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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

but....but....

damn it seemed like a fantastic plan for a while. Everyone likes baby goats. Especially ones in jumpers.
sweatergoat.GIF




back on topic...from the looks of things for my remaining 4 weeks in Australia I will not be part of the single legions :)

Found a gorgeous, fun and party-loving chick who will most certainly have me on cloud 9 for the next month.

Then its off to Single-Land again. But I will not be entirely upset about the prospect since I will be travelling and partying it up with other single folk on the SE Asia party circuit over summer.

*excited* *happy* *goat in sweater*
 
^^ hehe thats really cute :)

The boy i mentioned above, messaged me yesterday to say hi n stuff n to "keep in touch" (he said he would). Yay me yay :):) Good to know, when testing the waters on their word, that they come through with the goods. eheh
 
being single:

pro

-no one to answer to and not that I would anyway. I dont have time for that.

- I find as I get older Im getting picker and enjoying my freedoms more. its the 21st centry. I think us western woman take our freedom of choice we enjoy for granted.

cons

- cant really think of any cept it gets annoying when you've got mates who are couples and your the only single one.
 
Originally posted by sydkiwi
being single:
cons

- cant really think of any cept it gets annoying when you've got mates who are couples and your the only single one.


Oh, you’re not kidding! I am currently the recipient of every single one of my friends matchmaking attention.

“You’d make such a great wife and mum... and I have just the guy for you, you should meet him.”

I should run for the hills more likely :\
 
well there's every possibility that I might not be single very soon. I'm just taking it each day as it comes and trying not to get too caught up in the excitement of being with someone new. because like it or not, I'm doing the girly thing of getting all excited about the possibility of being in a relationship.

I do love being single, because there are so many pros to it (independance being the main one to keep on topic) but like i've said in my posts in this thread before, it's time for a change. I feel like I'm ready to enter into a longer term relationship....something more serious, and adult!!

But at the same time, I haven't been seeing this person for long and I don't want to think too far in advance too soon. I'm so scared of getting too involved and him turning around and changing his mind about me. It's happened once before so I'm so scared of it happening again :\ And getting excited about a long term relationship isn't the way to go about dealing with it!

maybe I just shouldn't think so much about it. it's just hard when it's all I want to think about! I'm just so happy that I've met someone who likes me, who I actually like back :) now I just need to make sure I don't fuck it up :\

does anyone else have difficulties when you first meet someone (particularly the girls)? do you just let it all flow and happen? or do you start fantasising about how things will be with that person?
 
I was just chatting to an old bf from back home i've known since i was 18.

firstly he asks if I still go out and take pills and shit so I said yes

then he goes ahead and tells me i've changed for the worst.

So i asked him to elaborate.

His defence was that "I don't want to come over and revisit some of the old times we shared."

For starters I was over him years ago and another thing he has a long term gf who hes practically married to. hes even offered to pay my airfares over for a visit (and no doubt wanting to revisit those old times).

I guess it peeves him that i've toned my act waaaaaay down.
 
Mibrane's on the market.
After 7 years my partner and I are taking a break. I guess that qualifies me for participation in this thread... or is there a "relationship limbo-land" thread? ;)
 
miss apple said:

does anyone else have difficulties when you first meet someone (particularly the girls)? do you just let it all flow and happen? or do you start fantasising about how things will be with that person?

I'm one of those people who cant help but think ahead, not in a real big commitment way cos heavy or suffocating commitment scares the shit out of me. I guess it’s just when I meet someone who’s a possibility I have to think ahead a bit and wonder if it would work.
I envy those people who can just let it be and see how things turn out but I have to over analyse everything so…
:\
 
^^ hehe

funny, how i was all "i want a girlfriend for a bit dammit" till i hooked up with someone. now i just want his boddddddddy lol.
 
miss apple said:
well there's every possibility that I might not be single very soon. I'm just taking it each day as it comes <<large SNIP>>...
maybe I just shouldn't think so much about it. it's just hard when it's all I want to think about! I'm just so happy that I've met someone who likes me, who I actually like back :) now I just need to make sure I don't fuck it up :\ does anyone else have difficulties when you first meet someone (particularly the girls)? do you just let it all flow and happen? or do you start fantasising about how things will be with that person?

You never saw this (below) in the BL's I Have Met thread, did you?

candyflip said:
Umm, you forgot 'good looking'... ;)

I first met Miss Apple almost exactly a year ago at Transmission in Sydney, quite unexpectedly. For those of you who don't know of her, Miss A was here right back when JohnBoy was just a pup, Bluelight was really 'new' and Big Trancer was some kid we were still deciding whether we'd let into the 'club'... =D <joking>

I'd read a lot of posts from this girl all through 1999 and the following few years, so I knew to expect a forthright, genki (Japanese for 'happy, full of energy'), intelligent and happy woman who had time for absolutely everyone and always seemed to have a HUGE smile on her rosy red cheeked face. And I got exactly that. She was an absolute pleasure. :D

Of all the BL's I've met through the years, Miss A and I share the most common dream: that of finding a love that is equal to their personal, very highly set, mark. I think both of us have missed the boat a few times through circumstance or design and we seem to even be sharing a common problem at the moment: will the friend you have admired for years and years finally see your longing for them, or will they take up with that other person!? (see the 'Singles' thread). I can happily report that my personal situation is nearing completion and is going my way (5 years later). So hang in there baby! =D

My dearest wish for you M, is that whoever he is and whatever the circumstance, that the one that you are meant to be with for all time arrives (or wakes up!) soon, because I don't know of many others who deserve it quite as much as you do. :D

If you ever get to meet Miss Apple, give her a big kiss on the cheek and share a joke, a beer or a smoke: she's a delight.

Let's hope this is everything it could be for you. And my advice: let it roll. Don't be too serious about it and just be yourself, for being anyone else is not who you want this guy to fall in love with!

=D
 
oh my goodness! no I didn't see that post. where's the blushing icon when you need it??

wow candyflip - thank you :) they're such kind words.

I don't know what to say!

I'm so happy to hear that things are happening for you too :) One day we'll both be wondering why we were so concerned about finding what we're searching for now.

and I'm happier about my situation now than the other night when I made that post....I was just thinking way too much about it. now I've realised that it's ok to think stuff like that, as long as I don't let on that's what I'm thinking to the other person ;)

by the way J...you actually know this person. I might leave it for PM to tell you who though. it's amazing how these things happen :)
 
I feel like having a rant but I so can't be fucked.. feeling excessively emotionally drained and hurt from friend's lies, I dunno where to start.

Are women really not that honest and prefer to avoid the possiblility of hurting one's feelings? I mean fuck. All I've asked for has been honesty, and it's all I've never gotten. :(
 
Dante... I'm about to get out of here and go to a meeting so I can't say all I want to say right now (but believe me i'll be back to it).

I think that both men and women are equally confusing and crazy to each other and that there's a few truly evil in each sex (if you can tell me why we keep attracting them, I'll make you a rich man :\).

Is this the same girl we talked about not so long ago?
 
I think Kitty is right. Both guys and girls can be as equally as confusing as each other. But i feel for you man, been there done that myself, infact STILL going through that now.
Its not easy, and its not right, but it happens. To a certain extent i think we all do it at some stage.
Try and focus on what you DO have and not on what you DON'T have. That always puts a smile on my face each morning i wake up and think of ........ *ahem*......mmmm.

DJC*
 
djc *hugs*

Still here
I like a guy (or two) and none of them are planning on moving to sydney anytime soon :( tho one did like sydney but I think hes thinking of moving down to melbourne (hes from nz and no not the ex Ive mentioned). The other is a brissy boy and a DJ but hmm will see..
 
Well, my vow of singleness is working (not that it's that hard as it's only been abotu 2 weeks!) I'm not going to rush into anything anymore, with anyone. I'll revert back to my cautious days. it's better that way! :)
This summer will be the time of ME! To be shared with friends and family, not some passing dickhead who is a waste of my time, as I have had too many of those now. BLEAH!
Hug me dammit!
 
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i have to earn a living somehow bubs! ;)

Seriously though, I think my last 2 week 'relationship' really opened my eyes again. If i dont like someone, I wont go out with them. Seems like a sensible thing, but then why didi i go out with the last 3 guys?! Rebound one, next one was in a period of confusion in my life and the last one... Bahahah! Who knows...

So my question is this though, are we ever ready for relationships to come along, when they actually do? Do things ever really work out?!?
 
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