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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

No it is by choice. I find the choice liberating to a certain degree, like taking control of your surroundings and saying - yes this is what I can and will do. I also find that I am better in mind when I abstain. I have done it before (not for as long) and I felt - different. But good.
 
Originally posted by BREAKaBEAT
I am abstaining from sex for a period of one year.

That is all.

8o

What an interesting idea. Unfortunately I don't think I'll be able to join you on this crusade but I want to see if you can do it! :D

Originally posted by sydkiwi
If your partner didnt believe in sex before marriage how long would you last?

If my partner didn't believe in sex before marriage then we'd probably clash on a whole range of issues. It wouldn't be a matter of 'oh my lord no SEX!' but it would make me wonder how compatible we actually were.
 
Sex? What is that? I have a feeling I should know what that word means..... maybe its been a while......8)
 
I don't want to be single but it's hard to find some cool chicks my age that are into the same things as me (drugs mostly I guess) and don't act like the typical demanding girl... sorry to generalise but I'm sure lots of you know what I mean. :)
 
gotta a quick question: im looking more for a girls opinion, im goin to ask a girl out this week even tho i know she is seeing someone. to me, seeing means, we're just interested in each other but we rn't really sure!

does women hav this same opinion of "seeing" ?

P.S: i hardly know her but i think iv fallen for her! she is just such a cutee!
 
Chick's definition:

I say 'seeing someone' when I'm either not that interested but am going out for the sake of it or have just started going out with someone (and am interested but not committed).

Otherwise I would take great delight in calling them my boyfriend.

Good luck!
 
Yeah i guess i say "seeing someone" when it's in the first stages too and then it turns into "dating" i know i know...it's such an american term and i never used to use it but i have done for years now 8(

oh and my date went really well and i feel lots of potential and i am pretty sure he thinks the same way so i guess i'm 'seeing someone' (i think) hehe well you never know in the beginning do you and we haven't had that 'talk' I guess thing will just elove? (maybe?) *shrugs* going with the flow really. I always say and do things too soon and i'm not doing that this time (well i'm hoping nothing falls out of my mouth that i can't catch)

*skips off happily*

=D

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oh and the sex before marrige...i dont think i could do it. Passion and physical compatibility and sexual desire and need is a must in any relationship. For me anyway and when you think about it for this day and age it's quite outdated :p
 
Well, I thought I'd jump in the thread here. I'm 17 and haven't had a relationship in my life. Rather than stress over it during my year 12, after the formal I decided to give up.

I had a phrase which I nicked from a chick-friend which was appropriate. "I Quit!"
 
*sunflower* said:
Chick's definition:

I say 'seeing someone' when I'm either not that interested but am going out for the sake of it or have just started going out with someone (and am interested but not committed).

Otherwise I would take great delight in calling them my boyfriend.

Good luck!
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do you know how bloody scary it is when you are "seeing someone" and she introduces you to people as "her boyfriend".

this act constitutes a definate violation of the muzby code of casual sex, and is punishable by that encounter being the last one ever.
 
I don't introduce people as my boyfriend lightly I can assure you. I've gone out with guys for months and not considered them my boyfriend - it is a MUTUAL agreement.

My post was in answer to someone who queried the terminology 'seeing someone' which I answered.

Edited.
 
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eeep!

wow.

didn't think i'd get that sorta reaction.

nothing hard meant.

honest.. i wasn't actually having a go at u... just the general "my boyfriend" comment in general that girls use... :(

sawwy if it was taken outta context :)
 
^ <3

I don't think he was inferring that you were one of the women he was talking about... more just commenting on the seeing someone/ boyfriend situation. I may be wrong but I in no way interpreted it as an attack on you.

And I agree with *sunflowers* description of boyfriend vs seeing someone.

edit: hehe muzby beat me to it. :D
 
sorry...

it was just easier to hit the reply with quote button than it was to copy, open quote, paste, close quote...

hey.. i'm male... and we males are lazy ;) :)
 
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