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Me too, even rectal polyps aren't that bad. ?

Dersch, I didn't read your reply as it was much too long. Instead I was investigating prolapsed rectums in modern porn and than I saw some women squirting milk enemas onto other woman's face. I'm not sure what I think of all of that, it seems risky and not exactly sexual. Point is, humans like butt stuff, everything we do is potentially dangerous, cost/benefit analysis has me pretty certain I am still going to bang poop chutes as often as required.
 
I had sex with a guy I met online a couple nights ago. It was really awesome. The only thing I regret is that he lives two hours from me. We had dinner and talked and it wasn't weird at all. We were both disease free. No anal cancer. We didn't fist each other or eat our poop. It was actually kind of romantic which was a nice change of pace, made me feel like a human being again.

I feel sorry for you Derschieber, honestly. Whether you're trolling or not, I hope you figure out what's causing this disturbance in your mind and you're able to move on.
 
swilow & mal

This was never about either of you. No one asked, and no one questioned your choices. I have expressed no interest in your sexual behaviors whatsoever.

I am not disturbed in the slightest. We have someone here who shared her experience of experimenting with anal sex.
I would be grossly negligent not to point out that this activity has resulted in the deaths and maiming of millions during the last 30 years.

Millions of people dead or maimed for life. You would prefer to keep this information hidden from sight. It offends you. I know.

Those victims, they died at the hands of people who had attitudes much like your own.
 
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Damn it man, you're removing my excuses to tl;dr you ;)

Those victims, they died at the hands of people who had attitudes much like your own.

Well, this certainly escalated didn't it?

Look, its fine if anal sex disgusts you or whatever- it does involve body parts and bits we evolved (and were conditioned) to find disgusting- but to claim its this incredibly risky activity is just belied by the plain facts of the matter and so it seems like a distortion for ideological reasons. I would never argue that sticking your sensitive genitals into what can be effectively a septic part of the body is risk free, but it can be mitigated- just like many of the risks adults encounter. We all have differing levels of acceptable risk- I happen to enjoy that part of life, but we all you have to make a personal, subjective choice about whether to undertake any risk to the extent that its virtually impossible to talk about right/wrong, correct/incorrect. When people start telling me that the choices I make are dangerous using unreasonable arguments, I disbelieve your altruistic motivations and think there is something ideological and subjective at play. I'm not telling you to have anal sex or trying to scare you out of anything risky you do (like drugs I assume). Anal sex can be dangerous to both partners, driving a car is much riskier. I hope you harangue car salesmen as fervently as you do gay men/straight men/straight women/gay women (that's everybody btw) who enjoy a bit of ass fucking.

A vaccine against HPV is pretty effective at preventing transmission of the virus. Yeah, condoms are structurally not great at surviving the friction of the tighter anus, but a lot of lube would probably help- I've never worn a condom during anal sex so I have no clue. Its not wrong to expect your partner to be clean- in fact, its essential unless you really want to deal with one rather awkward elephant in the room (and I hope its clear what the elephant is). Enema's are helpful there, preferrably not squirted onto someones face though. Also, clean yourself off afterwards- despite all reports, your partners tongue is not the best for this, use soap too!

FWIW, I'm being a bit playful with you here mate cos I simply cannot tell when you are serious or not. I just think your overstating all of these risks by a huge amount for unknowable reasons.

I had sex with a guy I met online a couple nights ago. It was really awesome. The only thing I regret is that he lives two hours from me. We had dinner and talked and it wasn't weird at all. We were both disease free. No anal cancer. We didn't fist each other or eat our poop. It was actually kind of romantic which was a nice change of pace, made me feel like a human being again.

That's awesome mate. Sex and romance are beautiful parts of life. Plus you didn't erupt with anal cancers everywhere. ? :eek::D
 
I had sex with a guy I met online a couple nights ago. It was really awesome. The only thing I regret is that he lives two hours from me. We had dinner and talked and it wasn't weird at all. We were both disease free. No anal cancer. We didn't fist each other or eat our poop. It was actually kind of romantic which was a nice change of pace, made me feel like a human being again.

I feel sorry for you Derschieber, honestly. Whether you're trolling or not, I hope you figure out what's causing this disturbance in your mind and you're able to move on.


Happy you had a great time
 
I have a prostate massager and that shit feels goooooood

The only time I can cum without touching myself.
If you get your missus or yourself to rub JUST your "banjo string" at the same time OMFG!!!!!!!!!

You can thank me later on for that bit of info.
 
The only time I can cum without touching myself.
If you get your missus or yourself to rub JUST your "banjo string" at the same time OMFG!!!!!!!!!

You can thank me later on for that bit of info.

The one I have actually has a tab that rubs the perineum...

I haven't gotten to the point where I can cum without touching. Prostate is getting way more sensitive though. If I get sexually excited with thoughts or whatever, I feel energy starting in my prostate area. It is getting to where I can move it around my body more. I actually halfway got it for spiritual/energy reasons.
 
It is getting to where I can move it around my body more. I actually halfway got it for spiritual/energy reasons.

You into Qigong breathing techniques and / or Pranayama Kundalini yoga by any chance?

I used to think those videos of Chinese guys breaking bricks with their head or shins etc were fake till I learned about their breathing techniques & learned about the things I listed above.
 
You into Qigong breathing techniques and / or Pranayama Kundalini yoga by any chance?

I used to think those videos of Chinese guys breaking bricks with their head or shins etc were fake till I learned about their breathing techniques & learned about the things I listed above.


I brought up the prostate thing to my boyfriend and he seemed kinda shy(was a shocker) about it but kinda sounded like he wanted to try, and of i can please him 1/2 as good as he do me i don't mind at all
But my question is, how far up is the prostate? Ive noticed from oral that when im playing with his balls theres a spot just under them i press on and he likes is so i wonder if thats close to the prostate?
Just a inch or 2 and do i rub it or just press on it?
Thanks in advance ZopiclonrBandit lol
 
I brought up the prostate thing to my boyfriend and he seemed kinda shy(was a shocker) about it but kinda sounded like he wanted to try, and of i can please him 1/2 as good as he do me i don't mind at all
But my question is, how far up is the prostate? Ive noticed from oral that when im playing with his balls theres a spot just under them i press on and he likes is so i wonder if thats close to the prostate?
Just a inch or 2 and do i rub it or just press on it?
Thanks in advance ZopiclonrBandit lol

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swilow & mal

This was never about either of you. No one asked, and no one questioned your choices. I have expressed no interest in your sexual behaviors whatsoever.

I am not disturbed in the slightest. We have someone here who shared her experience of experimenting with anal sex.
I would be grossly negligent not to point out that this activity has resulted in the deaths and maiming of millions during the last 30 years.

Millions of people dead or maimed for life. You would prefer to keep this information hidden from sight. It offends you. I know.

Those victims, they died at the hands of people who had attitudes much like your own.

Your original post, with all the statements presented as fact, was complete horse shit and I proved as much. You never countered so I'll take that as a win.
 
You into Qigong breathing techniques and / or Pranayama Kundalini yoga by any chance?

I used to think those videos of Chinese guys breaking bricks with their head or shins etc were fake till I learned about their breathing techniques & learned about the things I listed above.

I habe never done anything with Qigong. I have meditated and tried different pranayama over the years. I had my first spiritual Kundalini experience 15 years ago the first time I was on MDMA. I said "wow this is the best I will ever feel" then BAM. Felt like I got hit with a tractor beam of light, ecstatic bliss and body orgasmic beyond explaining, talked with "God" (turns out it was my higher self), yada yada.

Lots of cool stuff since then. Lots of misery and pain. Drug addictions. Suicidal ideation that became all encompassing, many incarcerations. Things are looking up though. I have been having different shaman types in my dreams lately, met a black jaguar spirit animal two days ago. Had a dream last night about being an ayahuasca shaman/healer. Fun stuff.
 
A vaccine against HPV is pretty effective at preventing transmission of the virus.
The available vaccination is effective in preventing infection from the HPV strain that causes cervical cancer in women.
There is no vaccination against the HPV strains responsible for anal warts - which cause anal cancer.
Over 120 HPV strains are known at this time.
 
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Feelings over facts regarding anal sex.
Take this example of recent history:

Dr. Robert Gould, a friend of homosexuals, was among the first psychiatrists to argue for the removal of homosexuality from the DSM, and as an expert witness, also gave friendly testimony for lesbians in child custody hearings.

In a January 1988 Cosmopolitan article, he explained that vaginal sex in the absence of rough sex was highly unlikely to be responsible for HIV infection.
However, this is what he had to say about anal sex:
“Anal intercourse is another matter. Because hemorrhoidal vessels are very near the surface of the anus, because the mucosa is delicate, and because the insertion of the penis in an orifice so small and tight is often traumatic, bleeding and/or lacerations may occur. And this is what makes anal intercourse a high-risk activity, regardless of whether the recipient of the penis is a man or a woman, heterosexual or gay.”

The response of homosexual activists that followed shouldn’t be surprising.
As usual, there were death threats. Additionally, lesbians from ACT-UP picketed the offices of Cosmopolitan, chanting “Cosmo kills and murderers of women.” The police had to set up barricades to prevent the lesbians from storming the office. A lesbian ACT-UP member called Dr. Gould, requesting a meeting to discuss his comments, and he invited an ACT-UP group to his home. Far from a decent discussion, Dr. Gould had to endure verbal abuse and bullying.
Additionally, he was filmed by a video crew, the footage of which ended up in a documentary titled, “Doctors, Liars, and Women.” Some APA (American Psychiatric Association) members attempted to revoke Dr. Gould's license to practice psychiatry. Dr. Gould had to defend himself in an informal meeting and managed to retain his license, but he was asked to step down from his membership on the APA's gay/lesbian committee. Dr. Gould passed away in 1998.

Dumber than Dumb
 
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I've been reading the gay doctor's handbook about anal sex.

"Repetitive anal sex may damage the internal anal sphincter, thereby preventing complete sealing of the anus, and leading to fecal mucus seepage (anal or fecal incontinence). Additionally, anal sex exacerbates fecal seepage by stimulating colonic motility, which sends feces from the colon down into the lower rectum."

"The soiling of clothes from fecal seepage is a problem for many homosexuals. 25% of homosexuals that practiced anoreceptive intercourse and 50% of AIDS-afflicted homosexuals had anal incontinence compared to a 3% rate among heterosexual men."

"To avoid soiling of clothes, homosexuals are advised to use a menstrual-type pad in the back of their underwear to absorb moisture and waste. Homosexuals with big buttocks require a fluffed-up cotton ball placed against the anal opening, together with a pad to help absorb moisture throughout the day. Medical advice for homosexuals with persistent soiling includes rectal wash-outs to remove residual feces from the anal canal after bowel movements."


[Goldstone SE. The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: a medical handbook for men (Dell Publishing, New York, NY, 1999]
(The author is an out-of-the-closet homosexual physician)


I'm no expert, but all that stuff sounds like a pain in the ass.
 
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