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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

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my phone blunders are limited to not hitting a button properly, or hitting the wrong button with jitters, and then calling up a completely different person.
often ill end up with mobile numbers with 5 digits in there, other times with 11 or 12
 
my thing is, generally, when i find someone that i like i need to get to know them first. I think i may come on a bit strong at times - i often seem to myself to be clingy, but there's nothing i can do about that either...

... otherwise, i feign complete disinterest in the person so that i don't make a fool of myself when i find out that htey aren't interested in me - often i find out that they are, but by the time i find out it's too late, forwahtever reason.

With this guy that i have recently found, i managed to overcome all of this somehow - i didn't find something tiny that i would usually allow to make me not want to spend time with him, and instead of usually seeing what i'm not atracted to, i saw what i am attracted to. Hmmm...

it felt so wrong to go against the grain i usually follow, but now everything is good. Perhaps that's it?
 
Im utterly fucked up here. I doubt I can even have a relationship.

Im 20 and my longest relationship is 3 months. Even that was on and off.

I have hideously high standards that are virtually unnattainable.

I get cold into relationships within the first month.


Add to that I cant take hints off chicks who are interested, and those that are blunt turn me off because it seems to take the challenge away?

Im not unhappy being single but im kinda worried if this is going to be a lifelong thing.
 
*sits down and has a beer*

why am I single? Really I dont care anymore. why do we have to define our selves these days still by being in a relationship?

I think its time to move on from where I am in live. Im sick of the whole club and rave scene. But after years Ive nearly forgotten what i use to enjoy doing.

But hey you dont meet anyone by staying home and drinking on the couch all weekend.
 
i miss having someone other then my son to hold hands with down the street when i see other couples ca-noodling *pout*

but i dont need a partner :\
 
Im starting to think that talking about feelings online is unproductive.... I never thought id post in this thread but obviously ive had my input. Im going to try and take a holiday from this thread for a while and not bother about getting introspective... see how that goes for a while. Act on impulse stop pondering.8( 8( 8( 8( Thanks Singles Thread=D
 
Well me where do i start

Hmmm defiently single, I'm looking for a nice girl, but for some reason just can't run into one, I find myself always going out clubbing with my friends because it stops me from being depressed and lonely, I usually flirt with girls alot, At my last job everyone though i tryed to pickup every receptionist that worked there oh well that's just me

I'm 20yrs old, Live in Sydney, St goerge sutherland area, I got clubs like hmmm Sublime and Together etc

My longest relationship was just over 3 months, haven't had any longer then that, Looking for a girl that doesn't hurt me ;)

This is me clubbing 2 weeks ago, On a saturday - House music

joshclubbing.jpg


Josh
 
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heya Josh! That picture is nifty nift! How'd you manage to capture the "glow wave" in the shot??

Back on topic now...

I still advocate the idea of acceptance of yourself before you can be accepted by others. I proved this to myself by finally becoming happy with who i am , and then having everything fall into place around me. That's the way it seems to work for me, i'm not sure if everyone will agree with me, but let's face it, no one is attracted to a person who lacks confidence, and how can you have confidence if you aren't contented with who you are?
 
Hahaha Bopgirl and Aussie Raver are there as well lol guys...
Aussie Raver I like your comment
 
1ST: If someone's interested in me OBVIOUSLY (like telling me how cute I am etc etc) that TOTALLY turns me off because straight away it says "STALKER POTENTIAL".

2ND: If I have sex with someone before I make friends with him, then it makes it really hard for me to have sex with him in future. It's like, "we're friends now, we can't fuck."

why can't you have sex / make love / share passion with a friend... don't just think of it as FUCKING per se.

i would love nothing more in the world to be best friends with somebody and be able to make love with them too... that would be the ideal situation for me.

Cohaa
 
Lol are yopu serious

Firstly most girls don't like just fucking as friends, They call that a player

Yeah there are alot that do, But alot that don't
And i don't see any point just being friends and doing that stuff, I'm not that kind of person and i bet alot are like me....That would be heaps hard for me because if you still friends meaning you can fuck other people as well

Not good ;)

Good luck though :D
 
Shnouzerpuff said:
Im utterly fucked up here. I doubt I can even have a relationship.

Im 20 and my longest relationship is 3 months. Even that was on and off.

I have hideously high standards that are virtually unnattainable.

I get cold into relationships within the first month.
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Dude... you have had a 3 month relationship!!! You're doing fucking well in my books! :)

I've NEVER had a relationship and i'm 24. How do you like them apples? But then again, i'm a freak.

Cohaa.
 
I End all my relationships, Some just don't work out or the girl stabs me in the back, So i just get rid of her, Give them a few chances and thats it :P

Just need to find a girl that doesnt hurt me :D
 
Backo said:
I have a very independent mindset and would probably say that I probably wouldnt get into a relationship for anything other than sex and other good times.=D
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I hear you there. I basically never get lonely and bored because I can keep myself entertained within my own mind... some may call it madness but its my world and that's the way I am...

i am quite capable of living by myself for extended periods of time (as i am doing now), but i don't wanna stay like this forever, it just ain't right.

I also live under the illusion that women are generally after love or something more than just sex. I cannot imagine that women have the same sexual cravings as I do, i just cannot make that link. I always imagine women as gentle and kind, not rampant and bang-bang-bang... am i wrong? If so then in theory i should be able to go up to a chick who gives me the eye and just ask her for sex. I know if a good looking girl did this to me I would pretty much always say yes. Is this allowed?

I am sure that my time will come. Well, now I am anyways.

Cohaa.
 
If so then in theory i should be able to go up to a chick who gives me the eye and just ask her for sex. I know if a good looking girl did this to me I would pretty much always say yes. Is this allowed?

I am sure that my time will come. Well, now I am anyways.

Cohaa. [/B]
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OK, In someways yeah you could find a girl like that, but for that to turn into a relationship will never happen, Girls that just want sex don't want realationships and they'll never love you

Not the right way about it if your looking for love ;)

Find a girl, makes friends, then continue forward

Slow down buddy!
 
Mp3 said:
OK, In someways yeah you could find a girl like that, but for that to turn into a relationship will never happen, Girls that just want sex don't want realationships and they'll never love you

Not the right way about it if your looking for love ;)

Find a girl, makes friends, then continue forward

Slow down buddy!
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Yep... that's my problem... i can't help myself... i think TOO FAR INTO THE FUTURE.

Even at my age now, I am having thoughts to what i want to be doing when i am retired. Weird that.

but... there is this girl who i adore... i'm taking it slow with her... and i don't care if it works or not... cos she's beautiful and i love her anyway.

yay

PS : i may be looking for love, but i also wanna fuck too.

Cohaa.
 
I couldn't have a relationship without sex, it would be full boring'

I could start off with none, but eventually have to do stuff with my girl, have to be truthful to them and get along with them, before you do anything they got to gain your trust, this may take a while.....

But yeah
 
hmmm...

well i've never anything i would regard as a "relationship", so i can't really say, but if i was wanting to go out with a girl i would like to get sex out of the way quickly, cos if i wasn't sexually compatible with them i just don't think it could work out from that point of view... but then again i know fuck all about relationships.

basically, i just want a girl who is smart, kind, nice, good looking, and wants to be my friend, have intelligent conversations with, have fun with and have as much sex as is possible as often as possible.

but don't we all?

Cohaa.
 
Cosmic Mist said:
I still advocate the idea of acceptance of yourself before you can be accepted by others. I proved this to myself by finally becoming happy with who i am , and then having everything fall into place around me. That's the way it seems to work for me, i'm not sure if everyone will agree with me, but let's face it, no one is attracted to a person who lacks confidence, and how can you have confidence if you aren't contented with who you are?
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pfft. you were just lucky.

Just because you're confident and happy with yourself doesn't necessarily mean 'everything falls into place'.
 
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