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I forgot my girlfriend (for more than 6 months) her last name. She has different nationality and here last name is really impossible to pronounce and hard to remember... so I never made the efforts to practice it... since you never adress a close person with their last name anyway...

this morning she asked me for her last name and I typed it wrong...

How big of a problem am I in now? :)

I already tried to make it up by buying her a special box of chocolate with a small text including her name :)
 
Pagey said:
Pfft. You'll be back ;)

I've got such an awkward situation coming up - I'm going to this concert on saturday with a group of friends which'll include my ex, who's by now made it abundantly clear he's not over me at all. It so happens that the drummer in the band that'll be playing is a newly found FWB who I'm kinda planning on leaving with after the show...I dunno if I should warn my ex or just kinda...leave while he's not looking...hah
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Leave while he's not looking. That's what I'd do, to avoid any awkwardness. Go have fun!!!
 
Psyduck said:
oohoh

I forgot my girlfriend (for more than 6 months) her last name. She has different nationality and here last name is really impossible to pronounce and hard to remember... so I never made the efforts to practice it... since you never adress a close person with their last name anyway...

this morning she asked me for her last name and I typed it wrong...

How big of a problem am I in now? :)

I already tried to make it up by buying her a special box of chocolate with a small text including her name :)
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Yeah, my husband spelled my FIRST name wrong on like every card maybe seven years into our relationship? I just looked at it as another one of his quirks, it's not like he did it because he didn't care. If she is cool she'll get over it.
 
awesome Toucan!!!!!

Beachcat I just started workin out too and I was like too sore to move yesterday haha.

Been trying to strike a good balance between relationships between social time and time to be alone. A friend had been coming over every day after work but I was starting to feel like I need to unwind alone most weekdays, So I set up that boundary.


As for my crush things are going great. Last weekend a friend from work took a pic of us and she posed for it by putting her hand on my chest and looking dead at me with this seductive look while i looked at the camera, she deleted it the second she saw it but I looked so cool in it, sorry i had to brag. She hit me up on my day off to see if I was gonna do open mic, so I went and got to go have a drink with just her before we met some other people from work, I was mad nervous.
Then yesterday she texted me just out of the blue on her day off asking me about some music to work out to (see excercise is all ready paying off with the ladies lol). We got to texting sporadically over the next 3 hours.
today she texted me again on her day off while I was at work.

Theres no doubt in my mind that theres something there. Funny when I really like a girl I can interpret any clear cut advance as a enigmatic action, time to get my head outta my ass and own the fact that she likes me.
Something funny happened at work today and im thinkin I should call her just to chat and I wanna tell her the story.

EDIT: she asked me to walk her to her car today. I got nervous and didnt even hug her goodbye (face palm).
but today at the club she got all smashed and was just huggin on everyone from work, she grabbed me by the hand and we held hands till I found my friend who lives nearby and asked him to take her to crash at his place.
So tommorw when I walk her to her car i wrote a lil rap saying how i feel. I think she will love it and if not it will be a cool story of how I told the most sexy girl at my work i liked her through rap.
 
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Urg, sometimes even the nicest of guys can be jerks!
We're arguing over cleaning the apartment. Seriously. He doesn't put things the way I think they should go (aka put lids on bottles that have lids, put dirty dishes in the sink and not on clean towels, etc.) and he gets mad because a) the water spills when I pick up bottles when they have lids half on half off and I presume they are on and b) I drip water over the floor because I can't get to the clean towels to dry my hands off cuz his dirty dishes are all over them.

I know, I really have very little to complain about.
But now he's being a jerk and ignoring me. We were supposed to go out for a walk tonight. But then he's just like "I'm going for a walk" and leaves the apartment. Nice....

#endrant

I'll feel less angry tomorrow. I may be PMS'ing, who knows.
 
Captain.Heroin said:
I'm having such an amazing time in my life at the moment. :)
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Always good to hear :D

Got my boyfriend flowers today. I don't know why, but he loves getting flowers, and I don't. I do not understand them at all but hey it makes him happy.
We tried a bit of bondage type stuff last weekend, it was fun. I got this thing where it straps me to the bed (very lightly and I can easily escape if I need to!!! very beginners stuff) so that was exciting. I was hoping to have some more fun this weekend but he has to do work on Saturday so he's going to bed early... bla... (lol) I'm just going to go party instead. Might as well. I'm not sure when we're going to have another weekend for sex, hopefully soon!
 
Captain.Heroin said:
I'm having such an amazing time in my life at the moment. :)
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hey. That's great. Me too! Kind of. I just got my license yesterday and got insurance today. Man, I haven't been a legal driver since I was 21. Tommorow I go kick it with a hot girl, and I got a job lined up. Also, I jumped on the scale today, and was 208. That's up 16 pounds since I got out. Fuck yeah, muscle. Everything is coming together.
 
llama112 said:
Always good to hear :D

Got my boyfriend flowers today. I don't know why, but he loves getting flowers, and I don't. I do not understand them at all but hey it makes him happy.
We tried a bit of bondage type stuff last weekend, it was fun. I got this thing where it straps me to the bed (very lightly and I can easily escape if I need to!!! very beginners stuff) so that was exciting. I was hoping to have some more fun this weekend but he has to do work on Saturday so he's going to bed early... bla... (lol) I'm just going to go party instead. Might as well. I'm not sure when we're going to have another weekend for sex, hopefully soon!
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Awesome. Haha.


My boyfriend and I celebrated another month together yesterday. I didn't give him flowers, though. I surprised him with a threesome with a model friend of mine. Best girlfriend ever.
 
Best girl friend ever. Yup.


I will never get another girl flowers again. Last time I did that shit, she just kind of looked at me like I was an idiot and said"........thanks"
never felt more embarrassed.
 
Nah. I think it's just outdated is all.

Next time I'll be like "hey, wanna go to france real quick?"
 
modelskinny said:
Awesome. Haha.


My boyfriend and I celebrated another month together yesterday. I didn't give him flowers, though. I surprised him with a threesome with a model friend of mine. Best girlfriend ever.
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I think you just might be.

Animal Mother said:
Best girl friend ever. Yup.


I will never get another girl flowers again. Last time I did that shit, she just kind of looked at me like I was an idiot and said"........thanks"
never felt more embarrassed.
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Aw :( agreed with model, don't let that ruin it for everyone...I like getting flowers and I'm not particularly old-fashioned at all.

Animal Mother said:
Nah. I think it's just outdated is all.

Next time I'll be like "hey, wanna go to france real quick?"
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You should know they give flowers even more often here :D
 
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