How you know it's him? You not aware of what the NSO Group & the IDF use & is called Pegasus?
Spyware is the least of your worries, tbh I'd smile if someone did that shit to me & they saw some of the stuff on my phone etc.
TOR was made by the American Defence branch, you can't win in this game, I bet what the NSA/GCHQ/ North Korea/IDF etc have which we have no idea about today makes Pegasus look like a bad fucking joke.
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@Arnold has a damn smart dog, if it went to war between you pair that dog would fuck you up in a second, rip your limbs off & make them into a pie while wearing a Chef outfit & walking on it's back-paws then call him to eat in a secret coded bark system only they understand.