Okay I have to weigh in here on this one, being homosexual former prostitute excetera I can tell you that number one you didn't damage yourself that's your man's fault and you should know better don't let him f*** you like that, if it hurts you he needs to do something different or you should suggest switching roles for a second and you f*** him in a similar manner. But anyway, yeah the first time will hurt oh, there's no getting around that, the second time will be better but with all due respect I know I don't quite understand myself it feels good for guys cuz guys have prostates and that stimulation is what makes it worth it come on otherwise it's just a dick in the butt. But I've had enough women swear up and down that they love it especially the no pregnancy part oh, but I have to be you a bit of a nag to remind that you would be equally, if not more in some cases, as susceptible to any STDs as you would through vaginal intercourse. But as far as negative consequences other than that there's a few; most common negative situation I can think of with anal sex is poop dick, which is pretty literal what it is sometimes guys are pretty cool with it most of the time they're not and they to freak out. Some gay men I know go to extreme colon cleansing lengths to avoid awkward embarrassment, IE using a shower enema, a handheld enema, a water bottle , or a bidet if they are one of those upscale Queens and even will alter their diets or even take antidiuretic pills to make sure everything is clean and kosher. But if your man is legit, he will love you and anything that comes out of your body and y'all can let spontaneity back into the bedroom and not worry about that. Secondly the other issues that I can think of would be torsion, and or potential hernias. This really only go away with time, a bland diet, and preparation h. It would take a very cruel person what's an abnormally large penis and sexual temperament to do significant damage, but like the vagina, b spincter will heal itself and actually get tighter especially if one practices kegels. Thirdly the last issue I could think of as well, is a an excess of ejaculatory fluid rejected by the absorption process of the anal cavity resulting in well a discharge that has a slight chance of being involuntary dot-dot. In other words you might get want to avoid wearing a white pant suit to that white party or whatever cuz swamp bottom maybe a real issue, diarrhea usually comes with that as well. Well that's my perspective hope you find it interesting at the very least this is my second post and I hopefully we won't get banned on this website yet we'll see
