Interesting that you would find memantine at all recreational. I used 100mg of the stuff and the best way I could describe it was "DXM lite" - even at 20mg, I got that weird feeling that DXM gives you that you have a medicine head and you feel like you're swollen (best way I can describe it, like your body feels larger than it actually is) but I stopped messing with it when I started getting respiratory depression from it. I probably am the "weirdo" that Help?!?! is referring to
It was a godsend for tolerance and withdrawal though. I used it for benzos and alcohol both but the respiratory issues turned me off of it. It also has some cardiac properties when mixed with some substances so be careful. I had a negative reaction with known-good MDMA (meaning I had consumed those same moon rocks from the same batch and it was in a cobalt vial in a wooden chest that was closed in my closet like the rest of my chems) that ended up giving me a significantly elevated pulse (160 if I remember correctly). I also had a similar cardiac event with 4-HO-MET which never had caused any sort of bodyload to me before - I ended up having to abort that experience with Klonopin which didn't work after 3mg so I went to alcohol as a last resort.
The literature that came with the box did warn that cardiac events were seen in clinical trials (Sun Pharma brand if I remember correctly) - I wasn't the only one who reported adverse cardiac events with it either so be careful pushing the dose and definitely be careful taking any substances within a few days of using it given its extremely long half-life.
It did have a curious effect on alcohol though. It added a sort of blissful euphoria to alcohol on top of the fact that it abolished tolerance to nothing. I went from needing a 12 pack to catch a buzz to getting a euphoric buzz off of two beers and I was trashed after five.
I was using 40mg once a day for awhile.
I use DXM now for tolerance prevention and reversal and I just avoid other substances altogether, at least until I'm benzo free.