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Ask an Escort- by XtcgrlATL

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youarewhatyouis said:
I got a serious question

What makes you different from all the other working girls in the world who probably wouldn't put up with one question about what they do, much less 10 pages of questions....?

All? I mentioned this thread on a providers board and another provider said she'd love to jump into the discussion here because she's had the same conversations on AOL chatrooms. I chose not to direct her here because this is a drug forum and there's a lot of drug ignorance on the providers board so I'm not interested in being known as the drug doing one. (Not long ago some girl was basically going on an anti-drug rant because she had just gotten back from a session with a client where he asked her if she wanted to try....OMG, A POPPER!)

Since that ignorance pervades the business it wouldn't do me any favors in the rumor mill to have that knowledge out there, otherwise I'd have gotten that other provider on here :)

Do you want to justify what you're doing?

Not really. There's not anything to justify in my eyes, basically I have a lot of free time and the internet is where I spend most of it. Since I don't play Scrabulous or World of Warcraft I keep the internet interesting by posting on forums. This thread has been a great way for me to kill time. :)
 
yeah, Bluelight is a good time waster.....

What do you think about the street walkin type of hookers? Do you think that you could take your expierence as an escort and use it in a positive way, like maybe counseling women who are caught up in the game? Or do you think that high-end escorts and street walkers are just two different types of people, and they probably wouldn't listen to you......?
 
youarewhatyouis said:
What do you think about the street walkin type of hookers?

Part of me feels sorry for them and part of me looks down on them. I don't know any of them as individuals and I'm sure that reasons and backgrounds vary but I feel sorry for them because regardless of their reasons they're the ones that are most at risk for...well..everything bad that people think of when they think of the sex industry.

Part of me looks down on them because I'm egotistical and I feel that they're the ones most responsible for the seedy reputation of the sex industry.


Do you think that you could take your expierence as an escort and use it in a positive way, like maybe counseling women who are caught up in the game? Or do you think that high-end escorts and street walkers are just two different types of people, and they probably wouldn't listen to you......?

I've considered it but I have no idea how it would go. I think that the high end escort usually comes from a classier background so building a connection might be iffy. We both sell sex but since we're coming from different worlds both in background and servicing different aspects of the industry it's pretty different. I've sure never been robbed, raped, or threatened. Those things seem to happen to streetwalkers fairly regularly.

But I don't really know that. I can speculate but that's all it is. Perhaps I've got a totally wrong picture and if a current/former streetwalker were on this thread she'd lend a different perspective on her side of the industry similar to how I've challenged many of the presumptions about the escort business.
 
xtcgrlatl said:
Part of me feels sorry for them and part of me looks down on them. I don't know any of them as individuals and I'm sure that reasons and backgrounds vary but I feel sorry for them because regardless of their reasons they're the ones that are most at risk for...well..everything bad that people think of when they think of the sex industry.

Part of me looks down on them because I'm egotistical and I feel that they're the ones most responsible for the seedy reputation of the sex industry.

I've considered it but I have no idea how it would go. I think that the high end escort usually comes from a classier background so building a connection might be iffy. We both sell sex but since we're coming from different worlds both in background and servicing different aspects of the industry it's pretty different. I've sure never been robbed, raped, or threatened. Those things seem to happen to streetwalkers fairly regularly.

But I don't really know that. I can speculate but that's all it is. Perhaps I've got a totally wrong picture and if a current/former streetwalker were on this thread she'd lend a different perspective on her side of the industry similar to how I've challenged many of the presumptions about the escort business.

Yet you remain untested for STDs since, what was it, last September? The odds aren't exactly in your favor. Do you have a moral problem with the fact that you look down on "street hookers" as more "iffy" than yourself when you may be transmitting diseases to your clients?
 
I have trouble conneting with the supposed entertainment value of this thread, nor am I impressed or amused by it's content. To be fully honest, it's not as if sex workers are few and far between. Let's face it, we're all whores at one time or another.
 
Mariposa said:
Yet you remain untested for STDs since, what was it, last September? The odds aren't exactly in your favor. Do you have a moral problem with the fact that you look down on "street hookers" as more "iffy" than yourself when you may be transmitting diseases to your clients?

I didn't say I was proud of the fact that I'm egotistical, I simply admitted to it. That's why I framed my response the way I did.

On the other hand by having sex with a stranger, no questions asked, you takes your chances, and everyone involved in the industry on both sides knows that. If I do have STD's then I didn't spontaneously generate them by nature of my job, I caught them from someone else, that was the risk I took by doing this job. By coming to see me one has accepted a degree of risk, just as I accept a degree of risk by seeing them.

The risk of catching something is inherent to participating in this business.

On the up side one is probably somewhat safer seeing me then seeing a streetwalker because for both of our protections I insist on using a condom, whereas streetwalkers are especially well known for letting people buy out of it for a pretty small amount of money.

But to continue that discussion we'd have to get into the classist aspects of the nature of STD distribution in the general population, and that would probably get ugly.
 
It's kind of like going bungy jumping, or white water rafting. You should make them sign a disclaimer! But seriously, precautions taken, I think there would be more risk of getting into a car accident then catching STDs from a prostitute,.
 
xtcgrlatl said:
I didn't say I was proud of the fact that I'm egotistical, I simply admitted to it. That's why I framed my response the way I did.

On the other hand by having sex with a stranger, no questions asked, you takes your chances, and everyone involved in the industry on both sides knows that. If I do have STD's then I didn't spontaneously generate them by nature of my job, I caught them from someone else, that was the risk I took by doing this job. By coming to see me one has accepted a degree of risk, just as I accept a degree of risk by seeing them.

The risk of catching something is inherent to participating in this business.

On the up side one is probably somewhat safer seeing me then seeing a streetwalker because for both of our protections I insist on using a condom, whereas streetwalkers are especially well known for letting people buy out of it for a pretty small amount of money.

But to continue that discussion we'd have to get into the classist aspects of the nature of STD distribution in the general population, and that would probably get ugly.

Do you think there would be a higher demand for your services if you marketed yourself as "STD FREE"?
 
0000alphabet0000 said:
Do you think there would be a higher demand for your services if you marketed yourself as "STD FREE"?

Maybe, but I could never be sure if it was true so I would never do so. I could be tested clean that morning and then infected with something by evening.
 
xtcgrlatl said:
But to continue that discussion we'd have to get into the classist aspects of the nature of STD distribution in the general population, and that would probably get ugly.

I believe you already have, but I can't confirm that without test results.

You are a potential walking health hazard. It doesn't matter that you peddle your illegal wares on the Internet rather than a street corner.

When your "hobbyists/mongers" ask when the last time you were tested for STDs, what do you tell them?

You are a risk not worth taking.
 
i have a feeling that in regards to a recent test, a lot of these clients don't care.

a lot of the guys i know could not care less about std's. no desire to wear a condom or get tested for anything. my current boyfriend believes that he's fine, b/c my tests came back clear (young, dumb, and full of cum). ignorance is bliss, apparently.

so, i'm thinking, by the time a guy gets to her place, he's ready to go. i doubt many even inquire. *shrug* the ostrich-head-in-the-sand theory.
 
Mariposa said:
I believe you already have, but I can't confirm that without test results.

I'm sure one could find them on the internet if one were genuinely inclined. When I was inclined to do so I had no problems.

You are a potential walking health hazard. It doesn't matter that you peddle your illegal wares on the Internet rather than a street corner.

Given the statistics it seems that most people are walking health hazards.

But that doesn't put us in a position to ignore the fact that streetwalkers often attract lower class clientèle.

When your "hobbyists/mongers" ask when the last time you were tested for STDs, what do you tell them?

Well most people never ask, if they do ask then I tell them the truth, just as I've posted here. No one has ever walked out on me. Not even once.


You are a risk not worth taking.

Different people have different levels of risk acceptance. I do not fit your level of risk acceptance. Barring finding an escort that demands an STD test from every client you probably wont find one that does.
 
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I am sure it is exceedingly unlikely, however what would you do should you become pregnant?

Also, I really appreciate your willingness to allow all us ignorant folks to ask questions so openly. I have always wanted to sleep with a higher class escort because 1.) You have experience and obviously know what works and 2.) You are providing a service so have motivation to please. Some girls I have dated are so awful in bed that its as if they don't want me even thinking about sleeping with them. Anyway, thanks again for this opportunity to learn and I hope someday to find an escort just like you!
 
xtcgrlatl said:
Different people have different levels of risk acceptance. I do not fit your level of risk acceptance. Barring finding an escort that demands an STD test from every client you probably wont find one that does.

Could I offer you and Mariposa a compromise? Would you get tested at regular timely intervals? Doctors recommend getting tested for STDs every 6 months, if you are sexually active, so you could go every July and January.
 
Streetwalkers: When I was in jail for 24 hours as a result of pleading guilty to DUI, there were many women in there that did Craig's list. One of them pointed to a kinda retarded, blond-haired woman and said, with contempt that she was a streetwalker.

I really felt sorry for her.

Three of my TS friends have done escort & streetwalking. Seems the less intelligent ones can't afford a computer or know-how to even get on Craig's list, let alone set-up an escort website.

When I was maybe 14 years old I told my dad that it seemed prostitutes had it made. He told me, "They look pretty and fit now but what are they gonna do when they get older?"

If U ever get a felony, U'll never get a decent job, not even in the nursing industry.

Nevertheless, if I was in U'r situation and u'r age xtcgrl, I'd prolly be doing the same thing as U.
 
Cane2theLeft said:
I am sure it is exceedingly unlikely, however what would you do should you become pregnant?

Have an entire season of the Maury show devoted to paternity tests.

Ok, no, I think it's pretty obvious what I'd do. I'd suggest that any girl who wouldn't do the same should probably seek other employment.


2.) You are providing a service so have motivation to please.

Just make sure and do your research on the provider you picked via escort review sites. To be honest our services are so in demand that providing bad service generally wont get written about, and even if it does a lot of guys don't check the review sites so you can get by just fine even with a "known" reputation as being a less then stellar provider all the way down to a complete rip off.

But there are those of us that do actually take some amount of pride in being good at what we do and genuinely like to make sure that it's enjoyable for both parties if possible.

Just be clean, polite, and enthusiastic and it will get you far. The more positive energy you bring to the table the easier it is for us to do our best.
 
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Thanks, I really appreciate the advice and insight.

In general, are customers polite and respectful towards you? How often are they rude or even demeaning? How do you you handle the 'difficult' ones?
 
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