks gher. It would hurt anyone to be cheated on so blatantly, its not as if you were winding down a relationship equally you know.

It takes time to get over the shock.

Don't force yourself out there to meet new chicks if you are just feeling lonely, just hang out with friends.

Being freshly single in those circumstances totally sucks mate. But it does get better. You seem like a really nice, genuine person. You'll find someone better when the time is right for you. Seems right now you need to put the last girl to rest in your head.

<3
 
m4dd0g said:
Things really are very back to front. Im actually quite infatuated with a girl which happens once every 5 yrs or so for me

...but singles thread die hards dont panic! It all comes to a screaming halt in a few weeks when i leave the country for good :\
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Well it was another 2 months in change till my migration sorted itself out.

Things got even better and now it feel unbearable but it is better than never at all

Broken singles ftw :\
 
m4dD0g, you know how you said your priorities were always career first etc etc , why is that the case ?

Is it possible to have both ? Money and job is fulfilling but it cant make you lasagne, fellate you and fawn over your manly charm. Nor can it wake up next to you in the morning.

Think about it man. She could go over and see you.

Or you could meet someone else but have to put up with the accent. :|
 
m4dd0g said:
Well it was another 2 months in change till my migration sorted itself out.

Things got even better and now it feel unbearable but it is better than never at all

Broken singles ftw :\
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I could give you a massage with hot rocks?
 
hahaha same ol same ol :) yeah, good luck with it all peeps :) spose im glad im not there.. hello to old friends lol ;)
 
Met this really nice girl last week.. Did the whole drunken fumble thing.. I wouldn't mind if it went on to be more then that, but I dont want to start anything I might not be able to finish, should my time in Scotland come to a close soon?? bugger...
 
Tonight I went to a DnB/hip hop gig at my old uni. I met an amazing 35 year old lady who didn't look a day older than 25. We kissed, and yet lamented the fact that our age difference was in the double digits. I'm not sure if this makes me a cougar hunter but maybe I should try my luck at their stomping grounds.

I'm finding it difficult to find anyone really interesting my age in Sydney. The most interesting people I would date in this town are in their 30's, and I seem to be too young for any of them. The other interesting girls I would date live in other cities but I'm not going to pursue another long-distance relationship so soon.

Incidentally, I'm considering extending my range to 40, though I'm sure this will be of no consequence.
 
Raz said:
^^^^^gher dude, age is a construct...if you are attracted to someone and she's attracted to you, go for it. Don't let some preconceived notion of "appropriate age" get in your way. Life's too short man.. :)
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Tell that to my older friends. I would give my virginity to have a chance with any of them (too late on the virginity part though). I don't really give a rats about age myself but I do realise that large age differences have certain implications. One of my 30-something friends is divorced, another has two children. That sort of thing.

My new friend wouldn't hook up with me because she didn't want to hurt me. Fair enough but I don't see how anything is going to top Rainbow for a long time. She's not relationship material, and while I'm not a one night stand person, I'm not adverse to having a little fun here and there. Her loss I suppose.
 
Raz said:
^^^^^gher dude, age is a construct...if you are attracted to someone and she's attracted to you, go for it. Don't let some preconceived notion of "appropriate age" get in your way. Life's too short man.. :)
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I used to think age mattered but I agree with your sentiment now. I always though it was seedy to go for younger chicks but I now find myself half in love with a 21 year old (I'm 26). When you can have fun with someone to care about age is just intellectualising up a non-existent barrier.
 
seriously lp, once you get out of high school, a five year age gap is nuuuuuuuuthing. go for it!
 
People who are in their 30's seem more appealing and interesting as they usually have had a few serious relationships and have a lot of experience with general life compared to most younger people.

I wouldnt be interested in a much younger guy if I were single as I would not have a hell of a lot in common to keep up together, when you get older priorities change and going out partying doesnt but it for me.

Older people have more issues, habits and quirks than younger people, especially if they have been in live-in relationships, have kids and an ex partner still in the picture. Its not something that should be put on the shoulders of a really young partner. Id seriously reconsider having an age gap of over 10 years, having had a 19 year old lover briefly after my 31st birthday, we were just about sex and oxycontin and laughs. But it wasnt ever going to be serious.
 
2 of my best relationships were 10 years older and 11 years younger (both legal - honest! ;))

Neither ended up working out but i still regard both as some of the best positive learning experiences of my life
 
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