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☮ Social ☮ PD Social Distancing Talk Thread: Swirly Congregation That's 100% Pandemic-Proof

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Just got a hold of a bunch more Shrooms and some Hash. Looks like the next few weeks are going to be very entertaining. I'm gonna be going on a vacation soon to the beach and tripping by the Ocean should be breathtaking.
 
One of the terrible things about being involved in the drug scene is that people die. It's also a terrible part about getting older in general... but people die a lot more commonly, and before their time, and tragically, when they get into drugs. Sad, but true...
 
Oh shit.. This is so sad. It's true Xorkoth, we have to face this fact. It's painfully true in this community, and I've seen it peripherally IRL too. We need to find ways to better support the people in need in our society and in the drug world specifically.
 
Xolorth please stop these guys spreading anti lounge stuff, totally off base totally ridiculous, lots of blrs have died and this instance like any other is NOT any part of bl fault. Highly offensive . Stop.
 
I'm not gonna censor someone's opinion. tnw said he thought the lounge drama was unhealthy for CG... which from the outside it seemed like it was. Not the Lounge's fault though, it was the fault of several people associated with TL. The drama DID seem to consume him. He seemed very obsessed with it, and it's sad, and even an outsider like me could see the effect it had on his personality, at least his posting personality. Agaian, not TL's fault, but the fault of several individuals. Then perpetualdawn asked if the Lounge is toxic. To which I would say, there has been an unfortunate amount of trolling and drama that got carried off-site and got really out of hand there... there was doxxing involved. Over the years the perception of the Lounge has been one of it being toxic, and I think it's because there has been recurring drama... but that it's been caused by a select few shit-stirrers. It's been toxic for some, but for most, it's not. I think if more people posted there, it would really help the place out. It's just a community forum like any other, it just so happens to be targeted periodically by shitty trolls with nothing better to do.
 
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I'm not gonna censor someone's opinion. tnw said he thought the lounge drama was unhealthy for CG... which from the outside it seemed like it was. Not the Lounge's fault though, it was the fault of several people associated with TL. The drama DID seem to consume him. He seemed very obsessed with it, and it's sad, and even an outsider like me could see the effect it had on his personality, at least his posting personality. Agaian, not TL's fault, but the fault of several individuals. Then perpetualdawn asked if the Lounge is toxic. To which I would say, there has been an unfortunate amount of trolling and drama that got carried off-site and got really out of hand there... there was doxxing involved. Over the years the perception of the Lounge has been one of it being toxic, and I think it's because there has been recurring drama... but that it's been caused by a select few shit-stirrers. It's been toxic for some, but for most, it's not. I think if more people posted there, it would really help the place out. It's just a community forum like any other, it just so happens to be targeted periodically by shitty trolls with nothing better to do.
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Xolorth, off site is not the lounge. Cosmic giraffes personal life is not the lounge. The lounge has bent over backwards and jumped through hoops sideways to please a bunch of people who never gave a shit about it and how dare anyone, anyone point the finger at any part of bl especially other forums like this right now who are obviously feeding off it.
 
I know that's what I was trying to say. TL itself is a good forum. It's just had years of on and off trolling and drama caused by several individuals. Which is why it has the reputation it does.

I find this conversation tiresome, however, I'm hoping we can all drop it and maybe reminisce about CG, or talk about something else.

I always enjoyed CG's contributions to PD. He was part of the PD social crew from time to time. I found him insightful and helpful around these parts. He'll be missed. <3
 
^ understood, the linking and trashing of another part of bl stands and thats fine, sorry for titing you xolorth. Sure woke me up to reality and not a good one.
 
Wasn't he dating that other BLer from the lounge? I wonder how she's holding up :\

Too many deaths these past years...
 
My ex just called... currently our deal had been that I pay to move all her possessions back to her ("why would it be MY responsibility and not yours", she asks 8)), and THEN she would sign the divorce papers and the paper to approve my mortgage refinance. So I went to a lawyer to get some paperwork drawn up and make sure I had all my Ts crossed and added a list of every one of her possessions and a clause that says I will pay for the moving. The lawyer is drawing it up and once he sends it I am going to tell her to sign and return the papers ASAP or I'm taking her to court. Anyway, she just called and said she has the mover lined up, but that she's coming with so she can make sure she gets everything that's hers. She asked me for a copy of the key so she could get in. I said I would be here, and she was like "wait, I thought you were still going to be out of town". I said nope, and I want to be there when you're in my house packing things up to take. She retorted with "well YOU'VE been there with all MY stuff alone this whole time". I told her she was lucky I didn't throw all her stuff out because I'm not running a free storage locker. Then she dropped it.

God damn it man, now it makes me think she was planning on kidnapping my cats, and/or taking some of my things. She thinks it's hugely unfair that I have them and not her. Nevermind that:

  • I have spent every cent on these expensive cats, she hasn't put a dime in. It costs $150 a month of prescription food to feed them. I've spent over $7000 on vet bills for my boy cat alone. I was in debt for years over it.
  • They have lived in my house almost their whole lives and they hate other cats and the house she lives in has another cat.
  • It's been 4 and a half years since they've seen her at all.
  • My boy cat has always been miserable when I'm not there, he's super attached to me and used to get really pissed at her to the point of hissing when I would go away and she would stay, when we were together and had lived together for many years already with the cats.
  • She fucking left me, not the other way around

I'm not SURE that was her plan but now I expect to have to tell her to fuck off and defend my cats and my life when she comes. Well, she's either going to sign the papers before she comes, or else I'm not going to pay for the mover and I'm going to take her to court. She's acting so entitled too, like I've been holding her stuff ransom. When in fact I've begged her to come get it for years. Fuck that bitch, seriously, I really hate her. I don't want to hate anyone. I've never hated anyone in my life and I really mean that. But the way she is fucking with me right now is bringing back all the terrible things she did to me while we were together and I can't fucking stand her and I can't believe she's STILL doing it and she's STILL trying to project it all onto me and make me the bad guy. I need to make sure to handle this shit better than I did recently because I ended up with a DUI due to drinking too much and blacking out after the last round of struggle we had. And now I'm not drinking. So... fuck, I can't wait until this is over and I never have to see her or hear from her or think about her ever again.
 
I might go get beer to get the fuck to sleep. I started my new job today and i ended up not doing what i was hired for instead i got a position a rung up so i make more. Seems ok i guess. Its a metal factory.
I honestly cant say im not gonna be tweakin errday at work tho once i get bread. 10 hour days and getting up at 5 to get ready anf leave?
Yea bro ill def be blowin lines before work on this. Its hot in there so i would nlt wanna be super wrecked in there on tweak cause tje shit makes me sweat like a pig. If i cut my hair it wohldnt be an issue but i have long blonde surfer hair and im not givin it up no way no how
Good news is ill have mad bread to get my license back
 
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