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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

well... i'm back...
but different...
all i really want is somebody who is HONEST!
just be direct, straight and open!
i do want much more than just sex... but i think that in this world its gonna either happen by its own accord... i don't think that trying to look for something will help me to find it... it will either come my way or it won't.
the main thing i have learned is that i love myself... not in a bad way... and that is all anybody truly needs. if you love yourself then the love of another will not fill a gap that is missing in your life, it will give something above and beyond what you already have, make the good times even better and the bad times much easier to handle. i dunno, but i think that to love somebody is a thing that cannot come through searching...
anyways... here's to the future. :D
Cohaa.
 
Yeah and im the nicest guy in the world lol.. spent the last 2 hours driving people home after massive attack which was unreal. :)
 
Yeah we're all beautifully spectacular people, and by all rights and privelliges the entire world should ADORE us all!
SO why doesn't it? The answer is simple (and already stated above):
People don't want nice, honest loving or kind, they want someone who will treat them like shit and not give a damn about how they feel.
Please note the non-seriousness of this post :)
 
Cohaa - u are right, i dont think it can come through searching.
A word on a different kind of soulmate:
My best friend and I where born within the same hour at the same hospital (when we where both due 2 wks earlier). We have been best friends over our 22 years. We just know we will have a connection for life and we believe we will probably die around the same time. But i still don't really believe in soulmates as such.
Just special ppl and special relationships, often formed because of coincidence and fate.
 
Soulmates. At last count over 6 Billion on this earth, so I'm assuming, that unless I really am a complete freak of nature, then there is at least one person out there who would be absolutely perfect. Now including odds as well, there's got to be someone who's perfect for me out there, who is also looking for someone exactly like me (scary thought!). The obvious thing is, however, 6 Billion people, kind of cuts into the odds of actually finding them.
-plaz out-
 
I hate to break it to you but you are a freak of nature. But so am I, so don't worry about it. We can get freaky together. Oh wait that didn't quite come out right. I mean we can be freaks together.
 
Boys Suk! :p

Meet spunky boy, have a great night out being silly and generally running amuck, end up back at my place things continue to go well. I have fun, he has fun, but my gripe is WHY do boys ASK for a phone number when they have no intention of fucking calling!!!

I would have been completely happy if he had left with a 'had a great night, i'll see ya later', but nooo, its a 'can i please get your number' giving me the distinct impression that he wants to continue things. Great i think, this boy does have potential and it would be cool to hook up again (and yes my girl brain tends to continue on this nice train of thought) then he doesn't bloody call!!!

Yes I know its only Wednesday, but if i ask for a number its cause i want to hook up with someone again, not just out of some preconcieved notion of it being the right thing to do after spending the night with them!!

sorry end rant now :(

(and if you are reading this fellow football stadium intruder, i still think you rock and it would be cool to hang out again)
 
Indeed...... I want that icon thingy... hmmmm what a wasted post.
how could sending this benefit me.....
 
If I give someone my number, I pretty much forget about it and don't dwell on it again unless they get in touch. When you give your number out, you can't wait for a call back, it'll just result in disappointment... so when you do it, don't do it and get your hopes up.

If I really want to see someone again, I'll make sure I get their number and call. And if both people have a number... well... it can be nothing or something, but usually still nothing.

I'm going to Karaoke tonight!!! :D
 
While I normally forget about any number i may have given out within a good 10 minutes of doing so, when someone makes a big deal out of it, i stupidly assume this is indictive of an increased likelyhood of them calling and stupidly again start to get my hopes up.

I just want people to be upfront and honest, i know its unrealistic, but when you have conversastions about this very topic, you'd hope this would be one instance in which they would be.
 
If you guys jelled well, and he wasnt acting like a player or just a male slut... he will call... maybe he wants this to go further but doesnt want to come across as desperate.

I hope it all goes well.
 
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