Om3n420
Bluelighter
Thanks for the help AG I think I am going to go to the unemployment office tomorrow and I see your from manchester I live in derry right. thats pretty damn close lol
I simply can't see on what level a PO could oversee a private employer/employee relationship.
I don't wanna sound like a preacher here; I am mostly curious as to why people continually break laws. I totally understand people being raised in unfortunate situations having a much harder time avoiding crime, especially when it's all a person has ever known. Other than that I do not understand any of this.
I do not usually join forums nor post in them, but on this issue I felt like it was necessary.
First, I got a shoplifting charge in 04 and a battery/disorderly conduct charge in 06. Both misdemeanors.
I graduated high school in 2004 with a GPA of 3.7 and I graduated from Georgia State University in 2008 with a background in psychology and a GPA of 3.4.
Sounds like I should be okay right? As of now, December of 2010, not so much. I would not consider myself successful at all. I just interviewed with a company called Cooks Pest Control for a 'Management Trainee' position which would be a salary position plus commission. They called me back for two interviews and I highly impressed them; the recruiter went on to tell me that if I was invited to the third and final interview, then we would be discussing salary negotiations. Well, I was invited to a third interview hoping to discuss my future career only to be invited to a debriefing and admittance of my past charges/arrests. All in all, I did not get the job and the background check was the only hindrance in the hiring process.
At this point, the only jobs I can get are ones that do not do background checks. Shoplifting is a big red flag for employers to look past and it has haunted me in obtaining a career ever since I graduated.
What I would suggest for people like me who have plenty potential but made mistakes that follow them?
-start your own business.
-work at a restaurant (servers and service jobs such as dishwashers) do not do background checks
-join a branch of the military
-find family owned businesses and work for them
If you have any other suggestions for what opportunities are out there for people with arrests such as me, feel free to expand.
Overall, what I am trying to get across is, that even people who have made mistakes punished by arrests and have learned/changed from it are continually punished by their backgrounds which prohibit them from obtaining a lot of careers. I consider myself highly intelligent, but I made some impulsive decisions in my past. I believe the system continues to demoralize people by labeling them with a criminal record where people start to have a sense of learned helplessness.
The problem is that I still have a record of arrest, and a record of being charged. I notice that more and more employment, visa, etc forms don't merely ask if you've been convicted; they ask about being arrested, being charged, or even if you've had anything expunged from your record! That last one really pisses me off. I mean what the fuck is the point of getting an expungment then!? Plus it still doesn't get rid of an arrest record anyway. Sigh.
i got a criminal recored for drug dealing
i can never live in a different country
do you understand how bitter this makes me feel knowing i will die in England a place full of wanker$.
then theres the point of being turned down from most jobs coz of a criminal record
wtf??
You can't even live in another country if you marry into it?