Ask an Escort- by XtcgrlATL

[xtcgrlatl]

Do you worry about catching communicable diseases from your clients? (herpes, hep C, etc).

Of course I do. But the money and freedom this job provides keeps me coming back. It has it's risks but it certainly has it's rewards to go with them.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

how often do you have to put clients on the "do not answer" list?

As often as necessary Which usually isn't terribly often. Most guys get on the "do not answer list" just from the phone coversation and never get a chance to become clients.

i apologize if this is a repeat question, but besides your roommate, does anyone else know?

I have two friends that know. One of them was living with us for a while so it was a necessity that he knew And I told another friend of mine what I was doing shortly after I started.

and if not, where do most of your friends/social acquaintances come from?

I don't really have as many as I'd like but they either come from the party scene or the internet via some common interest.

damn it...one more for now too- are there any services where men really just want an escort/date/companionship? like a pretty girl for a date/party, etc?

I would think many escorts would be willing to do that if that's what you wanted.

 

[Jabberwocky]

Of course I do. But the money and freedom this job provides keeps me coming back. It has it's risks but it certainly has it's rewards to go with them.

Hmm, so there isn't any more of a plan than hoping you don't catch something? I've never known anybody who was a sex-worker or did anything like your job (that I know of at least!), but isn't it sorta inevitable that you will catch something incurable? Is the money really that great that you would risk (very good chances) that you'd catch herpes, etc.

Do you know other girls who have done this a while? Do they have herpes now?

Just curious...other than being a cheapskate and not really finding the fascination with sex that a person would pay so much, the fact that the girls probably have STDs would turn me off definitely!

 

[psychetool]

Do you get high on the job ? If so, what kind of drugs are common on in the escort business ? X ?

You ever have guys that just want to talk or be jacked off or is usually all normal sex? What about guys who don't actually want contact, will you put on a dildo show/whatever for them ?

How does your job effect your social life/dating ? Do you tell potential partners your job ? It seems like it would be hard to date somebody and have sex with various other people at the same time.

You seem to have quite a head on your shoulders! Thanks for answering our questions, this certainly gave me a new perspective on escorts.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

In another thread xtcgrlatl mentioned "The cops don't do a super through search in my experience but they went through all my personal things and looked in all the drawers of the room, Under the mattress, that kind of thing."

I'm just curious as to how you got busted? You seem to be more careful than others (from what i've read) I'm just curious.
Did getting busted make you stop for a while? What did you get charged with and did you end up doing any time?

I was visiting family in another more conservative city and hanging out in my hotel room with my computer and figured "I'll make a little money while I'm here". So I posted an ad on what I now know as being an LE buffet, craigslist! Yay!

So I do a couple and then one shows up, looks a little strange, I dunno, anyways, he asks me "how much?" and I hesitate for a second because I hate to talk about money because I know it gets people busted. I tentatively answered.."uhh...$$$" and he was like "so does that include, like, handjob, blowjob, what?" and now red flags are going up like crazy but I'm on the spot and I'm like "uhh, thats full service"

So he says ok, hands me the money (another no no)

Sits down and starts to take his shoes off it looks like, Then his phone rings, he says a couple words like "hello? yeah, yeah" and then says he has to take the call outside. He opens the door and then all the sudden i've got like 3 cops in my face. One of them even comes in and takes my picture (I guess because most girls dress real whoreishly, I was dressed pretty casually myself.)

They searched the room and only by a stroke of luck managed to miss some E that I had in one of the bags they searched.


Then they took all my money, took my phone that I was using for work, threatened to take my computer but I talked them out of it telling them that it was necessary that I have it, and it is, for this business or sending out resumes I need a computer, and finally they wrote me a ticket that said I had to come to court on a certain day, then they left, I was shaken up but that didnt stop me from seeing another guy that I had previously seen in the same city, it still paid for my trip but my trip wasn't nearly as profitable as it was turning out to be.

Anyways, it didnt make me stop because It was a different city. While I was on probation I went extremely low profile (getting busted again would be instant 6 month sentence) I also got a regular job for some of those months, and only advertised on like adult personals ads which cops dont tend to browse. My friend stepped up her business and we got through it.

I'm glad it happened, the way it happened wasn't a big deal compared to what it could have been but after burning myself I am extra cautious.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Personally i would never stoop low enough to pay a girl to chill out, if shes attractive & i liike her ima prob hit that but still, id never pay for someone else's presence, id die first.

Tell us all about it when you're 45, married to a woman who hasn't put out in a year or 10, and have no free time to go carousing for bar sluts and no self respecting bar slut would touch you anyways unless you looked like you had money

I wanna know how it feels to hook up with a middle aged man the same age as your dad for loot.

It feels like a job that's a lot better then most jobs. I'd rather have a work day that totals maybe 3 hours of "work" where I make more then most people who are busting their asses to pay me.

Iv seen a good few things in my day & i may be going out on a limb but a good few girls iv known to sell themselves had underlying issues, mostly pertaining to their fathers; Is this a common thing in the business?

I think that your idea of an escort is probably based on amateur whores and pretty far removed from the reality of the upper class escort.

You're also looking at it funny, I'm not "selling myself" I'm pretty much renting out my time. No one owns me because they paid.

Another thing to keep in mind is that most people, even with well paying jobs, are working at least 8 hours or more to pay for the 30-45 minutes they're going to spend with me.

"Selling yourself" sounds more like a regular job where you dont get to set your own hours, you dont get to decide "My time is worth $$$" and demand that much from your boss. You have to follow someone elses orders or you risk getting fired.
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[xtcgrlatl]

Hmm, so there isn't any more of a plan than hoping you don't catch something? I've never known anybody who was a sex-worker or did anything like your job (that I know of at least!), but isn't it sorta inevitable that you will catch something incurable? Is the money really that great that you would risk (very good chances) that you'd catch herpes, etc.

The plan is to play safe and cross your fingers and yes, the money is that great. Punching some averages into my calculator, if I decided Sunday was my day off, I could make on the order of $$$ a year. Call it hazard pay, I guess.

Do you know other girls who have done this a while? Do they have herpes now?

There are providers that say they've been doing this a long time and say at least that they have remained completely clean. I'm about to revamp my business though for increased safety. I've been giving bareback blowjobs but have never really allowed people to finish in my mouth. I'm probably going to quit doing the ole BBBJ soon. when I first started I thought that was industry standard that that demanding condoms for a BJ would hurt business but now my understanding is that BBBJ is considered a perk but not is not industry standard.

even if yearly....no money PS

 

[youarewhatyouis]

I just got one question: would you serve this guy?

and of course you'd say yes because money makes you cum. This guy looks safe enough right? No big deal right? WRONG, becasue that man is TED BUNDY! AHHHHHHHHHHHH!




And I'd just like to say good luck. And try not to get killed. Because it sounds like you just don't give a fuck.

 

[Jabberwocky]

johnny, I imagine its not easy to hide that kind of cash. Laundering I guess?

XTCgrlATL, I imagine the only safe way to do it is to get a steady customer base and screen them for STDs. Is this kind of this possible for you?

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Do you get high on the job?

No. Well one time a client that I had seen two or three times and knew as a 15 minute wonder called me on an evening when I was rolling so I let him come by. It honestly killed my roll a little bit so I probably wouldn't do it again

Honestly I dont really do drugs very often.

If so, what kind of drugs are common on in the escort business ? X ?

Cocaine seems to be a favorite, if I get the impression that a client is going to be doing cocaine over the phone I usually wont see them, and I personally have no interest in coke. Alcohol is pretty common as well and it's about the same thing, if someone sounds a little drunk I tend not to see them and I dont like alcohol either.

I really only roll every couple of months and trip from time to time and that's about it for my drug use.

You ever have guys that just want to talk or be jacked off or is usually all normal sex?

I have a guy that likes to take me out for dinners and pays for that. It's not uncommon for guys to just want a hand job or sometimes just a handjob and a blow. I don't have to have sex with everyone.

What about guys who don't actually want contact, will you put on a dildo show/whatever for them ?

No, sex toys creep me out I'd use my fingers but that's about it.

How does your job effect your social life/dating ?

Well i dont date just because I don't want to it doesnt impact my social life really because I have basically unlimited freetime and practically unlimited $$ to play with. The only impact it has is that sometimes i have to make the decision between hanging out with a friend or making money. If I've had a good day already then the friend wins, if not so much,then sometimes money wins.

Do you tell potential partners your job ? It seems like it would be hard to date somebody and have sex with various other people at the same time.

Personally I just dont date. I dont feel the need to right now. I guess sometimes escorts will have boyfriends or husbands and sometimes it works out ok, sometimes it causes drama. I've no real experience there.

 

[youarewhatyouis]

Don't you carry any weapons or anything? Maybe a spare razor blade hidden in your cooch, just in case?

 

[satricion]

^^
This thread should be a space where sex work can be discussed from the perspective of someone who does it in a non-judgmental way. "Money makes you cum" and your last post don't make that cut. If you have nothing useful to contribute and you just want to make degrading smart ass comments maybe you should just shut the fuck up hey?

 

[xtcgrlatl]

That would be 250K/year tax free. Which is the equivalent of almost double that from a traditional job.

I declared $$$ in income last year so it's not totally tax free Actually that's probably about what I actually made since I had my head down till late november which was when I finally got off probation from the bust that happened the previous october.

Next year I'll probably declare around $$$. But I dont live in a way that screams "I CAN MAKE TREMENDOUS AMOUNTS OF MONEY". Were the IRS to audit me then there's not really anything amiss. I am too smart too look like I live outside of the means I declare. I drive a car that I bought for 2,500 dollars, my apartment doesnt have anything that people would really want to steal unless they were just desperate. I have like a PS2 and kind of a crappy TV. No giant plasma TV, no fancy ride, cheapo furniture. At least given what I declared last year and the lifestyle I currently have I very much am living within my declared means.

This year I'll probably nice up my lifestyle a little bit, hence declaring more income.

And honestly I dont bust my ass all the time, I have the potential to make over $$$~ a year but honestly I'll probably never push that hard Mostly the reason I do this is because money= freedom. I do it for my freetime. I do it so I don't have to plan my life around waking up for work the next morning.

I am not interested in selling my life to someone else in 8-10 hour chunks for $10-15 per hour at a job that doesn't involve any sucking, but sucks anyways.

So whatever I get into is going to have to be a job where I set my own schedule.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

and of course you'd say yes because money makes you cum. This guy looks safe enough right? No big deal right? WRONG, becasue that man is TED BUNDY! AHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Is Ted Bundy bullet proof?

 

[Johnny1]

xtcgrlatl, you have a hell of a head on your shoulders, no matter what else further south you also have going for you.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

XTCgrlATL, I imagine the only safe way to do it is to get a steady customer base and screen them for STDs. Is this kind of this possible for you?

Perhaps eventually. Or once I get my massage license I can simply offer "erotic massage" which is generally just nude massage with a hand job. It doesn't pay as well as GFE but you can still make a fair bit with it, and there's definitely a demand for it.

 

[youarewhatyouis]

Is Ted Bundy bullet proof?

no, but you can't draw your weapon and shoot Mr.Bundy when you're sucking his dick.

 

[xtcgrlatl]

Don't you carry any weapons or anything? Maybe a spare razor blade hidden in your cooch, just in case?

I am licensed to carry a firearm, actually when I got busted I of course told them that there was a firearm in the room and where to find it and showed them my CCW permit. They ran the serial on the gun to make sure it wasn't stolen or anything. One of them was actually admiring my pistol because it's nicer then the standard issue .40 glocks that are usually issued to police in that district. One of them even told me more or less "It's good that you have this."

 

[youarewhatyouis]

^^ well alright. I still think you're crazy though. You know there's still a good chance you could fuck around and turn up missing. People that kill hookers never get caught. And thats not a coincendence.

and all of these people who keep congratulating you because your selling your pussy, you know that they're all full of shit because if their mother/sister was doing it, they wouldn't be telling them they "have a great head on their shoulders

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

Not really, honestly. I meet bankers, lawers, business execs, car dealership owners seem pretty common, real estate guys, i have a reg who's a college professor. My clients are pretty upstanding types.

No, really, U provide a release/escape 4 these guys -- comfort & soothingness.

Sex is an f'ing psychiatric drug!

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How often do U masturbate? (It is C or G?)

What do U like 2 do 4 fun? Do U go alone?

How many guys do U have "on call" 4 a date that will do anything U say?