Staring into the Abyss
Bluelighter
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- Jun 18, 2023
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I had a feeling from a young age that I should be alone. I had strong physical and emotional attractions to women, but the sense that I would never get married or have kids.
In my 30s, I fell in love with a woman, and she was dead set on having children. After many arguments, we have a 6 yo daughter now. I love my daughter with all my heart but I think I made a mistake.
My girlfriend and I are no longer in love, and I’m trying to raise a child while having suicidal ideation. I think I knew, deep down, that I wasn’t cut out to be a husband/father.
I guess my point is, don’t get married or have kids due to societal pressure or pressure from your partner. Trust your instincts.
In my 30s, I fell in love with a woman, and she was dead set on having children. After many arguments, we have a 6 yo daughter now. I love my daughter with all my heart but I think I made a mistake.
My girlfriend and I are no longer in love, and I’m trying to raise a child while having suicidal ideation. I think I knew, deep down, that I wasn’t cut out to be a husband/father.
I guess my point is, don’t get married or have kids due to societal pressure or pressure from your partner. Trust your instincts.
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