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28 year old male. libido pretty much gone since I was around 23

Captain.Heroin said:
I have no advice. If I knew what was getting my libido so high I would probably do something to balance it out to a healthy level.
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Ask a dr? but there all shitcunts who don't know ANYTHING. you go to one doctor and they say its for seizures go to another they say its for fucking erectyle dysfunction.........which one is it? I got away with getting a script off a doctor I didnt even know for lyrica cant remember what he said it was for seizures i think he said he would need my nuerologist report but he will let me off this time.............lol gave me his card and to send the report to him
 
If porn has been your main sexual experience for years, it almost certainly is causing some of the issue. Porn can really screw you up over time. Your brain gets reprogrammed and desensitized to sexual stimuli and all just totally unnatural.

Also, the idea that you dont enjoy sex very much could be causing your lack of interest in a subconscious way. Your thoughts and beliefs can actually effect your physiologic state.

When was the last time you had a girlfriend or on going sexual relationship? Was your sex life healthy then?
 
Captain.Heroin said:
You mentioned your doctors talked about ED, that is why I asked.

Why do you have a low libido? Have you thought about why that might be?
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No, I just said you ask for a certain prescription and you say there for say anxiety and then they turn around and say no there for Erectyle Dysfunction.

Well i've been on meds for I don't know how long, years and years, off and on, which could be the problem.........meds and a combination of drug use wouldn't help........A lot of RC's and who knows what they do to you.......Yep I was stupid but shit happens.

My main concern is why I mean WHY the fuck don't I get morning wood? that fucks with my head majorly.

I got my dick sucked at the start of the year but even then my libido was low,and cos it was BBBJ it was the ultimate blow job ever. Neve and she swallowed too never had one like that I can't have sex on top cos i'm too fucking fat but that's not the issue lol i;m happy with laying back and getting a blow job...then after the start of the year They put me back on meds and I was back to low libido.
 
https://www.sportsheets.com/blogs/sex-blog/best-sex-toys-erectile-dysfunction-sex-intimacy-ed

Penis stimulators (sometimes called "guy-brators") are designed specifically for the penis. One of the best is called the Hot Octopuss PULSE. The main advantage is that it doesn't require an erection to start using and enjoying it! The design accommodates a flaccid penis, and can be used hands-free or, with some lube, as a stroker. The device oscillates and pulses, stimulating the penis head and shaft. You can use PULSE for solo enjoyment or to help build an erection for penetrative sex.
 
Essentialle123 said:
https://www.sportsheets.com/blogs/sex-blog/best-sex-toys-erectile-dysfunction-sex-intimacy-ed

Penis stimulators (sometimes called "guy-brators") are designed specifically for the penis. One of the best is called the Hot Octopuss PULSE. The main advantage is that it doesn't require an erection to start using and enjoying it! The design accommodates a flaccid penis, and can be used hands-free or, with some lube, as a stroker. The device oscillates and pulses, stimulating the penis head and shaft. You can use PULSE for solo enjoyment or to help build an erection for penetrative sex.
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Nup that's not what i'm after. Read the thread and you will see what's going on in this thread.
 
I’ve yet to find an anti anxiety or anti depressant medication that DOESNt affect my ability to achieve orgasm.
Within days of starting a new one, it’s all over for me in the bedroom.

My doc told me the newer gen ones have less of those kinds of side effects, but he lied.
 
Meth novice 79 said:
I’ve yet to find an anti anxiety or anti depressant medication that DOESNt affect my ability to achieve orgasm.
Within days of starting a new one, it’s all over for me in the bedroom.

My doc told me the newer gen ones have less of those kinds of side effects, but he lied.
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supposedly wellbutrin doesnt have the sexual side effects but I'm told it can also make anxiety worse and is often not a primary medication (may be used with other meds) I was recommended effexor but I still read about potential sexual side effects
 
Specified said:
I have no idea to lose it, I might go for a run today, but i've read you can't just lose it by running.
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The only realistic method is dieting, although strength training will increase your BMR a little and if you walk 3-9 hours per day that can add up quickly. Swimming also does it but it's dangerous to try to lose weight by swimming (hunger => exhaustion => drowning). Most forms of exercise simply don't burn enough energy; 1 hour of running is worth 3 of walking but the latter is a million times easier and you can walk every day with no soreness or knee risk.

But in the real world, people have jobs, so they can't walk around all day and must eat less.
 
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