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Sex I prefer masturbation over sex

fairnymph said:
You are misinformed, as any basic Internet search will reveal. The problem is that for over a century now, the wrong type of people have been having most of the children, while the right type of people have been having ever fewer.

The West = all white people of European descent.
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So you would refer to - for example - African-American people as "Eastern"? Or people who live in eastern Russia as "Western"?

Definitely agree with you on the wrong sort of people having kids.
 
I know I'm quite late, but I advise you completely stop masturbating and watching porn (hardcore and softcore) for 2 months. The first month to recover from all of the dick beating, the 2nd month to explore intimate relations with your girlfriend.

For many people, sexual intimacy is a critical facet of a romantic relationship. It is not only pleasurable, but it has the potential to be extraordinarily fun, and you will bond with your partner in ways you never thought possible. During sexual relations is probably when you are most vulnerable, and being mutually vulnerable with your partner is a sign of trust, above many other things.

You have nothing to lose.
 
Kingoffrogs said:
I know I'm quite late, but I advise you completely stop masturbating and watching porn (hardcore and softcore) for 2 months. The first month to recover from all of the dick beating, the 2nd month to explore intimate relations with your girlfriend.

For many people, sexual intimacy is a critical facet of a romantic relationship. It is not only pleasurable, but it has the potential to be extraordinarily fun, and you will bond with your partner in ways you never thought possible. During sexual relations is probably when you are most vulnerable, and being mutually vulnerable with your partner is a sign of trust, above many other things.

You have nothing to lose.
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I probably mentioned this before, masturbation is definitely a very easy and highly rewarding way of fulfilling one’s sexual desires. however, it’s definitely a very lonely way of going about it. after a long struggle, I’ve managed to give up masturbation but that’s because it’s not allowed in Islam. it is a very difficult struggle as I’m not married yet, but I’m hoping this will allow me to build a strong bond with my future wife that involves true mutual intimacy and love.
 
Neuroprotection said:
I probably mentioned this before, masturbation is definitely a very easy and highly rewarding way of fulfilling one’s sexual desires. however, it’s definitely a very lonely way of going about it. after a long struggle, I’ve managed to give up masturbation but that’s because it’s not allowed in Islam. it is a very difficult struggle as I’m not married yet, but I’m hoping this will allow me to build a strong bond with my future wife that involves true mutual intimacy and love.
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It takes quite a bit of self control to not masturbate at all, even when horny. The ladies like that, too.

Sex is way better anyways, unless you're banging a prostitute. Then you just bust a nut and cry when she leaves.
 
Kingoffrogs said:
It takes quite a bit of self control to not masturbate at all, even when horny. The ladies like that, too.

Sex is way better anyways, unless you're banging a prostitute. Then you just bust a nut and cry when she leaves.
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Yes, it’s been very difficult for me, but surprisingly, not as difficult as I initially thought. I think the key is to avoid triggers. The main ones for me are sleep deprivation, stress, when isolated annd extreme boredom.
 
Neuroprotection said:
I probably mentioned this before, masturbation is definitely a very easy and highly rewarding way of fulfilling one’s sexual desires. however, it’s definitely a very lonely way of going about it. after a long struggle, I’ve managed to give up masturbation but that’s because it’s not allowed in Islam. it is a very difficult struggle as I’m not married yet, but I’m hoping this will allow me to build a strong bond with my future wife that involves true mutual intimacy and love.
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I hope you find that! Are you a virgin? 2 virgins seem to have it best together.
 
fairnymph said:
I hope you find that! Are you a virgin? 2 virgins seem to have it best together.
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Yes I am, and I see my future wife will be too. hopefully it works out well. i’m thinking of using my built-up sexual frustration to have proper sexual intercourse on the first time. that’s if I can resist asking her to walk all over me, with her bare feet and spitting in my face. of course, these are my fetishes/fantasies and I do hope she enthusiastically fulfils them for me. problem is, at the moment, I have absolutely no interest in sexual intercourse or vaginas, whilst my fantasies for women’s bare feet and spit have been seriously reinforced by masturbation multiple times a day over many years starting in early childhood.
 
Neuroprotection said:
Yes I am, and I see my future wife will be too. hopefully it works out well. i’m thinking of using my built-up sexual frustration to have proper sexual intercourse on the first time. that’s if I can resist asking her to walk all over me, with her bare feet and spitting in my face. of course, these are my fetishes/fantasies and I do hope she enthusiastically fulfils them for me. problem is, at the moment, I have absolutely no interest in sexual intercourse or vaginas, whilst my fantasies for women’s bare feet and spit have been seriously reinforced by masturbation multiple times a day over many years starting in early childhood.
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I doubt that you’ll find a Muslim virgin who will want to fulfill such fantasies. Most women will be unable to respect you as a man. I firmly believe that men must lead in relationships, particularly in the bedroom. Imo, it sounds like you have self-esteem issues & would benefit from therapy + CBT.
 
Neuroprotection said:
Yes I am, and I see my future wife will be too. hopefully it works out well. i’m thinking of using my built-up sexual frustration to have proper sexual intercourse on the first time. that’s if I can resist asking her to walk all over me, with her bare feet and spitting in my face. of course, these are my fetishes/fantasies and I do hope she enthusiastically fulfils them for me.
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You do intend to discuss this with the prospective lady before marrying her, right?
 
i saw some couple in the car behind me from my rearview mirror, arguing, and the dude spit in her face twice

he had a neck tattoo


some ppl should just die
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
So you disagree with your own definition of "Eastern" or "Western"? You just completely contradicted yourself.
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Russians have a distinctly non-Western culture. They are more Western than Asians, ofc. There’s a nihilism & materialism to Russians that sets them apart. Probably Asian influence. Russians have been & can be Western, but on the whole Russia is unique.
 
fairnymph said:
Russians have a distinctly non-Western culture. They are more Western than Asians, ofc. There’s a nihilism & materialism to Russians that sets them apart. Probably Asian influence. Russians have been & can be Western, but on the whole Russia is unique.
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But why are African-Americans Eastern?
 
fairnymph said:
Are you circumcised? And plenty of women are just as tight after birth. It’s all about muscle tone.
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I understand about the muscle tone. Why do you think I said the kegels got her back in shape?

But I've been with women who've had cesareans and women that have given vaginal births and you can absolutely tell the difference.
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
Um, not sure where you got your information, but birthrates in the West have been INCREASING and the world is already over-populated. The last thing we need is more people having kids.
Also, the reason the West (well, lets face it, just America) is going to shit having anything to do with birthrates is a WILD take.
Also, also, opinions being *indoctrination*....uh...are you okay? (seriously)
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We're nowhere near over populated.
 
fairnymph said:
Nope! Virgin men using just their hands. One guy said he tried to jizz & piss simultaneously, causing fluids to go IN to one testicle, leading to pain, much swelling, & eventually the variococele.
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1. If urine is going to retrograde past the ejaculatory duct, through the seminal vesicles all the way into the vas deferens, something other than supposed simultaneously attempting to urinate and ejaculate is the cause. Like a lot of things are wrong.

2. The pain, swelling, and varicocele (which is a varicose vein leading away from the testicle) was either from compression of the scrotum caused by cock ring or something like that, or sexually transmitted infection.

It wasn't from attempting to urinate and ejaculated the same time cuz there's a lot of guys that have actually tried that.
 
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