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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!
- Thread starter Adz-O-Rama
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finally, the simple reason that i am single is that i think i am too fucking good for myself. i think i know everything, i think im too good looking, i think that im smarter than everyone.
im way too in love with myself which is great for self esteem, and i make good company there is no doubt about it, but i know i have the "un-approachable" status in more ways than one.
people either assume i have a g/f, and at times i do, or they just dont know how to take me.
i have made a concious decision to not let anyone upset me, and honestly, nobody does. i really do not care for anyone elses opinion that is contrary to mine. i will take it into account, but if the person annoys me, i quite simply ignore them. i do not allow anyone, even most of my friends, if not all, to be close to me, emotionally. i share my emotions, in a comical sense, and will even express them, but have this insane ability to make is seem trivial.
but ill wait for the girl that does. i met one tonight. pity she is a lesbian.![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
im way too in love with myself which is great for self esteem, and i make good company there is no doubt about it, but i know i have the "un-approachable" status in more ways than one.
people either assume i have a g/f, and at times i do, or they just dont know how to take me.
i have made a concious decision to not let anyone upset me, and honestly, nobody does. i really do not care for anyone elses opinion that is contrary to mine. i will take it into account, but if the person annoys me, i quite simply ignore them. i do not allow anyone, even most of my friends, if not all, to be close to me, emotionally. i share my emotions, in a comical sense, and will even express them, but have this insane ability to make is seem trivial.
but ill wait for the girl that does. i met one tonight. pity she is a lesbian.
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doofqueen
Bluelighter
papermate said:
hehehe and why is that? what can u do for me hey?
and wheres my analisation huh? i want one too now! 8) hehehe
To be perfectly honest, since ive never been in a serious long term relationship, I have to admit that ive never actually felt lonely... I have a very independent mindset and would probably say that I probably wouldnt get into a relationship for anything other than sex and other good times.
plazma
Bluelighter
OMFG!
Bwahahahah sorry Doofqueen:
But nobody gets away with saying something like that in this thread.
-plaz out-
Bwahahahah sorry Doofqueen:
But nobody gets away with saying something like that in this thread.
-plaz out-
doofqueen
Bluelighter
but im just a silly girl *batts eyelashes* i dont know how to spell and my fingers go faster then my brain hahahaha
Lonely. hard to explain. i have more of a fear that i do not or will not have a good group of freinds. im sure that everyone here on bluelight can identify with the concept of haveing friends who are.....worth it so to speak. i think the...lifestyle and the menatlity of everyone here is wonderful, with the exception of a few....
and its these type of people that i love association with.
in term of romantic lonliness. it doesnt really play on my mind. i dont even get downers to be honest, i have such a great time doing what i do, in both a professional sense, and recreational sense. possibly...once a month, or even less, i go.."fuck, i wish i had someone to hug", but its not that often. i am, and everybody knows me as the party boy, whatever that means.
the only thing that i can think of that specifically relates to lonliness is that when i see an absolutely geourgous girl, i think.."gee...wouldnt that be nice to have her as g/f.
and that ends my postings as to why i am single.
and its these type of people that i love association with.
in term of romantic lonliness. it doesnt really play on my mind. i dont even get downers to be honest, i have such a great time doing what i do, in both a professional sense, and recreational sense. possibly...once a month, or even less, i go.."fuck, i wish i had someone to hug", but its not that often. i am, and everybody knows me as the party boy, whatever that means.
the only thing that i can think of that specifically relates to lonliness is that when i see an absolutely geourgous girl, i think.."gee...wouldnt that be nice to have her as g/f.
and that ends my postings as to why i am single.
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
well...i've been officially part of this thread since i first joined bluelight...how sad 
anyway, i'll go with papermate's idea it was with the personal responses, seems to be promoting discussion so far!
nickthecheese: nice one bruva!! congrats on departing
cosmic mist: what vurto and mr fluffy said! it was brought up a few pages back when i *finally* had the opportunity to exit single life but actually decided against it...it was kinda the point that i'd stopped looking for once, and of course that's when things kicked into gear. it's weird. and for the life of me i can *never* find a girlfriend when i'm looking
mona: your advice is also very good. it's quite easy to get caught up in the whole loneliness and desperation thing and just throw yourself at the first person that comes along. it's *not* a good idea!
backo: wow, that situation sucks! i have nothing really to add, but hopefully it's *dealable*. btw, my post-count 0wnz j00rs
papermate: i envy you. you have confidence *and* the lack of loneliness. not that i'm permanently wrapped-up in self pity or antyhing, but i could definitely do with the closeness that a relationship gives. but hey, i did have that opportunity not long ago, so i guess i have no one to blame for myself
anyway, i'll go with papermate's idea it was with the personal responses, seems to be promoting discussion so far!
nickthecheese: nice one bruva!! congrats on departing
cosmic mist: what vurto and mr fluffy said! it was brought up a few pages back when i *finally* had the opportunity to exit single life but actually decided against it...it was kinda the point that i'd stopped looking for once, and of course that's when things kicked into gear. it's weird. and for the life of me i can *never* find a girlfriend when i'm looking
mona: your advice is also very good. it's quite easy to get caught up in the whole loneliness and desperation thing and just throw yourself at the first person that comes along. it's *not* a good idea!
backo: wow, that situation sucks! i have nothing really to add, but hopefully it's *dealable*. btw, my post-count 0wnz j00rs
papermate: i envy you. you have confidence *and* the lack of loneliness. not that i'm permanently wrapped-up in self pity or antyhing, but i could definitely do with the closeness that a relationship gives. but hey, i did have that opportunity not long ago, so i guess i have no one to blame for myself
Cosmic Mist
Bluelighter
Heh heh... sorry guys, but if you'd asked me 2 weeks ago, i'd have been in for sure!
Seems to me that i'm no longer available.
1234: I know what you're saying. I was talking about this to my boy-o today, and it's strange because we found each other at the exact moment in each of our lived whereby we had accepted where we were and were happy to remain there. Now everything is up in the air again, but that's not a bad thing.
But being happy with where and who you are is a difficult thing to succesfully achieve, and it takes some serious introspect to arrive there... keep going dude, i'm sure the right girl is just around the corner.
Mr Fluffy: at hyjinx's party this january past, you told me that if i didn't make it out of this thread in 6 months, then iw ould be stuck here for 2 years... well, i'm outta here officially now!
and it only took me 3 months!
doofqueen
Bluelighter
comsic *massive hugs* ( and u know i give good ones ) im soooooooo happy for you hun !!!!
) im soooooooo happy for you hun !!!!Cosmic Mist said:Heh heh... sorry guys, but if you'd asked me 2 weeks ago, i'd have been in for sure!
Seems to me that i'm no longer available.
I'd love to be able to same I'm in the same boat. I met a nice guy at home ... he's called me and messaged me a fair few times ..
BUT ...
I know my luck with guys ... I always find the drop kicks .. so let's just see how we go!
Fingers crossed peoples! BopGirl's turn :D
Queen Beat
Bluelighter
papermate: Thanks for your kind words. However I've once again been removed from this thread (not that I'm complaining). I would like to say though that in the short time I was single my eyes were opened as to how many awesome (and damn sexy)guys there are out there! Hop to it girls! But why is it that you get a million offers when you're really not in a headspace to deal with them and yet when you're primped and primed and emotionally ready there isn't a decent man in sight? Murphy's law I suppose.
However I've once again been removed from this thread (not that I'm complaining). I would like to say though that in the short time I was single my eyes were opened as to how many awesome (and damn sexy)guys there are out there! Hop to it girls! But why is it that you get a million offers when you're really not in a headspace to deal with them and yet when you're primped and primed and emotionally ready there isn't a decent man in sight? Murphy's law I suppose. [serotone]
Bluelighter
well been single since hardware 20 ...
and enjoying the freedom very much so.
so....
anyone up for a root ?
and enjoying the freedom very much so.
so....
anyone up for a root ?
