drugfukkdrockstar
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^ Tragic really isn't it.
Doppelganger said:She was born to be a nymphet. She already knew the game - here she was educating me on the fact that you're just supposed to tease them. She knew not to kiss them or touch them back. She knew how to dance like a sex god / devil [I can't decide which.] When she told guys she was 16, it suited them quite comfortably to believe her.
drugfukkdrockstar said:It's in the same context as if the girl went out at night time and caught a train all by herself ... on a weekend night too. That is also a bloody stupid thing to do considering she is on her own and a young female.
vanth said:and tell me I'm not worth taking to.
katmeow said:And despite the sexualised behaviour displayed by some young children, a rational adult must be able to see beyond this behavious. If not, there's something seriously wrong.
Occurrence in child sex offenders
A perpetrator of child sexual abuse is commonly assumed to be and referred to as a pedophile and will usually meet the DSM criteria for that mental health diagnosis; however, there may be other motivations for the crime[17] (such as stress, marital problems, or the unavailability of an adult partner),[27] much as adult rape can have non-sexual reasons. Child sexual abuse alone may or may not be an indicator that its perpetrator is a pedophile; however, regardless of cause, sexual contact with children is evidence of pedophilia according to the DSM-IV definition.
Some research indicates that most perpetrators of child sexual abuse are not primarily interested in children.[28] In two studies designed to measure sexual preferences using phallometric data, it was found that "30% of the [child sex] offenders tested did not show sufficient arousal [to children] to derive a usable score." [29] Sociology professor Rüdiger Lautmann, stated in his book on pedophilia that, "In this book I am concerned exclusively with the first type [the true pedophile who "has a general interest in social contact with children, including a sexual dimension"], which constitutes approximately 5% of all pedosexually active men."[30] A survey of cases of father-daughter incest concluded that most involve fathers who are situational offenders, rather than pedophiles.[31]
As noted by Abel, Mittleman, and Becker[32] (1985) and Ward et al. (1995), there are generally large distinctions between the two types of offenders' characteristics. Situational offenders tend to offend at times of stress; have a later onset of offending; have fewer, often familial victims; and have a general preference for adult partners. Pedophilic offenders, however, often start offending at an early age; often have a large number of victims who are frequently extrafamilial; are more inwardly driven to offend; and have values or beliefs that strongly support an offense lifestyle.
Attempts have been made to use criminal profiling to identify pedophiles, however, these methods have come under criticism for making claims that are in excess of what the evidence supports.[33]
Doppelganger said:From wikipedia [same old, same old...]
samadhi said:One other question to you: So if a child is a nymphet, missing the innate innocent of a "normal" child, does that mean that she's some how welcoming a paedophile's interest? Does that mean that her behaviour shouldn't be checked? Just because a child is sexualised, does not mean that the child is ready for sex with an adult.
samadhi said:Sorry, but i don't hold information on wikipedia in very high stead. Considering it can be written by anyone and everyone... Show me some real documentation, not from wikipedia, and i'll take it seriously.
vanth said:It seems to me that people are trying to argue here that rape is not all a rapist's fault? That dressing provocative clothing, especially if done by a child, means that the rape is at least partly the victim, or the victim's parent's fault?
Are you people serious? Rape is completely the fault of the rapist. The victim is not to blame. This has been firmly established by the law.
Um, confused now,drugfukkdrockstar said:Slam me all you like this is my thoughts on the matter.
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Oh man lets just agree to disagree and just drop it!
We do agree after all.ValeTudo said:the human race simply isn't going to stop commiting atrocities like rape.
I obviously need the bigger man thing being a 'kiddo' an allValeTudo said:Mad dog: play the bigger man card all you want kiddo, you still don't make any sense
The Sword of Damocles is used to denote a precarious situation and sense of foreboding thereof, especially one in which the onset of tragedy is restrained only by a delicate trigger or chance. Moreover, it can be seen as a lesson in the importance of understanding someone's experience.