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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

^^ no worries. I feel I should apologise for shooting you down in flames so readily, there was no-one standing after that comment :o

Anyway! I sort of like someone. But don't see him that often - he is a friend of a friend etc so I might have to be flirtatious next time I see him. The only thing is, he's a good friend of a friend's housemate who asked me out and I kind of left it up in the air but am not interested.

Blah!
 
^^^ isn't the dating game fun!!

i think we should all just drink that (is it iced tea?) drink in the ad where the surfer goes up to the girl and starts talking to her, all nice and open and honest...

that, and we should take the "traffic light party" idea into mainstream.


wear red if you are taken, orange if you are sorta taken sorta not, and green if it's all on for young and old...

would stop soooo many confusing nights...
 
^hehe But see if I went to one of those traffic light parties I would read it as green being desperate, orange being an indecisive headcase and red being unattainable... and then just get really drunk on my own in a corner.
 
up all night said:
^hehe But see if I went to one of those traffic light parties I would read it as green being desperate, orange being an indecisive headcase and red being unattainable... and then just get really drunk on my own in a corner.
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muzby grabs up all night slaps her round a bit and and says "optimism girl! optimism!!!"

red - a challenge to pick them up by the end of the night
orange - can't commit to their current person cause they havent met YOU yet

and green - ah well, if nothing else comes about.....
 
*sunflower* : if u were "seeing somone" and another guy asked you out, would u say yes?

the situation im in is that this girl is seeing this guy; but i think she is having a little trouble with this guy cause he doesn't want to commit to her! which inturn means she probably wants to commit to him! would u u say yes to someone else who asked u out if u were in this situation?
 
I think if i said i was seeing someone, 3/4 of the time i wouldnt be 'seeing' them if i wasnt genuanly interested and wanted more to eventuate.

Theres someone im interested in at the moment. Though its not at any stage yet, ie, i dont have his phone number yet... whats the most inconspicuous way of attaining such a thing... how would one ask for someones number without seeming too forward? hehe...

Oh, and nothing happened with that other thing i wrote about a few pages ago... well... not yet anyhow ;) The offers always there from the other party... thats been made pretty clear, i just dont know if i want to/should go there. Bah. Could be fun though. *scratches head*
 
I would just like to join this thread for the first time.. I have just come out of a relationship (2 years) and am officially single for the first time in awhile...

I am still learning what it's like to be a "me" and not an "us".. I think time is the only remedy.
 
marcs131 said:
*sunflower* : if u were "seeing somone" and another guy asked you out, would u say yes?

the situation im in is that this girl is seeing this guy; but i think she is having a little trouble with this guy cause he doesn't want to commit to her! which inturn means she probably wants to commit to him! would u u say yes to someone else who asked u out if u were in this situation?
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If the guy I was already seeing was being difficult ;) and another guy I liked asked me out - I'd go out with the 2nd boy no question.

Can't say if I'd keep going out with the other guy though. I've never done that before (gone out with more than one guy) but some girls might.
 
on the 'seeing' versus 'dateing' tangent
once upon a time I was 'seeing' someone, well, thats what I thought, I went away for a few weeks and on my return to the big city I, as one does, sleept with a friend, thrice.
Later that night when I went out, grinning that 'omig, I just got laid' grin, I had this strange feeling that all and sundry belived me to be a dirty cheating whore. Not the impression I was hopeing on giveing. What I didn't realise was that the person I had been 'seeing' had been telling ppl she and I were officialy 'girlfriends'.
Gee thanks for telling me.
Please boys and girls, you are not 'going out' untill both parties know that you are.

yeah, those were the days.
 
Taliana said:
... how would one ask for someones number without seeming too forward? hehe...
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well i use the line, "...hey we should catch up and grab a coffee some time..." and depending on the response, u know if they're interested, then you can just continute on and say, "...ohhh, should i get ur number or ill give u mine..."

wham bam thanku ma`am u hav a fone number!
 
Taliana said:
how would one ask for someones number without seeming too forward? hehe...
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Yeh, definitely make plans with them first. Like organise to meet somewhere. Then get the number for that purpose, like "oh, I better get you're number so I can let you know what's going on".
But they'll probably know what you're up to ;)
 
Siany said:
I would just like to join this thread for the first time.. I have just come out of a relationship (2 years) and am officially single for the first time in awhile...

I am still learning what it's like to be a "me" and not an "us".. I think time is the only remedy.
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hey hey: i was in ur situation about a year and half ago! it took me a while to move on from "us" to "me" but its worth it. i just concentrated on spending more time with my closest mates, something that i struggled to do whilst in a relationship.

i reckon the hardest thing i found was passing the time that you normally associated with that partner, u know, the late night fone calls, ur free-time etc etc.

just remeber that "me" can be just as fun as "us" and another "us" is always not to far away!
 
^^ Yeah I spend quite a bit of time with my mates already, even during the course of our relationship I spent alot of time with them..

I think one of the hardest things has been learning to make decisions completely on my own, and not having to consider my other half. It is weird getting used to being selfish again... it is also weird getting used to sleeping on my own and waking each morning alone.
 
So how does one know when starting a relationship if it turns into a bf/gf thing? Do you have to talk about it you reckon? blah i dunno...maybe i shouldn't care and just see what happens and maybe he will say something about it? I always tend to jump into things too soon and assume we are "this" or whatever and then they get scared and run away 8o lol
 
^^^ What you do is go.. "uh...um... do you wanna go steady?"

And if they say yes then bingo bango you're bf/gf!!! :-P
 
Oh god Macksta you're the King of Smooth. I think you need to remember that you don't live in The Wonder Years. ;)

Don't say anything for a while DQ, it will sort itself out. :)
 
best advise: there will come a time when uve been seeing a guy/girl! one night they'll go out with out you...u wont stop thinking about them all nite, this feeling is incredibly close to jealousy! thats when u know its time to make this person ur b/f or g/f!
 
best advise: there will come a time when uve been seeing a guy/girl! one night they'll go out with out you...u wont stop thinking about them all nite, this feeling is incredibly close to jealousy! thats when u know its time to make this person ur b/f or g/f!
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That is very true :)
 
muzby said:
do you know how bloody scary it is when you are "seeing someone" and she introduces you to people as "her boyfriend".

this act constitutes a definate violation of the muzby code of casual sex, and is punishable by that encounter being the last one ever.
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Unless you're going out with Muzby.

;)
 
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