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What’s the longest time you were without sex?

Longest I went was about a year, and it felt weird at first, but eventually, I just got used to it. I was in a similar mindset—didn't really care to put effort into meeting someone, and casual hookups didn't feel worth it. What actually got me out of it was stumbling across kik seuraa. It felt pretty low-pressure, and I ended up chatting with some cool people.
 
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Way too long. Should probably make more of an effort really, before WW3 starts and we all run out of toilet paper.
 
SpiralusSancti said:
So? What was your longest dry spell, willing celibate, some problem causing you not be able to have or to want sex, anything whatsoever…..

Mine is approaching year. Far, far longer than ever before. If someone told me not too long ago I’ll not have sex for a year as long before old days or forced because some serious reason I would dismiss it as something not in any way in a spirit of me.

I’m currently in a state of mind where I wouldn’t mind to have sex with some beautiful girl but don’t put any kind of energy, any whatsoever in that direction. And having sex with some crazy bitch soul eater ex or new is now out of question, even with someone with whom sex is mindblowing. But I’m not 100% sure what all caused me to feel so. One of last sexual experiences I had, or at least not too long before I stopped having sex made me think – hell, this is it, I reached a point where there ain't left fantasy I at least partly didn’t realised. And so I started thinking about in how many problems thinking with my dick got me and that it ain’t worth anymore. Another thing that bothered me is that it was long, long time since I last time had “best sex ever”, and I think that to have it again it needs to be with someone I’m madly in love and pure beauty, novelty or having mind blowing sex because it’s spiced with great drugs just wont cut it anymore. Still all of those would certainly be great but to seek it actively is not nowhere the top of the list of my current life priorities. Sounds kinda right and nice mindset? But I wonder is it that I also (that pronounced) fucked up my testosterone levels or whatever.

I’m wondering did anyone experienced something like this and than after some time just jumpstared sex life? I don’t miss sex more as more time passes and even ideas that popped to my mind first few months rather regularly – like fuck it, I’ll just call hear and get laid, are not there anymore and that’s kinda great as I wont fuck up my life with wrong person again (at least not the one I know already).

Time will show if my drug diet is wrong or if some not 100% unresolved ex relationship is in fact that mad love I need to have best sex ever or if I’m more mature now or....
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While I was married it was 2 years. He wouldn't touch me or even sleep next to me. Eventually the truth always comes out. Messed up thing is that it was right after we got married. We had been together for 7 years at that point.
 
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