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My plentyoffish.com meet-up gone wrong...

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Folley said:
That's your other problem. You know, besides all the self-esteem and anxiety and drug abuse shit..... you're all too willing to put the blame on someone else. It's them reading your posts wrong, or being too "normal" (lol the fuck does that even mean), them not sharing your interests.... you seem to have some serious growing up to do before you'll be able to interact with humans in a functional way.
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Thank you for all the feedback and advise. I appreciate everyone who has tried to be helpful toward me in my thread.
 
xstayfadedx said:
Except he can't handle arguments the correct way..... Its just the truth. Tell me from everything he has said that you really think he would be able to handle the fight without lashing out? Who knows it could get physical... and he would most likely belittle her so bad and that is still abuse.
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What is the correct way to handle an argument? And actually I know him quite well, and he's not much of a back hander when it comes to arguing with dames.
You seem to know a lot about him though so I'll let you continue counseling him.
 
Laika said:
What is the correct way to handle an argument? And actually I know him quite well, and he's not much of a back hander when it comes to arguing with dames.
You seem to know a lot about him though so I'll let you continue counseling him.
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So you think you know someone well but then you don't know what goes on behind closed doors? I didn't know people openly let you into that side of their life. "Oh hey man I just hit my girl because you know I was right and she was wrong. She asked for it though."

I don't care if you know him well. I still believe in what I said. If he doesn't get help then these things could possibly happen. I'm not saying its a definite but I'm not too sure if it can't happen.

People we love and know can be abusers. Its just reality.

But no point in arguing cause clearly this guy is mentally stable and knows how to treat women right.... 8)
 
You're paranoid. It's YOU that needs help at this point. You're believing your delusions. You BELIEVE that you are inside this persons head and have them figured out from an outside perspective. Seek therapy.
 
xstayfadedx said:
So you think you know someone well but then you don't know what goes on behind closed doors? I didn't know people openly let you into that side of their life. "Oh hey man I just hit my girl because you know I was right and she was wrong. She asked for it though."
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Man, I'm sorry, but that is the most ridiculous logic I've ever heard. Of course you can go around saying that literally anyone could be capable of this or that because you don't see what they do 24/7, or "behind closed doors". That means the same can be said about anyone you know personally. That's completely silly logic.

Plus you contradicted yourself by claiming that Laika may not know me well enough despite meeting me over a decade ago when you're trying to make some stretched, shallow observations about me from one measly thread on an internet forum and thinking they may be true.

Come on please. Can you just leave me alone please then?
 
^I'm not going to have a conversation with you because clearly you're right. And you have your little buddy to help you justify your immature behavior.

Laika said:
You're paranoid. It's YOU that needs help at this point. You're believing your delusions. You BELIEVE that you are inside this persons head and have them figured out from an outside perspective. Seek therapy.
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No I'm not paranoid. I don't walk around thinking I know people. So stop trying to turn all this shit back on me. I'm sorry did I upset you? Well too bad. I'm just responding on what I have read in this thread and making a judgement off how he shows no sign of resentment for what he has done. Im not saying my predictons or allegations are going to happen but the way he reacts isn't going to get him anywhere in life.
 
xstayfadedx said:
^I'm not going to have a conversation with you because clearly you're right. And you have your little buddy to help you justify your immature behavior.



No I'm not paranoid. I don't walk around thinking I know people. So stop trying to turn all this shit back on me. I'm sorry did I upset you? Well too bad. I'm just responding on what I have read in this thread and making a judgement off how he shows no sign of resentment for what he has done. Im not saying my predictons or allegations are going to happen but the way he reacts isn't going to get him anywhere in life.
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Do I seem upset? I'm not upset, are you upset? stayfaded, you so silly, you know meesa luvs u rite? barely. But anyway, I haven't accused you of walking around and knowing people. Where the heck-ow-ee are you getting this shee-it from? I was talking about one person specifically, the one that you had targeted.
You aren't saying your predictions are going to come true, you're just saying your predictions are that he will get nowhere. Now that's just plain old impossible. His reactions surely will physically carry him to come out the other end SOMEWHERE. They've got to. Are you saying that if this man keeps up with the way he's acting he will vaporize or simply vanish into thin air? Crazy talk. Seek help.
 
If 10 kids in a million die from breaking their necks playing on the jungle gym at school, should we ban recess because everyone's gonna die?! It's this kind of zero-tolerance idealism that eventually creates a panic and leads to policies and laws that restrict our freedoms. It's the same kind of mob paranoia that led to the illegalization of marijuana and tattoos!

the only true predictor of abuse is abuse itself...Have you studied how Europe colonized North America? It was very "non abusive" and gentle....

This is turning into some feminist manhater shit!

Maybe we should screen the whole population in a controlled environment for violent behaviors and lock up the people who exhibit violent tendencies ahead of time before they can offend! Like minority report! Sounds fucking great! I know my girlfriend would be locked away....She has a tendency of scratchng my face when shes drunk at least once a year! Of course, I'm a man so I deserve it!

If saving 1 persons life infringes on the freedoms of 10 million people, it must be worth it! Right?

Sorry, but this is the kind of reasoning I'm observing here, and it's fucking crazy!

Sure, there's very abusive people out there who deserve to be locked up, but your judgement of this guy is ridiculously over-exagerrated based on the facts you have!
 
Laika said:
What is the correct way to handle an argument? And actually I know him quite well, and he's not much of a back hander when it comes to arguing with dames.
You seem to know a lot about him though so I'll let you continue counseling him.
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To be fair, I think the whole "wife-beating" thing was a bit too far... but I can see these kind of things becoming a problem if the relationship ever started heating up. Cursing at someone over one missed meeting isn't exactly behavior conductive to a healthy relationship.


I don't think he would hit a woman though... honestly from what I've read it sounds like a girl could probably hold their own in a fight against him (lol sorry dude).



How about we all just agree to leave it at that and get on with the thread?
 
Laika said:
Do I seem upset? I'm not upset, are you upset? stayfaded, you so silly, you know meesa luvs u rite? barely. But anyway, I haven't accused you of walking around and knowing people. Where the heck-ow-ee are you getting this shee-it from? I was talking about one person specifically, the one that you had targeted.
You aren't saying your predictions are going to come true, you're just saying your predictions are that he will get nowhere. Now that's just plain old impossible. His reactions surely will physically carry him to come out the other end SOMEWHERE. They've got to. Are you saying that if this man keeps up with the way he's acting he will vaporize or simply vanish into thin air? Crazy talk. Seek help.
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Lol, oh you always were so funny. No wonder why we have always gotten along on bluelight 8)

Again, my opinion still remains the same. Hopefully the OP can grow up and show me otherwise. I still don't understand how someone can post a thread seeking for help and/or other's opinions but then argues with them for not saying what he wants to hear. I think the OP made this thread to further convince himself that his actions were okay. Again that girl dug her own hole! She deserved it!

Good luck OP :D you'll need it.
 
Come to think of it, this whole thread is actually an elaborate code telling me to nail my windows shut!
wow, okay I hope I don't read what Im writing in the morning...
 
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