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whoop whoop congrats sound system!!!

Well the girl from work I danced with at the club, I went out and talked with her and my boss at the bar till 2am on saturday and she gave me a ride home, apparently she hit a tough patch in her 3 year relationship and has been taking a break for 3 weeks (good timing for me i guess) but we had fun and told stories, good time talking, I feel like we hit it off.
Well the next day she asked if I was going out and I gave her my number, she even chased me down when she thought I was leaving to make sure she got it. Well she called and we met up but people from work were there and I didnt get to talk to her, but we were making eyes flirty smiles and stares. I got the vibe we had both went there to talk to each other.

Well anyways I was thinking I should just ask her if she wants to get a bottle and just drink at my place. I think just post up on the porch and play some music from my laptop and talk.

Its tough cause if I am reading too much into this then she will be taken back by it and it could be a bit akward at work, but with our personalities I dont see that happening even if she was taken back by it a bit.
On the other hand I could get to see if theres something there and have a awesome time with a cool girl.

Im kinda leaning twoards just asking her. what do yall think?
 
You guys, I don't know where else to post this, so I am posting it here....

I am just so happy and feel so good after finally getting off of opiates. It was hell to get off of, and I am still in a fair amount of pain, and sometimes I want them (my doc would prescribe but I have been refusing them) but overall, my life has changed so much for the better....

My sex life and sex drive are back, I have lost 47 pounds (omg I got so fat while I was taking those things, I didn't even notice), I have energy, I go and do stuff, my creativity is back, my social life is back, I am busy all the time in a good way, my thinking is clear, etc etc.

I am so glad I made the decision to stop...mine were all prescribed, but I got a shit ton and it did not do me any favors...my life went down the tubes for almost two years. And it has taken a very long while to bounce back. But today, damn....I am doing really well and I am just so happy!
 
supersmoker27 said:
whoop whoop congrats sound system!!!

Well the girl from work I danced with at the club, I went out and talked with her and my boss at the bar till 2am on saturday and she gave me a ride home, apparently she hit a tough patch in her 3 year relationship and has been taking a break for 3 weeks (good timing for me i guess) but we had fun and told stories, good time talking, I feel like we hit it off.
Well the next day she asked if I was going out and I gave her my number, she even chased me down when she thought I was leaving to make sure she got it. Well she called and we met up but people from work were there and I didnt get to talk to her, but we were making eyes flirty smiles and stares. I got the vibe we had both went there to talk to each other.

Well anyways I was thinking I should just ask her if she wants to get a bottle and just drink at my place. I think just post up on the porch and play some music from my laptop and talk.

Its tough cause if I am reading too much into this then she will be taken back by it and it could be a bit akward at work, but with our personalities I dont see that happening even if she was taken back by it a bit.
On the other hand I could get to see if theres something there and have a awesome time with a cool girl.

Im kinda leaning twoards just asking her. what do yall think?
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If something bad happens between you guys, she still works there. That's what you need to consider.
 
Beachcat said:
You guys, I don't know where else to post this, so I am posting it here....

I am just so happy and feel so good after finally getting off of opiates. It was hell to get off of, and I am still in a fair amount of pain, and sometimes I want them (my doc would prescribe but I have been refusing them) but overall, my life has changed so much for the better....

My sex life and sex drive are back, I have lost 47 pounds (omg I got so fat while I was taking those things, I didn't even notice), I have energy, I go and do stuff, my creativity is back, my social life is back, I am busy all the time in a good way, my thinking is clear, etc etc.

I am so glad I made the decision to stop...mine were all prescribed, but I got a shit ton and it did not do me any favors...my life went down the tubes for almost two years. And it has taken a very long while to bounce back. But today, damn....I am doing really well and I am just so happy!
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Beachcat I am so happy to hear all this. A huge heartfelt congragulations. It's so great you're already getting that many positives from quitting them.

I'm currently in the process of quitting heroin and it's possibly the hardest thing I've ever had to do so you have no idea how inspiring and motivating your post was. Thanks for that <3
 
Beachcat - I'm so happy for you, it's great to hear stories like that :) :)

I totally thought I was over feeling nervous in front of guys. Like, I haven't really had it difficult for the past while because a) I've been with my boyfriend for three years and b) I would have very little trouble in getting a boyfriend/hookup/whatever. I have a celebrity type crush on these two local DJs and the one waved at me last weekend and I got all nervous and all that, I don't even remember what it's like. And I've had so many opportunities to talk to them (well mostly the other one) and I always chicken out. I think I'm kind of spoiled, or really lucky, or something. 8(
 
hmm. the thing about going from an asshole to someone who might not be so much of an asshole is my mind is still wired to assimiliate and i probably just really need to relax but i have issuez now.
i need caulking for all the psychic wounds
not good, not good
on the other hand maybe i should just stop caring
yes
i'm going to pretend that's possible for a moment.
i had the same issue with my ex, i had been with a really horrible person before and so i just assumed he was going to be horrible back before he actually....did turn out to be horrible.
oh my god make my brain stop.
i am not sure it's possible for good things to happen for me. so i just wanna self destruct and sabotage anyway.
the past has proven before that nihilism is for the best.
where is the space between nihilism and contentment without having to have any hope in there? i need that place
 
soundsystem00 said:
Sooo I kissed the 42 yr old I've been crushing on for months. She told me how she's been crushing on me for months too. She kept telling me how awesome I am. It's funny how people love verification. Noone wants to admit it but its true. Sure, I love myself and think I'm "awesome" but god, it helps when a beautiful women tells you that. And means it.

We were standing outside and she was smoking a cigarette. The wind started blowing and her sun dress was blowing and she was having a hard time keeping it down. An army of cars came out of nowhere and drove by. She was embarassed but found it humorous. She said "you know what's funny? All of those people came out of a uterus. They were all conceived from a sexual encounter."

Then we started making out
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Bring her to TC!!!!!

you ballar



EDIT: Beachcat I think you live very close to ChemicalSmiles and I. or so PsycloneJack told me....
 
Well another update about the crush I have.
Texted her last night and asked if she wanted to get a drink. I didnt work yesterday so it was a bit obvious I was goin outta my way to hit her up but she seemed pleasently surprised when I showed up. Ended up meeting her at a bar across from our work, she was with a mutual friend from work, call him mark. Well we started having a blast talking right away, just as I expected. I told her that I rapped, and she wanted to hear some so I spit a verse for her and she really liked it so she said I should go do some open mic. Well long story short I got up on the mic for the first time and she took a video and bought me a drink after for preforming.
Well through out the night we ended up locking arms first all three of us then later she just grabbed my arm. she told me im awesome and amazing a few times. we had some good convos and we know a lot more about eachother now. so for now its mad fun, just gonna let it happen and not force anything.

Sorry if im rambling, just moved to colorado 3 months ago by myself and its so nice to have even just a lil crush and girl to flirt with.
 
supersmoker27 said:
Well another update about the crush I have.
Texted her last night and asked if she wanted to get a drink. I didnt work yesterday so it was a bit obvious I was goin outta my way to hit her up but she seemed pleasently surprised when I showed up. Ended up meeting her at a bar across from our work, she was with a mutual friend from work, call him mark. Well we started having a blast talking right away, just as I expected. I told her that I rapped, and she wanted to hear some so I spit a verse for her and she really liked it so she said I should go do some open mic. Well long story short I got up on the mic for the first time and she took a video and bought me a drink after for preforming.
Well through out the night we ended up locking arms first all three of us then later she just grabbed my arm. she told me im awesome and amazing a few times. we had some good convos and we know a lot more about eachother now. so for now its mad fun, just gonna let it happen and not force anything.

Sorry if im rambling, just moved to colorado 3 months ago by myself and its so nice to have even just a lil crush and girl to flirt with.
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Do you have a mic/record your vocals? I need practice making some rap beats!
 
I'm seeing my ex again tomorrow night =D
I'd mentioned this would be happening a couple months ago and the moment has finally arrived - except that by now I'm actually over him 200% and don't care about hurting him in any way, I just want to have a nice night catching up. We've made plans already, we're getting wasted. Should be fun, I haven't seen him in over a year.
I'm really confused as to what he's thinking though. He gets in touch within a week (literally) of his girlfriend dumping him, asks all my friends about me, asks them if I have a boyfriend, when I'm around, etc. after not sending out a single hello in almost a year...but then after we'd exchanged a few e-mails he told me that just to be clear, he didn't have any alterior motives and just wanted to be friends now.
But then he said tomorrow we should go for a 'nice dinner' and then shots. 'Nice dinner'.....?
I'm very confused. Everything he's been doing and saying points to him hoping something more than friendship will come out of the evening, but apparently not. I know I'll just see how it goes but it'd be nice to have a bit of an idea and to be able to prepare myself somehow :?
 
Pagey - he likely wants you back, just saying! But just cuz he says he doesn't want anything more doesn't mean anything. Be careful if you're going to get wasted :p
 
Pagey said:
I'm seeing my ex again tomorrow night =D
I'd mentioned this would be happening a couple months ago and the moment has finally arrived - except that by now I'm actually over him 200% and don't care about hurting him in any way, I just want to have a nice night catching up. We've made plans already, we're getting wasted. Should be fun, I haven't seen him in over a year.
I'm really confused as to what he's thinking though. He gets in touch within a week (literally) of his girlfriend dumping him, asks all my friends about me, asks them if I have a boyfriend, when I'm around, etc. after not sending out a single hello in almost a year...but then after we'd exchanged a few e-mails he told me that just to be clear, he didn't have any alterior motives and just wanted to be friends now.
But then he said tomorrow we should go for a 'nice dinner' and then shots. 'Nice dinner'.....?
I'm very confused. Everything he's been doing and saying points to him hoping something more than friendship will come out of the evening, but apparently not. I know I'll just see how it goes but it'd be nice to have a bit of an idea and to be able to prepare myself somehow :?
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A) he wants to have sex with you
B) your going to be drinking

good luck, hope you are OK with setting yourself up for making bad decisions.
 
supersmoker27 said:
Well another update about the crush I have.
Texted her last night and asked if she wanted to get a drink. I didnt work yesterday so it was a bit obvious I was goin outta my way to hit her up but she seemed pleasently surprised when I showed up. Ended up meeting her at a bar across from our work, she was with a mutual friend from work, call him mark. Well we started having a blast talking right away, just as I expected. I told her that I rapped, and she wanted to hear some so I spit a verse for her and she really liked it so she said I should go do some open mic. Well long story short I got up on the mic for the first time and she took a video and bought me a drink after for preforming.
Well through out the night we ended up locking arms first all three of us then later she just grabbed my arm. she told me im awesome and amazing a few times. we had some good convos and we know a lot more about eachother now. so for now its mad fun, just gonna let it happen and not force anything.

Sorry if im rambling, just moved to colorado 3 months ago by myself and its so nice to have even just a lil crush and girl to flirt with.
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Video or it never happened >_> :P
 
llama112 said:
Pagey - he likely wants you back, just saying! But just cuz he says he doesn't want anything more doesn't mean anything. Be careful if you're going to get wasted :p
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kaywholed said:
A) he wants to have sex with you
B) your going to be drinking

good luck, hope you are OK with setting yourself up for making bad decisions.
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pofacedhoe said:
keep a close eye!
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I knew it! Thanks guys. I did think his behaviour was a bit suspicious =D

kaywholed meh, I've been drunk enough times to have a bit more self-control if I think I'll regret it. Ie. it's so not happening with him.
 
christ, i thought every girl on the planet was prude, but according to these forums ig not :P my ex gf had the LOWEST sex drive. we had a relationship for over two years and she never put out for me. i had done every favor in the book for her and she had never even touched my dick before.
 
I had the best night ever with my ex. We met up at 7:30pm, drank all the way through til about 2am and then wandered around until 6 am. I mean I never have nearly as much fun staying out all night with anyone.
...although we did end up kissing but I think that had more to do with the booze & being alone under the eiffel tower than anything else...so it's all good! It was so nice to see him again =D
 
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