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Prophetic/Precognitive Dreams

It's hard to go through all the steps, but I was pretty vulnerable after my BF died. I had a dream that I met someone at work. I really thought it was just another emo dream, but about 2 weeks later the guy I dated (who broke my heart) asked me to lunch and started taking me out. I feel stupid saying it, but I felt like my deceased BF had sent him to me because I had the dream and was entirely happy and content only months after he passed away. One thing my BF had always said to me was that he truly wanted me to be happy, so I felt like it was his way of making me happy after hurting me. The other thing was that this guy and I had worked together and I was not attracted to him at all. We just became friends soon after I had the dream and it was based off of him asking me why I seemed so down every day (no one but my boss knew what happened). He and i never spoke for the year I was there, and about a week after I had this dream, he asked me if there was something wrong. When I told him what happened, he took me out to lunch and we totally hit it off instantly.

He really broke my heart and between what went down with him and losing my BF, I just lost every ounce of faith I had. My BF and I used to say that we were meant to be because we met in the strangest of ways and had we met only months earlier, we never would have been interested in each other. I also remember sitting at lunch with this guy realizing that I was actually having a good time with someone (I became super aloof after my BF's death). I had a flash of him telling me "There are no coincidences." I felt as if he was talking to me.

I know it's lame, but I had too much emotional drama along with these prophetic dreams to believe it anymore.
 
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*HUGS*

I so understand how you feel. All I can say is sometimes we have dreams or visions of the future that do mean something but aren't necessarily what we think. It's hard sometimes to see the big picture, but maybe that guy reaching out to you was what you needed at the time, even if he turned out to be a jerk and not what you expected. :( It still could have been a pivotal moment in your life.

I'm so sorry you went through all that thought. :( <3
 
It's interesting you say that, Deja. My sis told me the same thing. She believes that he was there to pull me out of the really dark place I was in. I was really happy during the time we dated, and her feeling was that this guy was there to make me realize that I can be happy with another guy.

Like you said, it was a pivotal moment in my life that has totally changed it and pushed me in a different direction. I still hurt about it, but I'm over the guy. I still have dreams occasionally, but I'm not much of a believer. My BF's best friend tells me some of the dreams he has sometimes, and he believes they are real. He believes my BF is talking to us, but I'm kinda the devil's advocate that it's not true anymore. I really want to believe, but it's gonna take me a lot to gain my faith back.

Thank you for the hugs. :) <3
 
It's interesting you say that, Deja. My sis told me the same thing. She believes that he was there to pull me out of the really dark place I was in. I was really happy during the time we dated, and her feeling was that this guy was there to make me realize that I can be happy with another guy.
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Yes, exactly. Its not so much about how he ended up feeling for you in the end, but more about how what you felt for HIM during that time showed you something about your own heart.

Even if your BF isn't literally talking to you guys from some other plane or something, the message coming across in these dreams from your higher selves could be equally important. I have also had very intense dreams and visions of loved ones who have gone back to source. Dreams can reach into the collective consciousness and "big mind" and a place where there is no linear time, so it makes sense we can see and talk to loved ones in this way.
 
imho, if someone is intuitive and empathic, they will experience intuition when dreaming as well as when awake. those who are not open to such experiences might say random coincidence is the logical explanation.

i've learned the hard way to just go with my "gut feelings" and not disregard what my heart, head, and spirit are trying to tell me.

intuition is both blessing and curse.
 
those who are not open to such experiences might say random coincidence is the logical explanation.
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Yeah, and it's hard to explain what it's like to these type of people, because if they haven't felt for themselves what simply just "knowing" something intuitively feels like, it doesn't make sense to them. I guess it's something you either just get or you don't.
 
I'm curious if anyone has had a dream that followed through positively? I know my story is kinda a downer, and I've read some stories here where people have had dreams they don't understand, but has anyone had a dream where they understood the meaning or where it seems to actually be prophetic?
 
I posted in the other thread about some of mine. Such as dreaming about a girl from highschool I hadn't seen in many years and then running into her the next day. I wouldn't exactly call it "positive" or anything (at least not in a way I can see) but it certainly wasn't negative.

Oh yeah, and I dreamed about my ex before I met him. He dreamed about me too. But we both knew each other for centuries, we are soul mates I feel. When we first saw each other we both recognized each other right away and it was love at "first" sight.

We are still soul mates but now we are just friends. I think our intense relationship at the beginning of this life was a sort of unwraveling of interwoven karma of some sort, carried over from other incarnations. The love we still have is pure, it goes beyond boyfriend girlfriend sort of love.

I've also had a few dreams where I was getting married (ew what? lol) to some guy with the most amazing blue eyes. It was a very intense dream, I felt such love that I cried and cried when I woke up and felt my heart screaming for this man... I actually thought I met him once before but now I'm not so sure. When you have a dream like that you tend to attach the feeling of it to every guy you hope is that guy, because of desires of the ego mind, and with matters of love/sex/attraction I find its pretty hard to step back into "big mind" enough to really trust your REAL instincts.

In a way I kind of hate it, because I'm more drawn towards blue eyed men in general now, but I'd never consciously close myself off to someone because of that dream (a nice brown eyed man for example), because if I have learned anything, it would be that visions don't always mean what they seem to at face value. BUT.. if I do happen to meet an amazing blue eyed hottie one day who is awesome enough to convince me to marry him-that would be pretty cool too. :)
 
"I guess it's something you either just get or you don't."

yes.

i don't know if anyone else feels like the world is incredibly overstimulating because there's too much, seen and unseen, flooding the senses of intuitives and/or empathics.

as far as positive prophetic dreams, yes.
i think the negative ones are more disturbing so there's more recall.
 
^ dealing with people in mass drains me & makes me mad edgy, especially after gettin back from like a mall. Totally needa recharge after dealing with society in isolation<3.
 
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lol, i just found out i bought those shoes on ebay at around the same time a friend of mine was giving birth to her first.
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i don't think the shoes thing was really more than a coincidence. and this quote, it's just LOOKING for a coincidence. a friend gave birth when you bought some shoes. uhhh alright :P

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all this synchronicity stuff, i know it happens, but we are underestimating the brain's ability to find/interpret patterns. we are pattern-machines! it's not that far out guys. it's actually natural, especially for us bluelighters who have tripped our share of trips, to patternize reality and find connections
 
"^ dealing with people in mass drains me & makes me mad edgy, especially after gettin back from like a mall."

oh yeah. it's exhausting and the more tired i am, the less able i am to kinda turn it down.
 
I've also had a few dreams where I was getting married (ew what? lol) to some guy with the most amazing blue eyes. It was a very intense dream, I felt such love that I cried and cried when I woke up and felt my heart screaming for this man... I actually thought I met him once before but now I'm not so sure. When you have a dream like that you tend to attach the feeling of it to every guy you hope is that guy, because of desires of the ego mind, and with matters of love/sex/attraction I find its pretty hard to step back into "big mind" enough to really trust your REAL instincts.
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I've had these too! It's very hard to get it out of your mind! My BF had clear, blue, bright piercing blue eyes. I've had those dreams before and sometimes it's with someone I know. I've also been madly in love with television characters lol. That was another dream I had before I met the guy who broke my heart. I took it to mean that I would get involved with someone I already know, which I did.
 
^ agree with qwe.

Think for a moment about the huge number of possible coincidences, i.e. the number of coincidences that COULD occur, and then think about the huge number of chances for any one of those coincidences to occur.

The odds are that you will find coincidences in your life. That's normal. There's nothing prophetic about it.

When someone starts making huge sums of money regularly based on their prophetic dreams, then I'll start paying closer attention.

But the odd coincidence here or there... that's all it is.
 
Heuristic said:
^ agree with qwe.

Think for a moment about the huge number of possible coincidences, i.e. the number of coincidences that COULD occur, and then think about the huge number of chances for any one of those coincidences to occur.

The odds are that you will find coincidences in your life. That's normal. There's nothing prophetic about it.

When someone starts making huge sums of money regularly based on their prophetic dreams, then I'll start paying closer attention.
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You just don't get it. I've explained it a thousand times. These dreams that I have are not normal dreams at all. They are visions. They are completely lucid and extremely real, unlike ALL my other dreams. So when I have these extremely lucid and real dreams that feel way different than normal dreams and then something from the dream happens, that is not just a coincidence. Not when it has happened many, many times. ANd what does making huge sums of money have to do with it? 1)Not everyone's purpose in life is to make money, I know I don't care about money at all and 2)Why would psychic gifts neccessarily show you how to make money? Don't you think they might be showing you something a little deeper than that?

There is no way for me to explain what these dreams are like to someone who hasn't experienced them. But trust me when I say they are not normal dreams. Not even close.
 
^^MNIND-I had a dream that i received a huge amount of money! I woke up with a positive feeling. When I went to my post office box 3 days later, I found a check (not to my name) of $90.000 from some city construction company! Wow, call it coincidence or not, what was it doing in my dream, or in my p.o. box? Preminitions whether refering to coincidences or not are a mystery.

I had many of those, whether regards work, friends, family and in all areas, where a particular uniquely event that participated in my life, that came to me in a dream first either the night before or 2-3 days earlier.
 
I know, people who don't have these experiences just don't get it. It's synchronicity. The more you notice it and appreciate it and connect to it, the more it happens to you.
 
We all sometimes have powerful dreams that "feel real." That doesn't make them prophetic; nor does a coincidence following them make them prophetic.

I fully agree about the beauty of life, and I find much to be amazed at every day.

You don't need to believe in magic to find life magical.
 
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