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Can someone please explain to me (a male would be good as they know what a penis orgasm feels like) how simular is this anal orgasm that people speak of?

What does it feel like? How long does it last? Is it as good as the blissful climax of blowing your load?

Im really curious but no way is anything going into my ass.
 
Hylight said:
mmm yummy yummy yummy. thats sweet, it reminds me
of a bag of gummy bears yum yum yum.
sori, i'm all crazy today.

i suppose there is nothing wrong with anal,
it is right next to canal.

i mean howard stern made a whole career out of it.
only i am sure he made it sound alot worse than it actually might not be. Duh. when your into it who is going to stop to think that you should'nt be.

i remember howard stern used to ask everyone if they did anal
until i was just to the point of, just do anal Already.

when i first started learning bout sex, i was like really ? you can't get pregnant in the buttt. lolololol. what a GIFT !
??

edit: i guess when you love someone, so does your butt.
i hear it happens, so we can all know it does.

i like the way it gets explained as the most amazing thing ever, and then on a drug forum, but sex, really !

when i read the title i thought it was the name of a city in england. it looked interesting lol. so i tried it, i just opened the thread and read it. yeh, something to do when your trying not to do something to do. YOLO bb's ! lolol

way too interesting
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Bahahaha, thanks for the laugh:)
 
Lucy20 said:
A little embarrassed posting this but then i remember my drug days and realize i have no shame:)
I just tried anal sex with my boyfriend, im in my mid 30's so im late to the party but addicted lol
My question is how often is it safe? I used Google and read horror stories of "leakage " and i definitely don't want that lol
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It's impossible to say because everyone's butthole musculature and stretchyness is different. If there are any gay male bottoms on here, they can probably advise you best. They might have anal sex daily.
 
Lucy20 said:
A little embarrassed posting this but then i remember my drug days and realize i have no shame:)
I just tried anal sex with my boyfriend, im in my mid 30's so im late to the party but addicted lol
My question is how often is it safe? I used Google and read horror stories of "leakage " and i definitely don't want that lol
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You have no reason to feel embarrassed here :)
 
augustaB said:
Horror stories are just stories invented by people who are either squeamish, prudish or just plain anti-sex.

Leakage is a complete myth. Your anus will indeed become looser and easier to penetrate, but in actual fact the stretch and exercise your anus gets will improve the muscle tone of the anus.
I enjoy anal fisting and have done so for 15 years. I have no problem with anal leakage. Although the day after I have to use the loo more than usual.
There are other potential health problems but these have mainly to do with STDs. You should also never allow an unwashed transfer from anus to vagina.
Anal sex will also reduce the likelihood of developing piles.
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Is leakage, or damage to the anus from fisting and anal sex a myth? By anal sex I mean anal intercourse with a penis or large dildo.

I have talked to two doctors about this and they told me it can happen. I know the one doctor personally as he is a friend, passiv, or bottom type and he told me how it can happen. I am not into receptive anal sex and have no desire to do it.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Is leakage, or damage to the anus from fisting and anal sex a myth? By anal sex I mean anal intercourse with a penis or large dildo.

I have talked to two doctors about this and they told me it can happen. I know the one doctor personally as he is a friend, passiv, or bottom type and he told me how it can happen. I am not into receptive anal sex and have no desire to do it.
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I think if overused or not lubed enough or trying something to big could lead to problems. We have had it a few times but its more a weekly- bi weekly treat. He is very gentle and we only start after ive had an orgasm and my body is complete jelly. He can only get 3-4 inches in and thats enough.
It has gotten a bit easier but still takes 5 minutes to slowly get it in. Poor guy don't get any satisfaction other then hearing me squeal in complete bliss lol. I can only last a couple minutes before an explosive orgasm.
Im not having any issues and he says it still looks like it did when it was a virgin
 
Lucy20 said:
how often is it safe?
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There is no such thing as safe sex. Far from it. Anal sex is dangerous, sometimes with horrific consequences. The event of internet porn in combination with the free-sex/gay activist political movement has made anal sex trendy in recent years. The reality on the ground is shocking. You ask about any gay people around here. Unfortunately, many have lost their lives. During the 80s around 200,000 (mostly young) men died suddenly in the US alone as a direct result of anal sex. During the 90s another 300,000 dead. Those figures seem unrealistic, I know. But it's very real. Anal sex is lethal. 1 in 5 MSM are currently infected with the AIDS virus.

healthland.time.com

CDC: 20% of Gay Men Are HIV-Positive, but Nearly Half Don’t Know It | TIME.com

Recent data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) show that 1 in 5 sexually active gay and bisexual men in America are HIV-positive but that 44% of them don't know it.
healthland.time.com

HIV/AIDS Among Gay and Bisexual Men | CDC

Learn more about HIV/AIDS risk, HIV Testing, and prevention efforts among MSM.
www.cdc.gov www.cdc.gov

There are things worse than death. Anal sex is a great way to learn this first hand:

"Within the last 5 years, the incidence of anal cancer within the gay male community and MSM has risen by as much as an astounding 1800%"
www.lavendermagazine.com

The Next Gay Plague: Anal Cancer | Lavender Magazine

by Paul Mittelstadt, MD Anal cancer in gay men or men having sex with men (MSM) has the appearance of being the next major health crisis within the gay community. This disease has been discussed for years within the medical community of the USA but up to this point has received very little press ...
www.lavendermagazine.com

You need to see what I am talking about. Wake up to your self. Take a long hard look at the fire that you are playing with:

NSFW:
 
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Well i don't have to worry about aids because we live together and are very happy.

I think an NSF tag is needed on that butt sugery.
 
Derschieber said:
There is no such thing as safe sex. Far from it. Anal sex is dangerous, sometimes with horrific consequences. The event of internet porn in combination with the free-sex/gay activist political movement has made anal sex trendy in recent years. The reality on the ground is shocking. You ask about any gay people around here. Unfortunately, many have lost their lives. During the 80s around 200,000 (mostly young) men died suddenly in the US alone as a direct result of anal sex. During the 90s another 300,000 dead. Those figures seem unrealistic, I know. But it's very real. Anal sex is lethal. 1 in 5 MSM are currently infected with the AIDS virus.

healthland.time.com

CDC: 20% of Gay Men Are HIV-Positive, but Nearly Half Don’t Know It | TIME.com

Recent data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) show that 1 in 5 sexually active gay and bisexual men in America are HIV-positive but that 44% of them don't know it.
healthland.time.com

HIV/AIDS Among Gay and Bisexual Men | CDC

Learn more about HIV/AIDS risk, HIV Testing, and prevention efforts among MSM.
www.cdc.gov www.cdc.gov

There are things worse than death. Anal sex is a great way to learn this first hand:

"Within the last 5 years, the incidence of anal cancer within the gay male community and MSM has risen by as much as an astounding 1800%"
www.lavendermagazine.com

The Next Gay Plague: Anal Cancer | Lavender Magazine

by Paul Mittelstadt, MD Anal cancer in gay men or men having sex with men (MSM) has the appearance of being the next major health crisis within the gay community. This disease has been discussed for years within the medical community of the USA but up to this point has received very little press ...
www.lavendermagazine.com

You need to see what I am talking about. Wake up to your self. Take a long hard look at the fire that you are playing with:
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First of all, your data is ten years old. The most recent statistics I could find shows that the numbers are going down in almost every demographic.

"20% of Gay Men are HIV Positive, but nearly half don't know it."
Really? That's very interesting.

That's some nice clickbait and all, but when you actually read the article the statement starts to fall apart. The study they are talking about only tested 8,000 gay AND bisexual individuals. According to the most conservative statistics the LGBT population is at least 4% in the United States, but many say a more accurate estimate is 1 in 10.

That means that there is somewhere between 13,000,000 and 32,000,000 LGBTs. They tested AT MOST 0.06% of the total population and they admit in the article that they deliberately targeted the cities with the highest known infection rates.

A lot of times people use the term homophobic to mean bigoted, but I think you are literally homophobic. Have you gone through some sort of trauma that caused this? Gay men do have lots of anal sex, but as you can see from the OP who is a heterosexual female in a monogamous relationship, there are others who like it or are interesting in trying.
 
mal3volent said:
many say
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therefor it is?

mal3volent said:
I think you are
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therefore I am?

Is that some kind of God-complex? Why should anyone believe what you say, when you're only concerned with maintaining a virtuous appearance.
Anal sex is playing with fire.
100s of 1000s of people filling the waiting rooms of doctors and therapists who have been burned inside and out will undoubtedly take comfort in knowing you're out there militating on their behalf.
lmfao
 
Derschieber said:
therefor it is?


therefore I am?

Is that some kind of God-complex? Why should anyone believe what you say, when you're only concerned with maintaining a virtuous appearance.
Anal sex is playing with fire.
100s of 1000s of people filling the waiting rooms of doctors and therapists who have been burned inside and out will undoubtedly take comfort in knowing you're out there militating on their behalf.
lmfao
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Impressive response! I love how I dismantled your argument and that's all you have to say.
 
Derschieber said:
therefor it is?


therefore I am?

Is that some kind of God-complex? Why should anyone believe what you say, when you're only concerned with maintaining a virtuous appearance.
Anal sex is playing with fire.
100s of 1000s of people filling the waiting rooms of doctors and therapists who have been burned inside and out will undoubtedly take comfort in knowing you're out there militating on their behalf.
lmfao
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I visited my doctor today and i asked him this question so hopefully you can become less scared.
As long as nothing to large, enough lube and not to rough it is perfectly SAFE . Just use a condom if its with a hook up. Im in a commited relationship so i don't have that worry.
And ive been doing it weekly and zero issues at all. Just know what it is and take the proper precautions.
So anyone reading this don't be scared by this guy
 
Lucy20 said:
it is perfectly SAFE
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No doctor told you this. You are lying.
Condoms are around 50% effective against STDs, and completely useless against HPV - the leading cause of people having their bum amputated.
Condoms are not rated for anal sex. It says so on most packets.

"so hopefully you can become less scared" Your imaginary trip to the doctor was in vain. People are no more "scared" of a rotting animal carcass than they are of raw sewerage. It's plain old common sense not to go stabbing putrid things, such as human feces with your penis, if you value your health.
 
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Maybe it is just me but the only woman I've been with that was quite happy for daily anal sex seems to still have her arse in one piece (she went my a photo on email the other day when she was using her buttplugs) & all the anal I've had with her has given me no diease.

I just don't get it how the gays can fist each other & get bummed in a most brutal way & be ok?
 
Derschieber said:
No doctor told you this. You are lying.
Condoms are around 50% effective against STDs, and completely useless against HPV - the leading cause of people having their bum amputated.
Condoms are not rated for anal sex. It says so on most packets.

"so hopefully you can become less scared" Your imaginary trip to the doctor was in vain. People are no more "scared" of a rotting animal carcass than they are of raw sewerage. It's plain old common sense not to go stabbing putrid things, such as human feces with your penis, if you value your health.
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You do realize there are gay doctors who have anal sex daily right?
And i think you missed the "committed relationship " part of my post. No need for an std lecture or to call me a liar or imply im disgusting .
I bet you are alone and miserable, sorry
 
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