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What’s the longest time you were without sex?

deficiT said:
Been over a year for me. Probably the longest in my life aside from growing up. I must be getting old or something because I don't really give af anymore it's kind of nice
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at some point men experience a testosterone dip which effectively allows you to start thinking with your brain as opposed to with your dick, which is often experienced as liberating (especially with hindsight)
 
deficiT said:
I must be getting old or something because I don't really give af anymore it's kind of nice
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I don't think it has only to do with age (though the hormonal aspect is def there). Life experience and inner growth contribute to that, too.

I never was much into sex because I seldom felt it was worth all the trouble and drama that is attached to it. It was a subconscious thing for long, but I'm week aware of it now, and I'm okay with it.
Would I give a pea about labels I would say I'm asexual.
 
It’s probably on earlier pages.
It’s been almost 16 years for me.
I frequently have sex in my dreams and wake up to major league jerks.
 
ions said:
It’s probably on earlier pages.
It’s been almost 16 years for me.
I frequently have sex in my dreams and wake up to major league jerks.
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You're on the Varsity goon squad eh
 
Been around 7 years for me now, am absolutely 100% ok with that. Had the opportunity a few times in that time

Have most definitely not missed out in any way and had a whole lotta fun with sex (lovemaking and just 'sex' too) for over 30 years until something just shifted in my head. Am not ruling anything out for the future, if it feels right and it happens all well and good (and I do have an admirer at the moment it would appear... gawd knows why, the damn fool) but I couldn't care less either way thesedays
 
I went through a dry spell that lasted about nine months, and at first, it felt strange. I thought I’d be desperate for connection, but honestly, I used the time to focus on myself and figure out what I really wanted.
 
I think about seven years for me. I don’t really have an interest. Dated a few people in college, and even when we are quite compatible it is something of a chore. I can’t say it wasn’t mostly positive experiences, but just didn’t stick with me like most people.
 
Idk maybe you should hold a homeless person responsible (as a man, of course)

I'm angender and asexual, I want nothing to do with you
 
SpiralusSancti said:
So? What was your longest dry spell, willing celibate, some problem causing you not be able to have or to want sex, anything whatsoever…..
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Who cares how long [i serious don t know, its hazey],
but they assumed Epilepsy after 3 stress/ insomnia induced seizures.
It wasn t they just dumb mean even the MRI/ CT said no Epilepsy.
Dumbness was high, humanity was proportional to the high grade of dumbness ultra low.
And they just don t give a shit about someone not cumming. Not their problem.
Nothing really was, even if meds didn t work and i got another seizure who cares.
And this was a super specialized neurogical institute aimed on Epilepsy, 🖕

Horn, erection were un-effected only the last part. |So bout 2.5 years absolute celibacy].
Though with drugs, not Viagra as erections where not the problem.
Levetiracetam and Valproic Acid were, absolut cum killers, though the last one can be ...
overpowered with drugs. Don t know why maybe the determination to cum helped along with some:
Stimulant and Booze.

So that medical shit i stoppd DIY, so at least i would have some use for my left and right handy.
That allready been doing the job 10 year as my ex liked to deprive me of sex.
Emotional abuse, was one of her tools.

Discovered it after sadly, or i would def have tried to just fuck around. Cheat on her.
 
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This is all dependent on where you live.

You can live in places where if you are a single man over 35 you are never getting laid.
 
I'm doing it right now
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I'm almost as much of a horndog in my 50s as I was in my teens, but I'm just not out looking for it the way that I was back then. I guess I have different priorities now.

In general, I was never much into hookups. Except for a few one-night stands (which I found to be pretty unfulfilling), the other women that I've made love to were serious relationships.

Hey, call me a hopeless romantic! :p
 
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