☮ Social ☮ PD Social Talk Thread: If 2020 Was the Dumpster, Can 2021 Be the Fire?

[simstim]

Oh, it WILL be lol.

All in good time we hope.

We'll see how this business meeting goes.....

I'm feeling bizarre about the prospect.

 

[tired of crap]

I know you would man lol that's the whole point.

You're Lazy (honestly no offence lol and in best humour.)

Now see me, if I'm gonna go after a big, there is nothing half handed about it.

No offense taken man
I know how my posts come across. These last 5 years have been a disaster.
Even during the worst of ym alcoholism I was far from lazy: yoga, meditation, strength/cardio exercises, time in nature and school (university).... idk what happened. Suppose my set/setting changed and I dont need all that to mitigate the feelings of being so far off centered?

But now I just sit around and indulge in one addiction or another... Sigh

Back on topic
Id wager the ladder to execute hornets is exponentially more hazardous, especially if its 12ft tall lol
Im just imagining falling off a ladder whilst beeing (lol) stung

 

[Xorkoth]

Problem is getting within 1 foot of a yellowjacket nest. You don't want to do that. Laziness isn't a factor, more like the desire to avoid terrible pain.

 

[Deleted member 521610]

leave that stuff to professinals with sting proof suits. Fuck pissing off a whole sawrm

 

[Dreamflyer]

Yeah, yellow jackets have serious anger issues! I love bumble bees though; they're very chill and just happy to do their little flower-hopping, pollen-gathering thing.

 

[izo]

been in the hospital from 19. till 27th. did the php again, bdo alone didnt get me into bed, oh wonder. i remember 5 days of it..

 

[Xorkoth]

Oh shit... just found out my band is opening up for Tauk in a couple of weeks!! That's huge!

 

[izo]

nice, just listening to tauk atm. good music.

 

[simstim]

So I've been flirting so hard with this chick from Facebook dating (her too). She's ten years older than me.

We've been sharing music with each other and discussing all kinds of stuff. She lives about a half hour to forty five minutes drive away.

I haven't told her that I don't drive because I don't have money for car insurance, or that my license was suspended for drinking and driving.

I've done everything I need to to get my license back, but I need to make an appointment to get it back and haven't bothered due to not having money for car insurance.

Even if me not driving didn't scare her off I can't have her over. Even to pick me up. My apartment is beyond filthy and full of roaches and shit.

I don't think it would've gotten this way of I hadn't spent so many months rolling and drinking everyday. Plus my dead roommates shit is everywhere. Oxygen machines and an electric wheel chair. Filth everywhere.

It's distressing to live like this. It's seriously fucking up my chances with women too.

I've had several women ready to hangout until I told them I didn't have transportation. That shit is embarrassing.

 

[Just A Guy]

I've felt so depressed and overwhelmed by the magnitude of life's problems that I didn't know how to even start improving my situation, to the point where I didn't even get one single thing done a day. I'd just watch television, surf the net, and then live in the world of my dreams.

Until one day I decided to make a list of 3 things to do each day. And I made them simple. The first day was something like

1. Wake up.
2. Shower.
3. Eat.

Then I'd cross the items off my list as I did them. Damn but it felt good to be aware of any accomplishment, regardless of how simple it seemed.

The items would get a little harder as the days went by. An item might be, clean the bathroom; or something like call my sister. As I was able to knock items off my list, tasks that a week ago seemed impossible became doable.

I've been without a vehicle or a license for some time. I plan on putting that on my old list. I just need to start by making that call to reinstate my license.

Good luck, simstim.

 

[Jabberwocky]

I've felt so depressed and overwhelmed by the magnitude of life's problems that I didn't know how to even start improving my situation, to the point where I didn't even get one single thing done a day. I'd just watch television, surf the net, and then live in the world of my dreams.

Until one day I decided to make a list of 3 things to do each day. And I made them simple. The first day was something like

1. Wake up.
2. Shower.
3. Eat.

Then I'd cross the items off my list as I did them. Damn but it felt good to be aware of any accomplishment, regardless of how simple it seemed.

The items would get a little harder as the days went by. An item might be, clean the bathroom; or something like call my sister. As I was able to knock items off my list, tasks that a week ago seemed impossible became doable.

I've been without a vehicle or a license for some time. I plan on putting that on my old list. I just need to start by making that call to reinstate my license.

Good luck, simstim.

I did much the same. I stopped worrying about a gigantic muddle of competing responsibilities. Instead, each night I set my only goal for the next day to be get up at 6AM and walk the dog for an hour.

By 7:30 AM I always felt a huge sense of achievement plus a healthy dose of endorphins. The day was already a win by that stage and then all the other shit just kind of fell into place as the day proceeded.

 

[Img_9999]

So I've been flirting so hard with this chick from Facebook dating (her too). She's ten years older than me.

We've been sharing music with each other and discussing all kinds of stuff. She lives about a half hour to forty five minutes drive away.

I haven't told her that I don't drive because I don't have money for car insurance, or that my license was suspended for drinking and driving.

I've done everything I need to to get my license back, but I need to make an appointment to get it back and haven't bothered due to not having money for car insurance.

Even if me not driving didn't scare her off I can't have her over. Even to pick me up. My apartment is beyond filthy and full of roaches and shit.

I don't think it would've gotten this way of I hadn't spent so many months rolling and drinking everyday. Plus my dead roommates shit is everywhere. Oxygen machines and an electric wheel chair. Filth everywhere.

It's distressing to live like this. It's seriously fucking up my chances with women too.

I've had several women ready to hangout until I told them I didn't have transportation. That shit is embarrassing.

Get a bicycle : D
It's pretty much my only mean of transportation.

 

[Img_9999]

Oh shit... just found out my band is opening up for Tauk in a couple of weeks!! That's huge!

That's so cool ! Good luck and get new fans hehe

 

[simstim]

Well tonight I've been chatting with this chick again. We've been talking about music, food, and even sex!! Wow!

I admitted to her I don't drive right now and she still seems super interested!!

I need to scrub this apartment from top to bottom. Nothing like a woman to give you some ambition and drive right? Maybe that's what I've been lacking all this time. Lol.

I'm a bit worried about the physical aspect of this. She is ten years older and not exactly the shape of woman I'm normally into. Mentally I'm into her and we keep connecting on so many deep levels.

Physically she looks like everyone's buddy's mom from high school (not the hot ones either). Or maybe one of the teachers or an administrator from the school office. Lol.

Mentally she seriously turns me on though. Hopefully that's all that matters.

The last time I tried to fall in love with and date a chick I wasn't that physically attracted to it didn't work out, but that was mostly because she scared me off by wanting kids right off the bat. I mean right off the bat she wanted to produce children and that scared me. She was also into Wicca and other weird shit.

This feels different from that so far. Wish me luck!

 

[simstim]

Have you guys ever been really attracted to a woman's personality but not her body?

I just saw a full body pic of this woman I've been talking to for the first time and.... Well.... She's not really my type.

I have no business being picky though. I've tried to date women I wasn't that attracted to physically before though and it didn't work out too well.

Honestly I've never slept with a big girl, or even a thick girl unless I was drunk. I like this one's personality a whole lot though.

Also she seems willing to overlook pretty much all my flaws. Did I hit the jackpot for female companionship and I'm just too biased against bigger girls to admit it?

I'm a skinny guy from a family of skinny people.

It would not be my first time trying larger women but it's a serious hangup for me. I've always been drunk.

I'm thinking about trying this one for real. We've had so much fun chatting.

Anyone had success with someone they weren't initially attracted to sexually? She excited me sexually earlier when we were discussing sex but not so much when I see her photo.

I mean I've done it before with women that I'm ashamed of and she looks better than some of them. I was always drunk though.

 

[bingey]

Flushed a gram of dck and 2fdck the stuff has nothing on real ket...

Oh and simstim give it a whirl you might never look back lol

 

[simstim]

Flushed a gram of dck and 2fdck the stuff has nothing on real ket...

Oh and simstim give it a whirl you might never look back lol

Oh no!!! That's some serious drug abuse!!

Never flush drugs. You should always mail them to me! Lol.

I'm thinking about sticking with this chick. She might be a better friend already than I have had in years.

Why have I always been so hung up on women's looks?

The last girl I dated that was bigger wanted children right away. I really believe I could've stayed with her if she wasn't actively trying to get pregnant. Surely this isn't any different?

I usually only go for really petite women. I married an asian woman.

Taller, heavier women is new territory for me.

 

[Jabberwocky]

Have you guys ever been really attracted to a woman's personality but not her body?

I just saw a full body pic of this woman I've been talking to for the first time and.... Well.... She's not really my type.

I have no business being picky though. I've tried to date women I wasn't that attracted to physically before though and it didn't work out too well.

Honestly I've never slept with a big girl, or even a thick girl unless I was drunk. I like this one's personality a whole lot though.

Also she seems willing to overlook pretty much all my flaws. Did I hit the jackpot for female companionship and I'm just too biased against bigger girls to admit it?

I'm a skinny guy from a family of skinny people.

It would not be my first time trying larger women but it's a serious hangup for me. I've always been drunk.

I'm thinking about trying this one for real. We've had so much fun chatting.

Anyone had success with someone they weren't initially attracted to sexually? She excited me sexually earlier when we were discussing sex but not so much when I see her photo.

I mean I've done it before with women that I'm ashamed of and she looks better than some of them. I was always drunk though.

In this situation I would just keep going deeper with the woman and value the friendship. That is, I wouldn’t try and have sex with her and I’d put it out of my mind. Having a friendship with an older woman can be very rewarding for a young man.

Whether this is possible depends a bit on the content of your conversations so far. It doesn’t matter that you’ve talked about sex. Friends can do that. But if either of you have been overly flirty it might be hard to wind things back.

I guess you’ve got to gauge whether she values the same things in you that you value in her - or whether she’s just after some mad toyboy cock.

 

[simstim]

I'm silly high. I broke into the kief in the bottom of my grinder and there is still so much in there. I've already smoked a whole lot too. I almost posted something inappropriate to this thread. Must be high, lol.

 

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