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Lucy20 said:
A little embarrassed posting this but then i remember my drug days and realize i have no shame:)
I just tried anal sex with my boyfriend, im in my mid 30's so im late to the party but addicted lol
My question is how often is it safe? I used Google and read horror stories of "leakage " and i definitely don't want that lol
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One of the reasons I enjoy posting on bluelight is because, unlike the likes of reddit etc - I like to believe the posting style is relatively scientific and therefore, less hyperbole, more - genuine detail.

I've long since been curious about how any woman actually enjoys anal sex.

I historically believed it was something they did to please their boyfriend, or just be kind of, "nasty" - and that's typically kind of hot.

I've been of this opinion because - there have been occasions when I have taken dumps that, frankly - I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

"Oh my god can't this just be over!!!!"

And, no explicit detail cause scat I find detestable but, those dumps - as heinous as they were - they got nothing on mandingo when he's on full alert.

Some chicks (porno's), they take mandingo - hell even Shane Diesel - dude is a freak of nature.
Then take it and, they actually seem to enjoy it.


So - I don't want to dismiss the idea, I just want to - understand the core concept?

The sensation?

What about it is enjoyable?
How does it differ to vaginal sex?

I know many women don't even believe orgasm via vaginal penetration is even possible, they just report a pleasant "full" feeling, and the intimacy of the moment (as well as pleasing their man) etc.

Is it similar to that?

Anal sex is something you may actively seek out?


I'm basing all this on this thread and OP being genuine in nature, and basically not a wind up.
 
JohnBoy2000 said:
One of the reasons I enjoy posting on bluelight is because, unlike the likes of reddit etc - I like to believe the posting style is relatively scientific and therefore, less hyperbole, more - genuine detail.

I've long since been curious about how any woman actually enjoys anal sex.

I historically believed it was something they did to please their boyfriend, or just be kind of, "nasty" - and that's typically kind of hot.

I've been of this opinion because - there have been occasions when I have taken dumps that, frankly - I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

"Oh my god can't this just be over!!!!"

And, no explicit detail cause scat I find detestable but, those dumps - as heinous as they were - they got nothing on mandingo when he's on full alert.

Some chicks (porno's), they take mandingo - hell even Shane Diesel - dude is a freak of nature.
Then take it and, they actually seem to enjoy it.


So - I don't want to dismiss the idea, I just want to - understand the core concept?

The sensation?

What about it is enjoyable?
How does it differ to vaginal sex?

I know many women don't even believe orgasm via vaginal penetration is even possible, they just report a pleasant "full" feeling, and the intimacy of the moment (as well as pleasing their man) etc.

Is it similar to that?

Anal sex is something you may actively seek out?


I'm basing all this on this thread and OP being genuine in nature, and basically not a wind up.
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It's personal preference I suppose? A good friend of mine, one of his ex's from what he told me, loved anal sex more than vaginal sex. To the point that he lost his virginity by fucking her ass, and not vaginally,and they would have anal sex a lot, as well as vaginal sex and oral sex.
 
i knew this chick who used to rave on about taking it through the ringer but i do wonder if she meant something about seeing the arse end of it altogether, lets see, the world be much less of a chaos control.
 
JohnBoy2000 said:
One of the reasons I enjoy posting on bluelight is because, unlike the likes of reddit etc - I like to believe the posting style is relatively scientific and therefore, less hyperbole, more - genuine detail.

I've long since been curious about how any woman actually enjoys anal sex.

I historically believed it was something they did to please their boyfriend, or just be kind of, "nasty" - and that's typically kind of hot.

I've been of this opinion because - there have been occasions when I have taken dumps that, frankly - I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

"Oh my god can't this just be over!!!!"

And, no explicit detail cause scat I find detestable but, those dumps - as heinous as they were - they got nothing on mandingo when he's on full alert.

Some chicks (porno's), they take mandingo - hell even Shane Diesel - dude is a freak of nature.
Then take it and, they actually seem to enjoy it.


So - I don't want to dismiss the idea, I just want to - understand the core concept?

The sensation?

What about it is enjoyable?
How does it differ to vaginal sex?

I know many women don't even believe orgasm via vaginal penetration is even possible, they just report a pleasant "full" feeling, and the intimacy of the moment (as well as pleasing their man) etc.

Is it similar to that?

Anal sex is something you may actively seek out?


I'm basing all this on this thread and OP being genuine in nature, and basically not a wind up.
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I need my clit stimulated with anal, cant orgasm anal alone. Its a different orgasm, very intense but different than vaginal.
I have orgasms with vaginal only, but i have orgasms by my boobs getting played with.
Im just overly sensitive everywhere.
The reason i first tried it because I was curious but being taboo made it sexy.
But yes it is VERY enjoyable
 
Lucy20 said:
I need my clit stimulated with anal, cant orgasm anal alone. Its a different orgasm, very intense but different than vaginal.
I have orgasms with vaginal only, but i have orgasms by my boobs getting played with.
Im just overly sensitive everywhere.
The reason i first tried it because I was curious but being taboo made it sexy.
But yes it is VERY enjoyable
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I've read some people use numbing gels on the ass whilst getting plowed there.

I'm guessing this is something I'm gonna have to apply more theory to and eventually just figure out.

Let me see - I mean, guys talk a lot of nonsense about their sexual escapades/accomplishments; me personally - I've boned a chick in the ass once, if memory serves. Not more than once.

I hooked up with her specifically cause she said she'd let me do it.

Did she really stimulate me?
Not really.
She was okay- didn't really get my juices flowing.

Now - hygiene being sufficient and a given - I have been rimmed a few times.

Here's the thing - and I'm inferring this applies to actual anal boffing also;
A few of the chicks, again - I can't say I really liked them.
One chick - I did like. She was hot - that experience was freakin' mind blowing - imprinted on my memory. That sweet face, beautiful hair, perfect looking, going down and getting her tongue stuck up my ass, really getting in there, going for it - it blew the top of my head off.
It was kind of the sweet with the sour. So pretty and sweet, doing something so nasty - it's like my musculoskeletal neurons just responded to that, and sensation was incredible.

The other chicks, that I didn't really like?
Their appearance wasn't nearly as refined. Kind of rough looking etc - still very doable, but they didn't fire up my senses (clinically known as, psychiatric arousal), to nearly the same extent.

When they did it - pfffff - it just felt, nasty. Not pleasurable.
Curious, sure.
Interesting.
But I had no desire to repeat the experience with them.

The hot gal that rimmed my ass?
I still have wet dreams about her.
AW LAWD!!!


So basically - I'm thinking perhaps a similar dynamic must apply to anal sex.

Inferring, I could visualize a chick take some dudes cock up her ass, but she really likes said dude and he fires her senses up etc.
With all the additional play, breasts, clitoris - breath on back of neck etc - yeah, I could see how the induction of pleasure could be possible; despite the potential pain of the situation - necessary lube etc was used, perhaps that could be largely precluded and the overall sensation of the experience could outweigh it.

With a dude who doesn't fire her sense up however?

I can only infer hella discomfort and a "fucking finish already" type of thing.

On a side note - I don't really believe there's many dudes that can really fire up a females senses.
If there were, I also believe it'd be a very different world we'd live in - but that's another topic.
 
I still don't understand why women enjoy anal, either. Men have a prostate up there which is basically a huge g-spot so I understand that. But the rectum actually has very few nerves in it, so there wouldn't be much to feel.
 
The rectum runs parallel to the vagina, if pushed in an angle angle your cock will cause a bulge inside the pussy.
The girl I do it with likes that angle as she goes for it when riding me, she slides back and forward and doesn't jump up and down at all, and that way she grinds her clit on my belly and comes rather quickly.
 
Lol .. So I'm gay and a bottom my bf is above average size but not huge huge .. Once a day I get kinda loose so every other day works ... Diet and cleanliness play a part ... Just don't do it to the point of hemroids. Your body will let you know when its had enough .
 
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Phobos said:
The rectum runs parallel to the vagina, if pushed in an angle angle your cock will cause a bulge inside the pussy.
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My ex was the same as that & she used to get off on anal.
From a personal aspect I love anal, it is a better feeling on your dick & one thing I personally used to love doing was having anal sex with her & as she was into fisting I'd fist her vagina at the same time, you can feel your own dick in her bum if you bend your fingers "up" inside the vagina & can then not only get her off but put pressure on your "banjo string" as you have anal which causes you to cum like you've never known before.
 
Zopiclone bandit said:
My ex was the same as that & she used to get off on anal.
From a personal aspect I love anal, it is a better feeling on your dick & one thing I personally used to love doing was having anal sex with her & as she was into fisting I'd fist her vagina at the same time, you can feel your own dick in her bum if you bend your fingers "up" inside the vagina & can then not only get her off but put pressure on your "banjo string" as you have anal which causes you to cum like you've never known before.
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I wonder if, while doing that, you could open your fingers a little and masturbate your dick with the hand, through the vagina/anus layer between lol.
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
"over decades" so not just loose pussy, but old, loose pussy? lol.
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You can talk!

I sure didn't fall for her just to fuck her, that woman could kick ass, knew her way around guns & dope, even taught me a thing or two about life.
Worth over a billion of you to say the least.
 
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