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Meeting girls at raves

I meet my girl at a party "RAVE" 7 years ago, and we've been together ever since, but we kind of knew each other since we went to the same school, but never talked. I remember back before we got together, I used to talk to all kinds of girls at parties. It was easy to do just as long as you have confidence in yourself. Don't be the creepy guy who just walks around by themselves and tries to talk to any and every girl. Just be the chill guy who kind of sticks out cause of what he's wearing which is what I did.

I used to wear some wild outfits a long with some Mickey Mouse gloves, and it always sparked up a conversation. Every party I went to, I'd have someone who reconized me cause of my gloves plus I used to give some crazy head rushes to people. I would have people just line up one after another cause they saw how zoned out people would be afterwards. Fun times, and damn I haven't been to a party in years
 
Romanticpimp said:
I meet my girl at a party "RAVE" 7 years ago, and we've been together ever since, but we kind of knew each other since we went to the same school, but never talked. I remember back before we got together, I used to talk to all kinds of girls at parties. It was easy to do just as long as you have confidence in yourself. Don't be the creepy guy who just walks around by themselves and tries to talk to any and every girl. Just be the chill guy who kind of sticks out cause of what he's wearing which is what I did.

I used to wear some wild outfits a long with some Mickey Mouse gloves, and it always sparked up a conversation. Every party I went to, I'd have someone who reconized me cause of my gloves plus I used to give some crazy head rushes to people. I would have people just line up one after another cause they saw how zoned out people would be afterwards. Fun times, and damn I haven't been to a party in years
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I love knowing so many cool roll tricks. When people experience MDMA for the first time and I am there I like to be like there shaman and show them the way.

I just love having the ability, especially with my LED's, to make someones eyes roll back and put them into a complete trance of pure bliss.

FM
 
Really its all about the vibe at the rave. If its just a bunch of high school kids going to get trashed off ecstasy than its not really a friendly environment. Throw in an older crowd on alcohol and the mix gets real bad.Especially at the massives.

Smaller more controlled gatherings are usually better for meeting random strangers.

It would also be cool to see more 18+ limits at these type of events. I think that would weave out a lot of the trouble makers.
 
FlowMotion said:
I love knowing so many cool roll tricks. When people experience MDMA for the first time and I am there I like to be like there shaman and show them the way.

I just love having the ability, especially with my LED's, to make someones eyes roll back and put them into a complete trance of pure bliss.

FM
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This was the absolute best part of a rave IMO!!!

I just wanted to help people on E (especially first timers) enjoy it.=D
 
the more you go for rave with meeting girls the reason being, the more you they avoid you. Just go and have fun like you dont care, with no hooking up intentions and the more them ladies get close. I dnt know, thats how it works 4 me, on E or sober.
 
royksopp said:
Really its all about the vibe at the rave. If its just a bunch of high school kids going to get trashed off ecstasy than its not really a friendly environment. Throw in an older crowd on alcohol and the mix gets real bad.Especially at the massives.

Smaller more controlled gatherings are usually better for meeting random strangers.

It would also be cool to see more 18+ limits at these type of events. I think that would weave out a lot of the trouble makers.
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Fuck 18+. I dunno about LA but on the east coast, without the younger generation nothing you'd want to call a 'rave' ever turns out to be particularly fun.
 
talldan said:
Are most raves indoors or outdoors? I don't think girls would be dirtier, maybe less classy because its a different environment than going out to a nice bar. I know some girls that are pretty and classy that go to raves or have gone.
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Haha, if you consider going out to a nice bar to be classy...
 
coz its a rave, if they are rolling like i, i have 0 interests in girls while rolling hard, they could be naked in front of me, id shuv em away and dance some more. its a rave, not a sex party.
 
Coolio said:
Fuck 18+. I dunno about LA but on the east coast, without the younger generation nothing you'd want to call a 'rave' ever turns out to be particularly fun.
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Over here in england 18+ is probably the greatest thing you could hope for at any rave. An U18 who doesn't act like a twat in some way when on drugs at a rave is a rare treat. And I would actually kill myself if there were a bunch of 14-17 year olds running about, at that age pilling is for house parties & camping and stuff.
 
Xevro said:
coz its a rave, if they are rolling like i, i have 0 interests in girls while rolling hard, they could be naked in front of me, id shuv em away and dance some more. its a rave, not a sex party.
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Same thing here.. I'd probably laugh and talk to them but I think my junk is disconnected when I roll.
 
I have to agree with newbierock, underage kids can act like proper retards some times..
 
lets say you make out with a chick there is at the rave.
i personally dont think its because the ecstasy made you wanna do that and enjoy it but because it made you not care u did that.
thers been alot of times when i regretted a bunch of shit i did and say when i was rolling.
thats what happens when you roll, so you gotta deal with it.
Unless your very experienced and can control everything you say and do when your rolling.
 
hOusEs said:
lets say you make out with a chick there is at the rave.
i personally dont think its because the ecstasy made you wanna do that and enjoy it but because it made you not care u did that.
thers been alot of times when i regretted a bunch of shit i did and say when i was rolling.
thats what happens when you roll, so you gotta deal with it.
Unless your very experienced and can control everything you say and do when your rolling.
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Agreed.

I always come off sounding like an idiot. I usually have zero interest in the chick and just want to chat, etc., but the E makes me sound like a fool and I probably come off as a weird creep.

Besides, at raves there's always the large group of females that "use" guys to get hooked up with tabs, get into the club, etc. So, you think some chick is enjoying your company when in reality she just wants to get hooked up and then jet.

Fortunately, I recently found a great gal that I helped out with stuff but she hung around and we talked it up all night. I guess it helped things knowing she was in a relationship, so even though I was really digging her I knew where things were at.
 
i know several rave girls and they all HATE the "bros" and "gangsters" who show up just to hookup with girls. i met them becuase im into meeting people. when i go to raves i cant find any real sexual energy there.its all about meeting people and love. (used to be atleast)... but its changing.. there are more prostitots (eleventeen girls dressed in nothing) theres more gangsters. its alot groser now and thats why it seems like if your a rave girl your looked at as "trashy" by some... but i use a tequnique to tell who is worth talking to my rules are......1) if you where phatpants your worth it or 2 if your an oldschool kandykid, and 3 if your dressed normaly... i hate whats happing to the scene rightnow blah
 
Crankinit said:
Raves aren't a very sexual environment. There's a lot of touching and hugging going on, but it's usually platonic, and people who go there with the intention of trying to hook up with girls on E are usually looked down on.
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EXACTLY.

There are just too many shady ass creeps who go to parties explicitly for the purpose of molesting some underage girls on E, as the general thought process amongst the non-e-using world seems to be "if a girl is on e, she will want to fuck me!".
 
Might be a little off topic but not to stereotype anyone, are the girls that goto raves usually dirtier or less classy? Im assuming there are some pretty trashy dudes there.

But anyways, I would assume women go there for a good time, not really to hook up like other people have said.
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Ahh all depends on your definition of trashy... and how into the drugs thing they are.... I'm not sure rave girls/guys are any more trashy than your typical college age girl/guy.... unless of course they are total dope fiends, which just changes everything ... and sadly raves tend to have a high fiend:normal ratio. I went to parties in the 90s and found that very rarely did my "Rave" friends become anything more than people I saw every week at parties and talked to for a minute....
 
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Just go to have fun, not to really hook up with anyone and you will probably enjoy it....

Just let what happens, happen....

You make a lot of good friends that way... funny things happen... I was rolling very hard when a girl was like "can i draw on you?" and i was like "sure, as long as it comes off".... i ended up with my face covered in uv reactive crayon stuff.... It was fun to talk with her, she turned out to be the girlfriend of a DJ i am friends with.... I gave her my number and for some reason we had a long conversation over the phone standing in front of each other.... it was fun....
 
Depends. Sometimes I think I have a connection, but I really do not. Raves, like everyone said, are to have fun and listen to music. Girls come in whenevers.
 
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