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Ask an Escort- by XtcgrlATL

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if you think many escorts get STD checks, or are clean, I think you'd be mistaken. A huge part of the population has HPV or Herpes. If you go to one of these girls, expect to be potentially exposed. You can't expect regular checkups in an unregulated industry. You can say it's her fault, blah blah blah, but it's BOTH of them who choose to take this risk. It's not her fault. It's not her responsibility to get checked. It's his responsibility to wear a condom and know that he may be exposed to STDs that are transmitted through simple skin to skin contact.

It's a risk they both take, and it's no reason to give her shit about it. You want regulation ? Go to Nevada. The girls there aren't even that fine.

P.S. Never been with a prostitute before.
 
LoveAlways said:
If you found out that you DO in fact have and STD/STI what would you do about it??
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What can ya do? Several of them are just there and that's it. Nothing much to be done about them except get on with life.
 
I mean would you still let men pay you for having sex/catching venerial diseases with them?

Would you tell any of your previous clients?
 
As I said in my previous post I would almost certainly not be able to bring myself to continue doing this while knowingly carrying something.

I wouldn't know how to get in touch with previous clients. I have a very few in my phone so I know when they call but I couldn't call them because you dont know if wifey is gonna answer the phone.
 
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if you think many escorts get STD checks, or are clean, I think you'd be mistaken. A huge part of the population has HPV or Herpes. If you go to one of these girls, expect to be potentially exposed.
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a huge part of the sexually active population has these afflictions!






i blather on more and more, but here's the gist- we're all at risk.

taken from the cdc:
Approximately 20 million Americans are currently infected with HPV, and another 6.2 million people become newly infected each year. At least 50% of sexually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives.
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Nationwide, at least 45 million people ages 12 and older, or one out of five adolescents and adults, have had genital HSV infection.
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MOST of the women i know have hpv...one of them was a 21 year old girl who had only 3 partners, all of whom were longterm boyfriends.
 
poopie said:
MOST of the women i know have hpv...one of them was a 21 year old girl who had only 3 partners, all of whom were longterm boyfriends.
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Most of the time HPV doesn't give any signs. In fact, most of the time there are no symptoms for STDs. Viral stds cannot be cured, so you're fucked for life. Getting checked on the regular will only determine if a woman has HPV or other stds. Don't men find it gross that they're hooking up with a female that a shit load of other men already had????? Jezz nice way to keep spreading STDs. I don't understand how someone getting around MANY times doesn't already have an STD, it is not adding up. good luck

http://www.herpesonline.org/articles/genital_herpes.html says 1 in 4 adults have HSV2
 
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eras3r said:
I'm sorry, but you are being totally irresponsible here. Just because you don't have symptoms of an STI doesn't mean you don't have it. In the meantime, while you're being incredibly selfish, you could be passing on an STI to another person who might inadvertently pass it on to a partner or a future partner. It's your duty, as being part of the sex industry, to help stop the spread of STIs.

Please go get yourself tested more frequently, and please stop being so selfish in saying that you don't want to hear the bad news. Nobody wants to hear that they have an STI, but many of us who aren't escorts get tested on a regular basis Surely there are free clinics in your area that provide STI screening for a minimal fee or free.
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Thats exactly how I felt when I read that. :|
 
Very interesting thread! Kind of like that show on HBO.

One question, have you ever done the "group" thing? A client and his friends in the same room kinda deal. Also, has any deal gone sour (as in getting robbed or beat, but not by the police)?
 
inotocracy said:
Very interesting thread! Kind of like that show on HBO.

One question, have you ever done the "group" thing? A client and his friends in the same room kinda deal. Also, has any deal gone sour (as in getting robbed or beat, but not by the police)?
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No, I'd never do "the group thing". I've been asked a couple times and that's just to much for me. To weird.

I've never been robbed or beaten up. I've been ripped off a couple times but it's usually more innocuous. IE: a dude calls me to come over to his hotel room and then when I'm there he's like "I thought you said (less then what I ask for)>"

Which is total bullshit and I know it because I never ever bargain on my rate.

That was annoying.

Actually one that was real annoying was just a couple months ago. I was feeling a bit sick but someone called and I wanted to ask them to reschedule but it was their last day in town and they really wanted to see me so I was like..ok, fine, i can handle one.

So I said alright and walked the guy over here. He shows up, we do our thing, and he's getting ready to leave and I was said something about "my end of the deal". and he's like "what's that?" and I told him my rate and he was like "oh, but I didn't bring any money"

and for a second I got really pissed off and for like a split second was weighing whether or not I wanted to hit him.

I didn't because it would be pointless, he then told me something about how he thought "that was personals ads" which you'd have to be a complete idiot to think that since it's the biggest escort directory I know of and the word "escorts" is all over the website and every ad has a price in it. Including mine.

Besides, what kind of personals ad has a phone number right on it accompanied by swanky professional photos? and the girl on the other end just invites you right over with minimal conversation?

Anyways, he asked me "I dont think I have >SNIP<, but can I go to the ATM and get some?"


Still totally pissed off I told him "fine, but I know you're not coming back" he assured me he would, and I let it go.

I gave him about 15 minutes, the nearest ATM being maybe 5 minutes away. I then sent him a message saying something about "just give me a call when you get back and I'll give you the gate code" knowing he wasn't coming back.

He ignored it, so I gave it 30 more minutes and then sent him a message saying "it's a shame you're ripping me off like this because i went out of my way to see you today despite being sick".

Not really because I thought I'd see anything out of it, but because I wanted him to at least drive home with a guilt trip.

He sent me a message saying he was sorry and asked if he could take me out to dinner next time he was in town. I thought that was amusing, like I can't take myself out to dinner 10 times with the money he owed me. And what would we talk about? That time he ripped me off?

I just ignored him after that. I had played the part in one of his big fantasies that he was doing for the first time so now every time he thinks of that fantasy he'll wind up thinking of me and how he ripped me off and he'll feel guilty and it'll kill the fantasy for him.

That's karma.

Of course there's also the karma of getting your name and phone number on the national blacklist...


When I first started I followed the "hookers first rule" of get the money up front. But now I realize that asking about money up front is the best way to get busted so I don't mention it and it either quietly gets placed on my desk without me saying a word or I handle business at the end. I figure the increased risk of getting stiffed/ripped off maybe once every now and then isn't a big deal compared to the headache and risk of getting busted even one more time.
 
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LoveAlways said:
How exactly were you court ordered to get tested for STD's??
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As part of the plea bargain for probation rather then jail time the one time I got busted one of the conditions was getting tested for STD's.


Have you ever been to jail
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Nope. No plans to either.
 
StarOceanHouse said:
do you file for taxes?
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Didnt the first 2 years, did this past year. Will next year.

If you don't, what are you going to do if IRS comes knocking at your door asking "Where did you get all this money?"
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If the IRS poked their head in my door they sure wouldn't ask that. My apartment sucks.
 
Mariposa said:
xtcgrl: if you do decide to get tested and you come back clean, have you considered working in a legal brothel in Nevada?
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Amusingly this topic just came up on a provider board. Basically it's all the girls telling the OP to do a search.

One girl posted:

I worked at The Bunny Ranch for only a week. I HATED every minute of it. It would take too long to list all the reasons why. At the top of my list would be that I barely broke even. And catty...imagine 20-60 girls living under one roof trying to accomplish the same goal...$$$$
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Plus I hear that they're really hurting right now at the legal brothels over there.
 
Have you ever thought of moving to a place where the law is more relaxed, or even completely allows prostitution?
 
ControlDenied said:
Have you ever thought of moving to a place where the law is more relaxed, or even completely allows prostitution?
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Not seriously. It's crossed my mind a time or two but I feel that the way I run my business makes me pretty safe from LE problems these days and the fact that it's a bit of a blackmarket commodity allows for more profitability.
 
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