Insight # 2: Women are the ones who decide the rules.... guys just have to learn them... and then play the game... THEIR game.
This is something that took me a while to learn. Women are the ones who hold the power - initially. Why? Because they have something WE want. For those of you out there who don't read between the lines... this mysterious thing we all want and they all have is.. PUSSY. Women don't have trouble getting laid. A girl could probably get laid every single day by a different guy if she wanted to. But any girl who respects herself even a little bit won't do this... because she doesn't WANT just any guy. She wants a guy who exhibits characteristics that are both attractive and contribute to the proliferation of the species. These traits are: strength, character, dominance over other males, social status, charm, charisma...overall SUCCESS. Women know that if a guy is succeeding in LIFE, he will succeed as her mate.
But the women are the ones who CHOOSE the mate. Not the other way around, as much as we'd like to think it is. The minute a girl meets a guy, she assesses him immediately into a category in her mind. There are two categories into which she will put him. a) I would fuck him. and b) I would NOT fuck him. Women are probably not cognitive of this appraisal as directly as I am describing it.... but they do it nonetheless. Ask a girl, and she might word it as "Oh, he's cute...." or think her head "hmmm... what's that guy's style... what's his deal...i wonder what he is all about" - those would be examples of category A. Examples in category B would be along the lines of "____________________ " Lol. They are not looking at the category B guys. They are thinking about the category A guys. And chances are, category A guys are going to be smaller in number than category B guys.
Basically, once a girl meets a guy, SHE determines whether or not she would EVER let him in her pants or not. Because of this, the girl determines the rules of the game. If she lumps you into category B after meeting you.... I'd say there is about a 90% chance you won't ever fuck her. And the 10% who do overcome this immediate "classification" by the female have a phenomenally difficult time overcoming it and convincing her to let them get up in that
In case you were wondering what the girl CALLS category B guys.... its FRIENDS. This is what a girl considers a "guy-friend." A guy she would not fuck.
There are more ways women determine the "rules" to the dating game... like once they have classified you as a potential fuck partner, exactly HOW to get to the point of fucking them. But I will save that for another post... My wrists are getting tired.
