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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

zephyr said:
^ Internet dating is just the norm these days. I had a crack at it a couple of times when I was in Melbourne. I didn't meet anyone I wanted to see again- wanting to meet someone special and actually finding them are really hard put in sync.

I went on a date here in Queensland with a guy who I ended up seeing for a little while and we have been good friends for about a year and a half- so no romance again but something good came out of it :)

As for now- I'm not single and have not been for a while. He's most probably the love of my life. This is our second time around and now neither of us do drugs and have our shit together we are really tight.

He is the only person on Earth who has never called me "weird" and has that quirky side of his personality that would be construed by others as odd. <3



I was wondering how you were doing lately Trancegirlie! Hello!
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as i read i can almost hear you saying that, with conviction. awesome stuff lizzy.
 
Right... so i'm definitely not dating. Since my big breakup i wanted to be celibate and just work on myself and then boys come along that are all lovely and into me and i get sucked in. Then i say that ok i'll see you but nothing serious then they get all serious and weird and i have to break it off. Then i think hey maybe just a good fuck buddy would be good. I mean, i'm a grown woman and i need sex so whats the harm when you're open and honest about it and meeting your sexual needs and then i think "nah fuck that, i really dont want to be having casual sex" so decide that i just want to be celibate again.

ugh

The thing is i guess is that i have changed so much in the last year and what i take on now that i just wont settle for anything but the best these days. I dont rescue or fix and i certyainly dont want just anyone for the sack of being with someone. I used to just go with it when someone was into me but my self confidence has risen these days that i know that i will come across many people that will be into cos i am a great person (you can take this as me being up myself but that not what i'm saying)

Only salmon! and i dont think i'm really ready to eat anyway....
 
I've found a place on the central coast thats like the Bondi hotel at 3am (ie full of the tragic and desperate)! Sad thing is it was only midnight but hey if your looking to pick up and don't really care what if your a bloke..
 
I just want a winter girlfriend so I don't have to spoon a hot water bottle. It's fucking cold.
 
Singles thread posters: Please pardon me my bluntness but you wonderful motherfuckers are missing the point.

We are single.

Unfortunately your psychological conditioning and your biological imperative will hammer you with the message that being single is a tormented state of dissatisfaction that must be cured.

That's bullshit.

Being single is a time in your life when you will socialise more, evolve faster and grow as a person. Your singeldom will present you with more opportunities to experience the world than being locked into a static social situation.

Its not always easy but it is packed with awesome.

Revel in it.

Lovingly yours,
M4dd0g
 
m4dd0g said:
Being single is a time in your life when you will socialise more, evolve faster and grow as a person. Your singeldom will present you with more opportunities to experience the world than being locked into a static social situation.

Lovingly yours,
M4dd0g
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Cool story Dave
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Hee hee, its not a diss on relationships whippet ;)

But you must admit that evolution is a by-product of a diverse and challenging environment. If i'd stayed in Canberra with my long term girlfriend i wouldnt have met the people i have, lived in the places i have and certainly wouldnt be struggling to learn french right now.

For the record french is hard but french girls are easy =D
 
m4dd0g said:
Singles thread posters: Please pardon me my bluntness but you wonderful motherfuckers are missing the point.

We are single.

Unfortunately your psychological conditioning and your biological imperative will hammer you with the message that being single is a tormented state of dissatisfaction that must be cured.

That's bullshit.

Being single is a time in your life when you will socialise more, evolve faster and grow as a person. Your singeldom will present you with more opportunities to experience the world than being locked into a static social situation.

Its not always easy but it is packed with awesome.

Revel in it.

Lovingly yours,
M4dd0g
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Thanks for reminding me. %)
 
as much as i like em, it be a true statement, in relationship = out of time for other activities (eg. riding bikes, as a few of u seem to like to do?)
 
Awesome post, Maddog! Couldn't agree more! I'm as happy as a pig in shit being single again, definitely a blessing in disguise when I got dumped last year :D
 
So this is my big come back to the forum after two years of MIA ... single again after 3 years. The break up was coming for a long time. I'm so relieved to be a free spirit once again :D
 
princess_kitti said:
So this is my big come back to the forum after two years of MIA ... single again after 3 years. The break up was coming for a long time. I'm so relieved to be a free spirit once again :D
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I can't wait until you're back in Melbourne and we can be free spirits together!
 
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