felix I know you usually got sound advice but I gotta respectfully disagree w/you here. I understand you are sayin it outta concern, but on the real, its his decision, and his life will not end. Your logic is the same shit people apply to college and the decision not to go. makin it sound like its a horrible, immature, stupid, ignorant, naieve, DANGEROUS idea that only a fool would even consider. And that anybody with any sense would realize "the sensible thing" and decide to stick to the plain ol way shits 'supposed' to be.
People make a much bigger deal of it than it really is. you say he got at least 40 years in the workplace. In 40 years the people in charge of the workplace will be HIS generation, with 50% of them havin tattoos themselves.
Usually the people who say shit like this , like it will DRASTICALLY alter the entire course of somebodys life, never seen someone who succeeded despite their non totally "normal" ways. the bigger point of what youre suggestin is that to succeed in life you absolutely have to conform to societal norms. And it just aint like that. Maybe to be a stockbroker or a CEO. but the truth in life is not everybody wants to follow that path. And not everbody "comes around eventually" and goes to business school or becomes a insurance agent or whatever. Not everybody needs to follow those unwritten rules about how you WILL or WONT be able to get ahead if you DO or DONT do exactly this thing, you feel me? to the people who do choose to do that, its fine. The world needs people like you too. people who will do what they are told, who will move up in a corporation of their choice, or whatever. People who want to never dye their hair or get a tattoo , people who like to put up a "professional" front, who dont mind doin what they do. But, the world also needs people who aint followin all the rules, so dont say that just because you believe shit should be that way, that somebody else is also bound by those same rules. I love knowin that no matter where I go and what I do, i can always find a job somwhere, cuz i always manage to get by. whether its some crappy work that nobody else wants to do, or by talkin my way into a position that youd never imagine Id have, I dont stress it. meanwhile people are out there stressin their lifes away worryin about whether they should do somethin that they truly deeply want to do in their heart and feel scared to do it cuz maybe someone might not like it. FUCK EM!