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***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.

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I'm starting to feel like i don't want a gf anymore. I wonder if it's because i feel like I never see her so i might aswell not have one? Or something else? *sigh* I'm heaps confused lately...
 
so you'd rather forsake happiness if indulging it only means experiencing a small amount?
wacky logic
a small amount of happiness can go a long way
 
i doubt you truly believe that
sounds like you'd rather abandon the relationship while your emotional investment is low to prevent hurting yourself in the long term once you're in too deep
 
You can always tell when a relationship's about to end... it's when either yourself, or the other party, become too 'busy' to care.

I mean, if you really want to see someone, you make the time, you make the plans NO MATTER WHAT!
 
^ your right ive put it off too long. so, im dropping you

i know its a bit sudden, unexpected even, but for what its worth im sorry :(
 
preacha said:
i doubt you truly believe that
sounds like you'd rather abandon the relationship while your emotional investment is low to prevent hurting yourself in the long term once you're in too deep
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I really would hate to think that that was me because i've always been pretty open to love but at the same time have been hurt alot lately and think i've built a wall. I think i am scared of being too deep.

I am also scared of hurting her though. She so "into" me and makes all these future plans so i know she is serious. Maybe she is testing me? bah .. i dunno.

I know i don't want to give her up but i'm being selfish for keeping her as she will get snapped up rather quickly to a girl more worthy of her affection than I.
 
Status: Single
Outlook: Dim
Reason: Not too distant future plans involve me not being with someone long term
 
Doppelganger said:
^ I'll call you in a week [out of boredom] and pretend it's been bothering me deeply, and beg you back... ;)

If you accept, I no longer want you.
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hee hee, wouldnt want to take the challenge out it.

How about I go with whichever option is more likely to make you cry.
I just cant get off unless there is tears, and lets face it, its all about me getting off %)
 
m4dd0g said:
^ your right ive put it off too long. so, im dropping you

i know its a bit sudden, unexpected even, but for what its worth im sorry :(
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You arent allowed to dump me e-boy. Dump all your others, but Im your number 1 ho, got it? Even if you do Ill pretend you didnt and claim you as my own. :X
 
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hee hee, wouldnt want to take the challenge out it.

How about I go with whichever option is more likely to make you cry.
I just cant get off unless there is tears, and lets face it, its all about me getting off %)
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That made me giggle.

Try harder.
 
I think i sabatage relationships on purpose without even knowing what i'm doing :( No wonder they don't last long. Why is is that as soon as i get into a relationship with someone who treats me like a queen i want out? (i do this all the time i've realised) I am always rejecting the "nice" people? Does this mean i don't respect myself enough to think i'm worthy of such attention so get rid of people who treat me well? What the hell is wrong with me!?
 
^^^ omg doofqueen! i thort i was the only one!

Wish I knew why! Then it could be changed:)

I wonder if it is because we don’t feel worthy?? Maybe we go for people that we know are going to hurt us cos really we are afraid of being happy?? Oh I don’t know:( Im sick of assholes tho!

One of these nice guys that i let go, ive been catching up with him again (we have a mutual friend) and i now realise what a DICKHEAD i was letting him go. He has a girlfriend now, but says he still likes me - its a bad situation so im staying away but il definently think twice before letting the nice one get away!
 
^^ I do exactly the same thing

But i've realised why i do it
In my experience all the nice ones turn out to be assholes sooner or later anyway. As soon as they are a dickhead, it just validates everything i thought would happen anyway. At least if they are assholes to start with they are a known entity and you know where you stand and there's no nasty shock and surprises later down the track.

Plus admit it - the assholes are always much much more fun.
 
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