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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Laughing harder than listening to Bill Hicks while bulbing...

Honestly, I'd agree with Kitty. This thread, seems to have reached a new low of all time fucking PEDESTRIANISM! I hate to say it out loud, but Cohaagen, will you shut up? As Leary would have said, your Signal to Noise ratio is so low it isn't too funny. This is the BLUELIGHT Singles thread, as opposed to a thread for you alone.

Actually, I lie. I don't hate to say it out loud.

Anyway, its interesting to note that this thread is in one of its 'down' times. There's not as much good advice and there's way more of the pathetic 'realisations' and shit that crap me to tears. It comes down to two things. There are two big types of people. Theres those who let life happen to them, and there's those who make it happen. Being either type has its advantages and disadvantages. Get over it.

If you're taking life so seriously that you feel your relationship status affects your worth as a person. Take this as a personal kick in the ass and stop being a mopey shit. Life's one thing and one thing alone, a period of time, of uncertain length, not a journey, not a goal, all it is, is a span of years, or months, or days, for you to spend as you can. So get busy living, or get busy dying, and being too self conscious, is living death.

-plaz out-
 
<==== eat my icon

Now that vBulletin exists, we don't need to continually start NEW versions of the thread... we can continue posting and posting and so on and so forth.

To even suggest permanent closure of a thread just because you don't like it is a bunch of shite, bordering on discussion censorship... now I know we've got a forum for discussing that sorta stuff (SLR), but it's refreshing being able to discuss shit that's going down in your life to people in comparitively similar situations.

Getting rid of the BULLSHIT associated with this thread (ie pointless posting, continual jumping in and out) should be done, and can be done incredibly simply now that we have upgraded to vBulletin, so why not start doing it?

And to conclude my rant, if you don't like the thread, then DON'T FUCKING READ IT. (as has been said before...)

In other news, I'm still king of this thread. And I'll be remaining king for quite some time to come. And no, that's not why I want it to stay open.
 
seriously... its so much easier to get on here and whinge about how crap your love life status is.. coz when you're having a good time you generally feel less of an obligation to tell others. Whereas everyone likes to offload when they are unhappy.

I'll be following the poll closely to see how things pan out.. but I dont see why just coz someone thinks the single's thread sucks that it should be closed.

stace.
 
just merged the threads from begining to end. Seriously have a read through, there's enough information to write a mills and boon in here, it's fantastic.
 
Well that I'm not sure of... some obviously will be against guidelines and be locked but 99.9% of the time yeah I guess we can merge into an existing thread.

I'm not sure if there is a set amount of pages we're going to allow before we lock and move on to part two *shrug*

I guess if vb can handle it and the server doesn't break (I was so scared playing with this that I would break it and Walt and Jake and 40000 blers would come after me with a blunt butter knife) we'll leave em open as long as possible.
 
Just look at this thread... I'm thinking vb can handle most of the threads that get locked on the grounds that they're too big.

Of course, the inapropriate ones should still be locked, I wasn't talking about them.

and lol.. such a kitty thing to say ;)

and...

KITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTY!!!
 
I'm doing exactly what I whinge about the singles thread being but... Nice to see you around again fleazy *mwah* Hope all is well for you.
 
^^^ like the avatar. :)

It's not about closing it, it's about letting it evolve so the good stuff doesn't keep getting lost in the babble, we've recieved enough complaints that it's something to seriously look at.

Read the poll v.2

So many people are alienated from opening this thread because they are not single, others won't reply cause they are not single, loads think that it's just not worth the time and effort to reply when it gets lost in the noise.

We've spent forever saying "if you don't like it don't open it" but isn't it time we said "fine, you don't like it, what do you want to do with it?"
 
Well let's start to get this motherfucker back on track :p

Self-confidence. It's an issue that a lot of us single people have problems with... but I'm somewhat interested to see if most, if not nearly ALL of the posters in this thread have self-confidence issues? Can one draw a connection between marital status and this?

What are your ideas? And if you've got suggestions on how to improve your self-confidence, feel free to say stuff :)
 
Self-confidence


After my girlfriend and I broke up a few years ago I found myself with no Self-confidence what-so-ever.I think you lose or forget certain things when your in a relationship,things that are not that important to you when you have a S/O.Some people might be lucky and they can retain their confidence .Other may just get straight back into a relationship and are in the same situation at the next break-up.For some it will take time for it to come back,For me it was closer to 2 years until I could say I had my confidence come back. :\



Some people will find it hard to have any confidence at all to begin with .It is all to easy to be afraid of what people think of you ,You get nervous and instead of being yourself you get worried and end up being the quiet one,Been there and it really sux ass.I think the secret is trying not to give a fuck...at the end of the day you probably won't see any of them ever again so who cares what they think of you .Gaining confidence will not happen in leaps and bounds but through small steps with each positive thing that happens to you.


If you have something to say...say it .If you're interested in someone then check them out, throw a smile their way.If someone asks how you are say you're fantastic thankx never been better .Try and be positive even if you are not feeling that way.When you are out and about put on a brave face... You have all the time in the world to feel like shit when you're alone :)

Whats the worst thing that can happen?
 
but kitty so what? just ignore it. the discussion can continue....

I agree that self confidence plays a part in marital status. However it's not always low self esteem that equates to a single status.

I consider myself to be very socially confident....very happy and smiliey and able to talk to anyone and everyone. But I know of a couple of boys who were interested in me but were too scared to do anything about it because I was so confident.

So what's better? having low self esteem or being too confident? If it's about finding some sort of balance...that becomes all too hard. It then becomes us trying to change ourselves to find a partner...which isn't a good thing either.

(kitty thre's nothing wrong with 2 discussions going on in the thread at once. it's been that way for ages. it's not one long continuous discussion like other threads. in fact I think that needs to be mentioned in the poll thread)
 
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