***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.

[McWigga]

Anyone up for a trip to Las Vegas?

Actually, during my travels in North America in a couple of months my mate and I are going to Vegas and getting hitched! Hopefully by an Elvis. We're going Op Shopping to try and find her a well ugly dress, and some sort of festy suit for myself. If anyone would like to join I'm sure we'd get a discount for a group wedding.

 

[Miss Peks]

^^I could just imagine doing that one day Britney Spears style. I'd probably regret it in the morning, but it would be well funny remembering it. :D

 

[FaTz]

Same here except skip the dating and move straight to the sex on tap!

However there are ALOT of things in a relationship that are alottttttttttt better than just sex on tap...

 

[McWigga]

However there are ALOT of things in a relationship that are alottttttttttt better than just sex on tap...

 

[NickyJ]

If I was in a relationship I could throw away my expensive Italian granite lining tile and have all my lines off naked boobs. That would be sweet.

 

[ruski]

I would rather not be single but I cbf dating. It's too much hassle. I want to meet someone, skip the dating, start the pointless bickering and then get married all within about 24 hours.

<Starts working in Casino and becomes Alcoholic>

You're Jewish right? No? Oh well doesn't matter. To the express-rabbi-with-priest-and-possible-elvis-celebrant-wedding!

 

[lady grey]

I just cant seem to meet a good guy these days but its all good cos being single has its benefits 2

btw being in a relationship doesnt always = sex on tap hahaha same as being single doesnt have to = no sex on tap

 

[Wacky]

I just cant seem to meet a good girl these days,

but its all good cos being single has its benefits 2 It's just a problem if you have been single for too long,just as jumping from relationship to relationship without ever being single would be a problem.A healthy balance is the key.

 

[princess_kitti]

^^ agreed with two last comments

I think I would make an apalling girlfriend - I like my fun too much!

Someone very wise said to me once - enjoy being single cos one day you will be married with children and you don't want to look back at all the opportunites you missed over those years of being single and wish youd made more of it

Ive started loving being single again .... and anyway, as I keep being told - no guy could handle me!!

 

[FaTz]

I reckon that's a hugeeeee cop out...

Rather than waiting till your married and have to look back, why don't you look at the now, people that amaze me are the exact same as me :-(...

Fuck waiting for later, if you see an opportunity fucking shut your face and go for it, yeah you'll get rejected a few times in ur life, well alot if you're me ha ha, but just fucking do it...

 

[miss_goody2shoes]

nike.
just do it.


ooh i could say a whole heap. but I won't waste my breath. Well yet. Maybe.
I leant very early on not to expect much, if anything, from boys. They just don't put in the effort generally, even if they do like you. hmm maybe it's just me....
Feel like I should explain more but...meh....

 

[ruski]

hey just don't put in the effort generally

I resent the generalisation.

Not all men are shlubs with no association with other peoples emotions let alone there own. Some of us are actually quite nice y'know. We go to the effort in relationships and more often than not we're the ones who feel unappreciated.

I agree, having listened to some of the conversations in the mens toilets when I'm tryng to casually use the cubicle for whatever purpose there are a lot assholes out there, but I assure you, we're not all like that.

Time to meet some nice guys me thinks Gabs, we're not all the schmucks you think we are

 

[up all night]

miss_goody: I was recently discussing with my female friends that these days it tends to be the men who are overly romantic (bordering on overbearing) and it's the women who lose interest quickly and shy away from the romantic gestures.

Maybe I just know good people, but pretty much all the guys I know are reliable and caring. If they're not reliable and caring I tend to date them.

 

[ruski]

miss_goody: I was recently discussing with my female friends that these days it tends to be the men who are overly romantic (bordering on overbearing) and it's the women who lose interest quickly and shy away from the romantic gestures.

Maybe I just know good people, but pretty much all the guys I know are reliable and caring. If they're not reliable and caring I tend to date them.

I'd class myself as a romantic, but as you say, women lose interest.

I think I've lost some of the idealistic romantic assocation with love in the last few years of being single. It has undoubtably given me a mountain of perspective on myself, past relationships and people in general.

It's amazing what you find out about yourself when you have to face the world without someone else tagging along.

I'm also putting it down to a definite state of maturing. We'd all like to think we know everything but really, we don't.

There is a definite need for a balance in relationships. Emotional attachment with the freedom to still be your own person. Although a relationship is a unit I don't think its idealistic or unreasonable to think you can't be seperate people with seperate lives who do their own thing.

After 3 long term relationships of thinking that space just meant the other person was ready to leave there's been a lot learnt since then.

I never want to lose that romantic nature but by the same token a bit of forethought, understanding and space is required for a healthy long term relationship.

I guess being single teaches you that more than anything. Once you get over the initial shock to the system you come to realise the freedom being your own person brings leading you to fully appreciate how important that is in a relationship.

I mean, how can you possibly be happy and content with someone else in your life if you can't even gain that by yourself?

 

[m4dd0g]

Status: Single
Thoughts on relationships: I need to develop my asshole skills if I want to succeed
Stance on getting a girl: CBF, its too much trouble

 

[FaTz]

^^^And that's why i love you in ways only penetration could EVER EVER explain ;-)

 

[FaTz]

Now are post count is even aswell dog

 

[Leprechaun]

miss_goody: I was recently discussing with my female friends that these days it tends to be the men who are overly romantic (bordering on overbearing) and it's the women who lose interest quickly and shy away from the romantic gestures.

Maybe I just know good people, but pretty much all the guys I know are reliable and caring. If they're not reliable and caring I tend to date them.

You and your friends are wrong.

I'll tell you why one day...

 

[zaineaol.nu]

Status: SINGLE

Women are headfucks, they want nothing more than to take over your life and personality, wallet and/or the rest - they prefer weak mouldable men over strong confident ones, or so they say.

Women actually prefer guys who don't give them what they want, are confident they can get them (the guys to the girls) and show some kind of spunk and charisma.

re: my posts today in SLR.

If you're single, enjoy it (if ur a guy) dont mope around hoping you have a girlfriend - because int he end if you do her right, she will shit on you.

 

[Leprechaun]

if you do her right, she will shit on you

You know, that's pretty funny. For a lot of reasons.