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Sex How old were you when you lost your virginity?

lecroute said:
never knew there was a word for it, other than "asexual" which is kind of not hitting the point.
but this definition makes sense to me, and next time somebody asks about my sexual orientation, i might say that (with "sexually" added before the attraction)
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Yeah, I should have specified it meant that you aren't sexually attracted to others. Asexual people can still recognise that somebody is objectively attractive and can still have romantic feelings for others. They just have no interest to smash.
 
i don't even like the romantic part.
but i can feel attracted to people, be it because of their personality, their attitude, their thoughts, their looks, or anything else.
it makes me want to hang out with them and get to know them, experience things with them.
but not in a romantic or sexual way.
 
anyway, i was 18 when i had sex for the first time after that one "out of curiosity" time, and again it was a friend's friend.
 
lecroute said:
i don't even like the romantic part.
but i can feel attracted to people, be it because of their personality, their attitude, their thoughts, their looks, or anything else.
it makes me want to hang out with them and get to know them, experience things with them.
but not in a romantic or sexual way.
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That's asexual and also aromantic :)
 
lecroute said:
anyway, i was 18 when i had sex for the first time after that one "out of curiosity" time, and again it was a friend's friend.
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I get the "out of curiosity" thing. Of all the people I've had sex with (that makes it sound like more than it is lol) I actually only really WANTED to do it with one of them. The rest was all because I was curious or bored or because they were like pressuring me.

EDIT: or for money/drugs
 
16 years and four days old. She was 18 and not a virgin.

Not that I asked her, but I found out a week or two later when my piss started to feel like molten lava. Yeah an STI on my first time. "non-specific urethritis" they called it.

I'll never forget the pain of the test at the clinic as they shoved a small tube up my cock and scraped it back, aaaaaagggh fuukkk. Then the agony of every drop of released piss for a few days until the antibiotics worked.

And then my dad really boosted my confidence by telling me "I'm not surprised you got the clap - If she shagged you she'd shag anyone" Thanks for that pops, not! (no diss - he went on to be a great father tbh)

I also went on to prove him wrong by treating myself to plenty of sexual partners while still a youngster. I did calm that down a lot though by my early/mid 20's
 
ageingpartyfiend said:
16 years and four days old. She was 18 and not a virgin.

Not that I asked her, but I found out a week or two later when my piss started to feel like molten lava. Yeah an STI on my first time. "non-specific urethritis" they called it.

I'll never forget the pain of the test at the clinic as they shoved a small tube up my cock and scraped it back, aaaaaagggh fuukkk. Then the agony of every drop of released piss for a few days until the antibiotics worked.

And then my dad really boosted my confidence by telling me "I'm not surprised you got the clap - If she shagged you she'd shag anyone" Thanks for that pops, not! (no diss - he went on to be a great father tbh)

I also went on to prove him wrong by treating myself to plenty of sexual partners while still a youngster. I did calm that down a lot though by my early/mid 20's
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My lad recently got himself a dose - nothing nasty, it cleared up with a course of antibiotics, thankfully. He'd split up with his girlfriend and ended up shagging three different girls within a week.

When we found out, his mum was calling him a tramp while I had to feign my distain, but secretly I was thinking "get in my son" :ROFLMAO:
 
F.U.B.A.R. said:
My lad recently got himself a dose - nothing nasty, it cleared up with a course of antibiotics, thankfully. He'd split up with his girlfriend and ended up shagging three different girls within a week.

When we found out, his mum was calling him a tramp while I had to feign my distain, but secretly I was thinking "get in my son" :ROFLMAO:
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One of my lads has women dripping off him it's sickening tbh

Can't even walk down the street with him without girls nudging each other and giggling while he smirks smugly to himself, the little shit.
 
xSpinelessX said:
Just turned 18 and he was 42. Do I win some sort of prize for the biggest age gap? 😂
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Dang, that beats mine lol 😅. When I was 24 I dated someone who was 21 years older than me…
I think it’s hottt as fuck tho 😅

P.S. He definitely did not look his age! He looked much younger 🤤
 
14 or 15 but got head when I was like 13 at a Friday night middle school dance in the back. It was pretty fun and felt like a stud afterwards lol
 
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