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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

Macksta said:
^^^ What you do is go.. "uh...um... do you wanna go steady?"

And if they say yes then bingo bango you're bf/gf!!! :-P
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oh shush you! i felt liek a tool asking that question anyway because it felt like a high school thing to do hahaha

up all night...think i'll take your advice....go with the flow...guess i'm swimming =D
 
Yeah its true, as much as it kills you not knowing if you are or you arent, it just sorts itself out at the right time and then you both can destress. hehe :)
 
single for , hmm....almost two years countingg. Not looking. Avoiding some horny exes too. Super happy just being by myself or with the fam and friends. SUPER!!!!!!!! And i hate having to justify my situation to anybody , especially older relatives who inquire why i havent married yet, how come i have no beefrond, blablabla urgh......well....im just really happy being single right now. :)
 
Fuck! I forgot how much less sex i get when my son is around hehehe

That's the thing for me though hey. I have to encorporate my child into my partners life and i think it's no big deal because he is my life but i don't realise how weird it would be for someone else i guess.

I only get alone time with my partner if my child isn't there really (like at school or his dads etc) so i don't actually spend much time with them at all. Maybe they won't get sick of me this way huh?
 
I don't see why some people are so desperate to have someone. Single life can be a love of its own should you know how to treat it... How to use it to your advantage... Just wait ... Someone is waiting in this world for you, stop rushing to find them, and as soon as you stop looking, normally they turn up. Least expected...

Meeeeh... Pining will get you no where! :)

shals! - Live for the moment, not to tomorrow, or 20 years down the track, because today is here, and tomorrow is never guarenteed!
 
My mum just said to me eariler today while chatting to her over MSN......

"darling you are nearly 26, when you going to find a nice lady and settle down?" 8)

uh? whats with mothers and why she need to tell me that? LOL =D

so what if I am nearly 26, and not settled, there's plenty of time for that down the track.

8(
 
i think boredom and social expectations play a part there shal... im not saying they do for me but many ppl want a partner for no real reason other that just to have them because thet is an 'achievement' in society

i honestly wouldnt give a fuck if i was single or not, either way i could be happy. butt... (yes i have my 2 cents on everything)...
Just wait ... Someone is waiting in this world for you, stop rushing to find them, and as soon as you stop looking, normally they turn up. Least expected...
what about when you believe you have found this person but you are not with them (yet)

that is the point in life at which i have hit a brick wall (if any1 has any tips on seducing a close friend without them noticing let me kno;))

-dee
 
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che_melbourne said:
that is the poinin life at which i have hit a brick wall (if any1 has any tips on seducing a close friend without them noticing let me kno)
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  • rohypnol
  • GHB in their drink
  • the old cave man trick of smacking them over the head with a club, dragging them back to your house by their hair.**



** don't drag em by the feet, they fill up with dirt.
 
shal said:
I don't see why some people are so desperate to have someone. Single life can be a love of its own should you know how to treat it... How to use it to your advantage... Just wait ... Someone is waiting in this world for you, stop rushing to find them, and as soon as you stop looking, normally they turn up. Least expected...

Meeeeh... Pining will get you no where! :)

shals! - Live for the moment, not to tomorrow, or 20 years down the track, because today is here, and tomorrow is never guarenteed!
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Amen! and u know what....after having been in the lowest dregs of desperation myself (in between boyfriends,you know that rebound feeling, where you feel so hurt and afraid to be alone you just latch on to the next loser that cums along) i do feel for those who are "desperate."They just havent got the strength to go thru it alone just yet , and believe me, that is the ONLY way to be truly happy in the end. But it takes time to be comfortable being alone. Took me two years to not get an anxiety attack being alone. But then again it gets tired and pathetic to see the same single people pining for love and al that shit (and at my age too!) So yes.....im thankful i got through that desperate stage in one piece and happily single! =D
 
up all night said:
shal: That sounded a lot like a motivational tape my mum has.
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Hahaha. - Anthony Robbins - Eat YOUR HEART OUT! :D

shals :)
 
che_melbourne said:
Just wait ... Someone is waiting in this world for you, stop rushing to find them, and as soon as you stop looking, normally they turn up. Least expected...
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What a shame it is then to see so many women and men intent on having more than 1 person interested in them. Sure they might be pursuing one particular person with a little more vigor than the others, but they still keep a few others trailing along
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The way i see it is that the chances of you finding that one person you really click with, and having that person feel the same about you are pretty minimal. By displaying interest in a few people and just seeing what happens on each front allows for some flexibility when they don't work out, which, lets face it, is more often than not. So yes, it is like a safety net.

If you have really fallen for someone then by all means pursue them and only them but if you have an interest in someone, and you would like to get to know them better that shouldn't exclude you from displaying interest in anyone else - unless something further manifests with one of them. If that happens then appropriate choices should be made.

Adikkal
 
Why the hell is it not possible to talk to a girl without "hitting on them"? I have the sex drive of a panda at the moment and couldn't give a toss about whether I pick up or not yet for some reason I had a friend of mine on the weekend tell me that I shouldn't be so friendly to girls coz they think I am trying to pick them up.

Well, I'll be fucked, I am never being nice to anyone ever again.
 
^ :) Don't listen to your friend. I don't think most women would assume that you want them just because you talk to them. Even if they did think that for a little while would that really matter? After a while they'd realise you're just being friendly and there won't be a problem. It's actually really refreshing to have a guy talk to you just because they want to and not because of some ulterior motive.

I agree with both M_G and Adikkal. =D I think it has to do with timing. In the first stages I think it's totally fine to date a couple of people while you're still trying to figure things out but it's unfair to lead them on once you're sure you don't want to continue dating them just to boost your ego.
 
My favourite piece of back of the toilet graffiti this week...

Why does the guy you like always ask for your best friends phone number? <---- because you're probably ugly

heehee It's funny cos it's true. ;)
 
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