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Meeting girls at raves

royksopp said:
Really its all about the vibe at the rave. If its just a bunch of high school kids going to get trashed off ecstasy than its not really a friendly environment. Throw in an older crowd on alcohol and the mix gets real bad.Especially at the massives.

Smaller more controlled gatherings are usually better for meeting random strangers.

It would also be cool to see more 18+ limits at these type of events. I think that would weave out a lot of the trouble makers.
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Coolio said:
Fuck 18+. I dunno about LA but on the east coast, without the younger generation nothing you'd want to call a 'rave' ever turns out to be particularly fun.
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CALLED IT! I hate to say I told you so but... :D

All insomniac events across the United States will now be 18+.
http://www.insomniac.com/insomniac.html

"Effective immediately, Insomniac has also established an “18 and older” policy for all of the company’s dance music festivals until such time as Insomniac implements IAG’s recommended standard operating procedures. Insomniac has purchased handheld ID scanners, which will be used at all future “18 and older” Insomniac events. Insomniac will refund the full ticket price to anyone under the age of 18 who has already purchased
tickets to upcoming Insomniac dance music festivals. Ticketholders under the age of 18 can send an email to [email protected] detailing their name, phone number and the
name of the event and outlet where they bought the ticket
(e.g. Ticketmaster, GrooveTickets, or retail store)."

So now that the children are gone we can have a real party without narrow minded cliche highschool kids dying on us and starting riots

Hope mommy has other activities planned for all you 18 unders.
 
agreed with the OP. definitely would go to the bar to pick up a classier girl. there are definitely classy girls at raves though don't get me wrong
 
From my experience at raves, whether I'm sober or rolling hard its not that hard to meet people, especially girls. I have a pair of really nice rave gloves and I'll be chilling or walking around or dancing to music with the gloves at about neck level doing some basic moves and if a person starts staring at my show then I'll walk up to them and give them a personal show. Its a great ice breaker too because then the person will wanna talk to me and introduce me to their friends and give them light shows. It happens all the time, especially this past Saturday night at Fall Massive in Baltimore, MD- what a great night. So if you're looking to meet new people you can buy a cheap pair of LED gloves for like 10 dollars and practice a little with them and then go to an event and try this out for yourself. Also, and more importantly, to meet girls it is almost crucial to have a positive, innocent, non-threatening demeanor about you or else they will surely get paranoid and avoid you.
 
At the massive that comes around once a year in my city everyone Is to fucked up to function properly. Its pretty funny everyone is so trashed. All you can do is think: music, stage, pills, blunts, and just be.. all me and my bf wanted to do at the event was smoke and share our blunt with everyone. We sparked up around 7 ppl. And our fav was a cute gay Guy that sat next to us for sometime we had a Great smoke session with him ! awesome time.
 
I dont agree at all with these posts. When the musics pumping and youre rolling, its a head wreck leaving the dance to chat or be with someone. But you can really connect to someone when taking a break for a smoke, or if you find yourself at an after party and the come down is ok. The mix of empathy and sensory tactile part makes hooking up really intense in a good way. You just cant use stupid chat ups etc... Its about the honesty and intensity with E
 
When I'm in that state all I really wanna do is meet people, maybe find a girl to hold her hand or maybe exchange a kiss... but I'm not really trolling for ass, honestly I really don't care to troll for ass at a rave, more so just connect with people on a not-so-sexual level.

E doesn't make me horny though.
 
the ice breaker for me is always just busting the dance moves, and of course a nice smile always helps too=D
 
Honestly? I usually see like 2 or 3 guys at raves that even remotely interest me... and even then, they don't interest me that much. The rest, I wouldn't mind being friends, but nothing more than that.

I bring my boyfriend. Then the creeper guys don't follow me around :D
 
When I've been to raves and stuff, I'm with my boyfriend. But we're not together all the time. Now that I think about it, guys probably were hitting on me ... but they all call me sexy and beautiful and stuff and I just get happy and then hug them because I think they are so nice! First time I went, there was a guy that followed me around. And a few ask if I have a boyfriend.

But I definitely don't want to have sex on mdma. I tried with my boyfriend once and ... what an experience ... we kept forgetting what we were doing! Lol!

The rave environment is more just enjoying people and not out to get a relationship. If you meet someone and you connect with them, awesome. But it's not really like a bar where you'd take them home and have sex with them. It's more like, you'd kiss them, that'd be awesome, and that's about it. Then you may see them again sober if you really wanted to.
 
Coolio said:
Fuck 18+. I dunno about LA but on the east coast, without the younger generation nothing you'd want to call a 'rave' ever turns out to be particularly fun.
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I couldn't disagree more. I'm almost 26, and I started going to raves when I was 14. Yeah... when I was young, I hated 18+ parties, but only because I couldn't go to them. Younger people at parties (teens) tend to bring the quality of the party down in my opinion. I know there are some mature teens, but usually having a young crowd like that brings trouble. They are simply too young to be able to handle many situations that could arise at a rave.

I'm not sure where you are at on the east coast, but I'm in New England. I used to party out west, and in South Florida, and my favorite thing about the Northeast is how much older the crowd tends to be. There's a lot less of those messy piles of teens in dark corners. It still happens, but the age range seems to be more in the 21-30 range, and everyone seems much more chill and are just there to have a good time and enjoy the music, rather then get totally uncontrollably fucked out of their minds. These parties are a fucking blast, among the best I've been to, and I've been to a lot. Honestly, if I wasn't in this area and was still partying in Florida or out west, I don't think I would go anymore. I guess it depends on where you live though, because the parties I go to up here are definitely worthy of calling a rave, not like that club shit that was going down in Florida.

I won't sit here and tell teens they shouldn't go, I did so I get it, but I think most people within my age range would agree that younger party goers do not equal better parties.
 
damn......now that i think about it i'm usually so far in my zone the last thing on my mind is hookin up with someone, just some good conversation and vibe sharing....interesting though just like my popsicles melting in the microwave
 
Most of the girls that go to rave clubs around where I live are under 17. When I was younger it was awesome and I would hookup with someone almost every rave I went to, now that older I don't even bother going to the rave clubs, I miss it but nothing good could come of it. You could defiantly make dumb decisions at a rave, seems fun at the time but I always regretted it in the end.
 
Like others have said just be positive and have a good time. Going out for the sole purpose of hooking up can put you in a foul mood should it not work out for you early in the night.

I tend to be the level headed one of my circle of friends that will watch out for people and make sure everyone is safe. Combine that with MDMA and i just turn into a party animal making sure everyone around me is having an awesome time. I don't go to what would be considered raves but i frequent shows like ghostland observatory, bassnectar, deadmau5, etc.. where the majority of the crowd is rolling.

9 times out of 10 when i am on the comedown i will start to realize all the missed opportunities i had because i was more concerned with the music and the vibe than trying to hook up with some girl that was dancing with me...but i don't care.
 
My first rave I went with abosolutely no intentions or expectations. just take it as it comes. by the end of the night, I motorboated a girls boobs next to her BF, then he gave me a lightshow. I met a hooters girl who looked depressed, we started talking then held hands on the way over to the stadium but she didnt feel like dancing, so i told her i was leaving, i turned to leave and she pulled me close to her and started kissing me. is was one of the awkward moments where i thought we were just kissing, but she went in for the tongue.

I then went down to the dance floor to dance my ass off and ended up meeting ANOTHER girl who told me to look at the stars, and told me about universal oneness and stuff as we danced, and that our bodies are vessels of energy. She then licked my face like a dog and showed me her tits before i left her because i wanted to get closer to the DJ. On the way i bumped into a guy who started sharing his blunt with me.


Ive only have one GF in my life too, so im not Casanova by any means
 
Haha, you can fall in love with someone in one night. And then when you hang out with them the next week you may discover that you really have no feelings for them at all, especially if they have raved way too much and are a little e-tarded.
 
Rolexxx said:
My first rave I went with abosolutely no intentions or expectations. just take it as it comes. by the end of the night, I motorboated a girls boobs next to her BF, then he gave me a lightshow. I met a hooters girl who looked depressed, we started talking then held hands on the way over to the stadium but she didnt feel like dancing, so i told her i was leaving, i turned to leave and she pulled me close to her and started kissing me. is was one of the awkward moments where i thought we were just kissing, but she went in for the tongue.

I then went down to the dance floor to dance my ass off and ended up meeting ANOTHER girl who told me to look at the stars, and told me about universal oneness and stuff as we danced, and that our bodies are vessels of energy. She then licked my face like a dog and showed me her tits before i left her because i wanted to get closer to the DJ. On the way i bumped into a guy who started sharing his blunt with me.


Ive only have one GF in my life too, so im not Casanova by any means
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Sounds like some of the shit that happens to me. This girl was right next to her boyfriend telling guys to slap her as hard as they could and she was loving it. And meeting multiple girls happens all the time and its great haja
 
when i started raving in the mid 90's i remember girls asking guys if they were there for the girls, the drugs, or the music... obviously there was only one right answer but people fucked this up all the time. I have never hooked up or seen anyone i knew hook up with someone they didn't already know at a rave, and were are talking 15 years of partying (fuck i am old.) These days I go with the GF and she gets hit it on intensely and even after making it clear shes attached they often times don't go away, its both silly, annoying, and amusing at the same time.

When I go to a party I want to find a corner and dance all night and generally be left alone with the occasional check in from friends. Random sex, chasing girls, never enters my mind. Go find girls were you can actually get to know them, have more in common then drug use and music or you will end up a Divorcée like myself.
 
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