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Some girls like flowers, some don't. Don't let it ruin flower giving in the future. Your next girlfriend may LOVE receiving flowers!!
 
I like to give out flowers, albeit rarely, and always according to Floriography. For me to get flowers for people, it's a very meaningful thing, and if my partner doesn't appreciate it I'll never put the effort in again.
 
Aw :( agreed with model, don't let that ruin it for everyone...I like getting flowers and I'm not particularly old-fashioned at all.



You should know they give flowers even more often here :D
I need to go there then. I hear you guys serve duck more often too.
Some girls like flowers, some don't. Don't let it ruin flower giving in the future. Your next girlfriend may LOVE receiving flowers!!
The next one just needs to LOVE recieving head. I don't really like flower bouquets. I just did that because I wanted to do something nice for that particular person. What else is cool to give besides flowers?
 
The next one just needs to LOVE recieving head. I don't really like flower bouquets. I just did that because I wanted to do something nice for that particular person. What else is cool to give besides flowers?

Don't *most* females love getting oral????? lol

Oh yeah, I don't understand the appeal of flowers, but I give them to my boyfriend sometimes cuz he loves them. He doesn't give them to me because it is really just wasted on me :( There are so many cool things to give besides flowers! An easy one is chocolates! Also, I heard some people like plants instead of flowers. I guess they are more practical (they don't die in a couple days). My boyfriend has found me quite a few little cute things to give me just to show he cares. He got these super awesome koala ears headband one time. That was like, the best gift ever. (Um, I like koalas). You obviously have to know your partner for something like that. But even like cute little teddy bears! Adorable! lol
 
So, I went out with this hot girl today.

had alot of fun. Great sense of humor and taste in beer and clothing. This ex con had a great time. Pretty much coasting on cloud 9 right now.
 
That is awesome, Animal Mother. I know you have been looking forward to some female companionship.

Sorry I haven't been around much, I have been SO busy...today, however, is a grey, rainy day, so I am going to hang out and do nothing all day. I am really looking forward to it!
 
^ that sounds wonderful, enjoy <3

i have three days away from work so am hoping to cram in a bunch of housework, cooking, music, reading and i bought an antique wardrobe ive been dying to strip back and sand and paint in antique white for my daughters bedroom. she also has her best friend staying overnight tonight so suggested to my SO that we light the firepit and get the girls to cook some franks and smores on the open flames. a colleague also informed me that there are two planets in alignment atm that are highly visible so will have to take the scope outdoors and brave the winters cold for some night time fun. :D

...kytnism...:|
 
My ex and I were together for two years. We broke up in March, and it was beyond heartbreaking to me. But! ..I learned today that she just got married.

She went batshit crazy man!

LOL.

I kinda feel absolved of everything.
 
How long should a guy wait before asking a girl to be exclusive? Like 2-3 months of dating?

I always assumed that if two people liked each other and were dating that the aim was already to be exclusive.

Do you really have to wait? Can't you just ask?
 
My boyfriend told me he was falling in love with me last night. It's the first time he's ever said it, and I couldn't be any damn happier.

Awww I'm so happy for you <3

My ex and I were together for two years. We broke up in March, and it was beyond heartbreaking to me. But! ..I learned today that she just got married.

Ummm... wow!!! Intense. Glad you got out of that one!

How long should a guy wait before asking a girl to be exclusive? Like 2-3 months of dating?

Do people "ask" these days? It's different in every situation. I was hanging out / sleeping with my boyfriend starting in April and I don't think we called each other boyfriend/girlfriend til September. I think that was a long time though. Neither of us were into labels. We were exclusive from around April onwards though. I would say that, if you're hanging out regularly, that it should be after about a month or two?? Unless there is a reason you're taking things slow (ex. one person just got out of a relationship)

invited a girl from work to dinner. she said no. i want to die.

Awww :( I'm sorry. There are soooo many girls out there. Keep trying!!! <3
 
I got shot down by a girl at a bar today!I never understood why people flirt to that extent then say no to continuing beyond that? Why the effort?
oh well though.
how was every ones day?


@kaywholed
hey, at least we got out there though. A for for effort lol.

@bob
good question. I never really have known the answer and it has resulted in me letting a few girls down that thought they were going to be more than a fuck.
 
@llama & Lusty: I don't know, but I read this. I've never been in a serious relationship, so I don't want to fuck it up before it's even a thing. But things are going really well with her; I am quite happy XD!


OTOH, I just started talking to this other girl, and I passed out for a couple hours this afternoon only to wake up to a text from her saying basically, 'I'm done with it all. I'm so numb I can't even cry. I can't take it any more. I'm ending everything.' That was about 7 hours ago, and I've texted her twice since, but gotten no response. I'm going to call her later on. She is 19, has a kid & shit. I don't know her well enough to know how serious she is, so this sucks.


^Good job, chaps.
 
well i had sex guys. have been friends with this girl for about 7-8 months now. we've chilled on and off and I helped her alot. well she came over and wanted me to draw her a pic. I drew her a real badass picture then we had sex.

she got on top the first time. wow it was really good. i didnt last long, so about an hour later i went again and lasted until she got off several times. for all of you ppl starting premature ejack thrads, thas how u handle it.

mmmm sex. she has triple Ds.. was nice.
 
@llama & Lusty: I don't know, but I read this. I've never been in a serious relationship, so I don't want to fuck it up before it's even a thing. But things are going really well with her; I am quite happy XD!


OTOH, I just started talking to this other girl, and I passed out for a couple hours this afternoon only to wake up to a text from her saying basically, 'I'm done with it all. I'm so numb I can't even cry. I can't take it any more. I'm ending everything.' That was about 7 hours ago, and I've texted her twice since, but gotten no response. I'm going to call her later on. She is 19, has a kid & shit. I don't know her well enough to know how serious she is, so this sucks.


^Good job, chaps.

Wtf, that article is lame. The only good advice is seeing her more and "hinting" at a more exclusive relationship. Flirting with other girls? Don't. Pulling away? Don't.

This "other girl" is another girl, not the one you want to be exclusive with, right?
 
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