You got stood up. Big deal it has happened to most people at one time or another. I once sat in a restaurant for an hour waiting for my date to turn up & she didn't. Got a call to say she was on her way & then when I rang her after waiting an hour her phone was off. She rang me the next day to apologise saying she got caught up & I told her to lose my number & moved on.
Then again if you have no car or phone or job you are hardly what 95% of women would consider any type of catch. Not saying these things are the be all & end all but they are 3 things that most normal people have in their 20's. Please don't take that as a personal attack it is just the reality of life.
No I am not offended at all. I appreciate the response.
I understand many people get stood up and it isn't totally unheard of or whatever. I'm just stating why I got pissed off and had every right to feel pissed. The cell phone battery dying is understandable; the fact that she put in no effort to contact me to tell me what was going on for hours and hours is not. You apparently weren't pleased in your situation too if you cut her off for it.
I lost my job 2-3 weeks ago. I am not on disability and am currently looking for more work. I've had three different jobs this year that each lasted between 5 weeks to 3 months, and then I'm left searching again. It's not like I don't ever work and don't look for work. This chick however was on disability and had been unemployed for ages apparently so there's nothing she could have complained about considering her situation. She didn't care at all. I was just recently out of work. It was mainly the cell phone shit she didn't understand.
I don't have a car because I have never been into cars, as well as many other things that people consider neccessities in life. The same goes with the cell phone. I simply don't talk on the phone. People think it's weird when I say I don't watch TV or movies. In the past I haven't even owned a bed simply because I didn't find it necessary. Or I do things like eat a strict, repetetive, bland diet of nuts, soy, legumes and fruits and vegetables day after day. And I drink my morning regimen of 250ml each of soy milk, veggie juice and apple/ orange juice everyday straight out of a measuring cup to ensure I have the exact quantity, and feel I don't need a regular cup or mug. Just a few very minor examples of ways my lifestyle may be odd to some - nothing too serious or anything. I have never been into steretypical men's interests like tools, auto-mechanic stuff, cars, sports. I don't understand why people would try and accuse me of being a troll in this thread just because I'm weird or different. There's just many things that make me contrarian in my lifestyle and that's my nature. I'm not about to change that and turn into something I'm not in a desperate attempt to get girls who wouldn't like the real me in the first place.
I have been erroneously accused of being bitter, boring or miserable by people who I haven't got a chance to open up with. I can't express my true self with most people because I'm too shy and antisocial and feel insignificant so most people never get a chance to see me become comfortable enough around them to see the true me. With the people who I have been able to come out of my shell around, I have been called eccentric at times. This isn't accurate though, because by definition, an eccentric lives a bizarre, unorthodox lifestyle yet is happy, content and not dealing with mental illness, which obviously does not describe me.
I've also always been a huge fan of walking, as I live in a town that you can walk from one side to the other in like 90 minutes. I walk a couple hours a day. I love just walking and listening to my Ipod. I love hip hop music and try to listen to a new hip hop album everyday. it's easily my biggest hobby or interest. I'd probably walk most of the time even if I had a car, I've been involved in Zen Buddhism and have been practicing zazen meditation for about an hour everyday for years and years. (As stated earlier, I'm very spiritual, and spiritual practice and study takes up a lot of my time also.) I started doing Zen when I was 17 and am now 25. After years of practice, the effects that you cultivate while sitting transfer over into your daily routine. As a result, nice long somber walks can have a pleasing meditative use when you've learned to harness your own concentrated awareness. I love to walk in the beautiful autumn weather especially, or on overcast days. For years, countless people in town claim they see me walking everyday, all the time. Sometimes it bothers me, wondering what the hell do these people possibly think of me; other times I just think fuck it, I'm just doin me nigga.
I figure I'll drop my link to my profile that I use, espeically since people are now accusing me of being a troll. (Laika, a mod, just vouched for me earlier saying I'm legit and we've known for a decade. Plus I've been here since 2009 but whatever) Some parts of the profile are kind of joking, like the headline. I actually am recently going on a quest for heavier set black girls who i find very attractive, but I am generally open-minded towards all sizes, ages and races. I didn't fill out much in the about me section but whatever. What I did put you probably won't understand. It's just my outlandish humour I have - just fuckin around. I want people to see my profile as a little odd anyways so that it attracts the oddballs naturally. If any girls would like to tell me what they think, please do give feedback, criticism and advise. But I'm looking for honest feedback, not insults, so save that shit for someone else. There's been enough needless, unwarranted insults being hurled around like one of the last posters mentioned. If you don't like me or what I have to say, or don't have anything useful to say but talk shit, it's as simple as staying out and not posting in the thread. And I know I'm not sexy lol, but I welcome some comments on my pics or any tips on what I can do to be more attractive physically. Here's my profile ladies and gentlemen - this is where it all goes down:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=32843140
Thanks again for all the responses. This shit has become way longer and talked about than I ever imagined haha
