December Flower
Bluelighter
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I'm at a miss how this is countering my argument. Is it an addition?Hah! I am male and I get objectified by bisexual and gay men. It has been happening for decades starting when I was super young, and when I was a teen I knew what it was. I ignore most of it or just basically tell most of them no thanks as it happens in public places and I am not there to find sexual partners, people to date, etc.
A lipstick friend that is hyper-effeminate and a part time drag queen likes wearing slutty visible underclothes like thongs, jockstraps, g-strings, etc. under his preppie clothes and has NO SHAME about being totally and completely passiv/bottom and in his words he once told me, 'I love to take on the feminine role in bed sexually with a man, and in a partnership/marriage as I would be the relationship partner that is domestic, cooks, cleans the home, etc. while the other man works.'
Sorry, not meaning to be mean, just at a loss.
Yes, males are very visual beings. We take most of our arousal from what we can see.
I've heard males call a female "The perfect woman" from just seeing her tits, and something like that didn't just happen once; we're simple like that, I guess :D
Also gay/bisexual men are more often concerned about their looks, as well, at least much more than regular men. Probably too because they know they're being judged by other men, and men are fucking visual.