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What the hell am I dong wrong? (Dating websites)

Maybe I'm wrong I wouldn't know. I'm just basing my opinion of what I know about them through other people.
Most of the time your not going to get any chicks and if you do she probably look wise is on the bottom of the food chain. And I know you guys will bash me on the last part about ugly chicks but whatever.
 
gr33n3y3z said:
Maybe I'm wrong I wouldn't know. I'm just basing my opinion of what I know about them through other people.
Most of the time your not going to get any chicks and if you do she probably look wise is on the bottom of the food chain. And I know you guys will bash me on the last part about ugly chicks but whatever.
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I have been on a dating website (out of curiosity was looking to see if anyone i knew was on there) and looks wise, they are definitely not ugly*.. it's a social networking site of the dating kind.. They're just regular people.

How old are you greeneyez? 14? :p

*Which is very subjective in the first place.
 
turning 14 in a few weeks.=D

Ahem... fake pictures probably.

On a real note I'm 25 I guess it's for crowd a bit older than me,I'm guessing mid thirties and above.

Plus I've been in a committed relationship for about 6 years now. So I have no business on those sites. Hmm but now I'm curious to see if I recognize anyone I know ha!

And for the "hot" chicks on those sites they're in it for a "sugar daddy".
 
gr33n3y3z said:
And for the "hot" chicks on those sites they're in it for a "sugar daddy".
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Because if a woman is attractive she must be a bitch ?
Because attractive women don't ever get sick of the tools that try and chat them up in clubs ?
Because an attractive woman couldn't possibly too busy juggling work and child-care to hang around in noisy dark rooms and have drunks use cheesy lines on them ?
Because in 2013 when everyone has 24/7 access to the internet via a phone our way of socializing wont ever evolve ?

Your 'too cool for school' attitude isn't fooling anyone as we can see that on at least 649 occasions you too have found time to talk to strangers online.
 
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I think your read a bit too deep into that sentence.

Yes I'm too cool for school 8). I must be offending lots of guys in here.

*walks away while laughing at thread*
 
Not offending me.
I just think that was a sexist comment.
I also pointed out the flaws in your logic.

So today was a school day. Even if you are too cool for it
 
I like your edit BTW,

look I just find this thread is getting no where anytime soon, no real advise for OP.
Like I said in a pervious post there are many threads just like this. Maybe he should look into them.
 
online dating is a bit weird BUT it can work out quite well

sometimes meeting people in real life is difficult and time consuming. also if you go to a bar and meet someone it is NO different to someone you meet on the internet. both are strangers and could be axe murderers/the next donald trump

you get a different demographic of people on different sites, looking for different things

rather than being narrow minded it is worth exploring all your options

you have nothing to lose on the internet. its a distorted reality where photogenicity rules and real life charisma doesn't kick in until you get your date.

but it can be useful especially for gays

OP as for the points about the messages you send out- your avatar on bluelight makes me think that you are a troll simply because only childish people think visual swearing is cool. the name suggest you are a testicle. when on a dating site you need to sell yourself as a desirable commodity. so what image you put forward does count...
 
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gr33n3y3z said:
You see I don't have "beef" with you, but you have ragged on me to in the past.
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Unless you're talking about the train wreck of a joke thread I made in which I was jokingly ragging on EVERYONE you must be talking about something that happened 2 1/2 years ago. In which case I'm sorry but I don't even remember you I just recently rejoined the site. But anyways proceed on your vendetta against someone that doesn't even know you... You don't want that hate to burn you up inside.
 
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Haha I didn't even join this site 2 1/2 ago. I'm just saying we came across each other somewhere on BL and personally I found you to act like a dick/Troll. I have no vendetta against you. I just find this thread to be a joke. Nothing burns inside me maybe but some alcohol but not hate "hate" is a strong word I don't hate you.
 
pofacedhoe said:
OP as for the points about the messages you send out- your avatar on bluelight makes me think that you are a troll simply because only childish people think visual swearing is cool. the name suggest you are a testicle. when on a dating site you need to sell yourself as a desirable commodity. so what image you put forward does count...
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There's only one troll in this thread, trust me. My username and avatar are ancient and since I've been back I've seen plenty of other people with silly avatars. And do you really think I'm using those for a dating site? C'mon.
 
justinsayno said:
Because if a woman is attractive she must be a bitch ?
Because attractive women don't ever get sick of the tools that try and chat them up in clubs ?
Because an attractive woman couldn't possibly too busy juggling work and child-care to hang around in noisy dark rooms and have drunks use cheesy lines on them ?
Because in 2013 when everyone has 24/7 access to the internet via a phone our way of socializing wont ever evolve ?

Your 'too cool for school' attitude isn't fooling anyone as we can see that on at least 649 occasions you too have found time to talk to strangers online.
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Don't mind her, she's just a rude judgemental person which anyone can see... Like looks are everything anyways. Everyone I've ever been with probably wouldn't have been considered "hot" by society's superficial standards, but you know what? They were fun to be around and had awesome personalities. You can be the hottest chick ever to most guys, but if you're ugly on the inside it don't mean shit.
 
justinsayno said:
This isnt always true. Some people just dont enjoy pubs or clubs. Some people have kids and work long hours so meeting people offline is difficult.
The idea that internet dating as a means of making that first contact is only for loosers doesnt really apply in 2013. The irony of people banging on about what social butterflies they are in a forum never fails to make me smile
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There are so many things wrong with your reply I don't even know where to begin. You can meet women anywhere, not just bars. Internet dating isn't just 'loosers'. And I'm far from a social butterfly.

OP, work on yourself before trying to get any girl. That should be a secondary goal in your life. It certainly won't fill any void you have, 'complete' you, etc etc. You seem to lack a bit of confidence. Work on improving several aspects of your life and the rest will sort itself out.
 
nuttynutskin said:
Don't mind her, she's just a rude judgemental person which anyone can see... Like looks are everything anyways. Everyone I've ever been with probably wouldn't have been considered "hot" by society's superficial standards, but you know what? They were fun to be around and had awesome personalities. You can be the hottest chick ever to most guys, but if you're ugly on the inside it don't mean shit.
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I get what you are saying, I'm not trying to be rude or judgmental it's just the thread had a whole bad vibe as soon as I entered it.
By no means do I take back what I have posted I'm literally a smart ass just pointing out facts.
 
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