Do you have sex with peoples' knowledge and life experience? Is that what attracts you to someone?
Sure it is. I think having life experience is an attractive quality. That's one of
many reasons why I have sex\relationships with people my own age and not with little kids 8)
My point of bringing up "life experience" is that when you are 15 years old, you don't have much of it. It's easy to be manipulated by an older guy (or I guess, a young boy could be manipulated by an older women, it works both ways). A 21 year old guy is most likely somewhat experienced with sex, knows a thing or two about how to pick up a girl... a 16 year old girl is probably NOT as experienced, and it's harder for her to know how to handle a situation when an older male is coming on to her, and she can be more easily manipulated.
Of course, it differs from person to person, I am not trying to make a blanket statement here. But from what I have seen, MOST of the time, this is the case: college age guys are experienced in the art of hooking up; high school girls are not.
Now, I'm not saying I necessarily think a 21 yr old should be thrown in jail and slapped with a "SEX OFFENDER" label for having sex with a high school junior... that is quite extreme. What I
am saying is that if he talked her into doing when she was uncertain, then he's a shitty, scumbag person. Anyone who takes advantage of someone else's naivety and vulnerability is a jerk, whether it be with sex or anything else.