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What are your (if any) deal breakers for sex?

I've only turned down potential sex (with someone I haven't been with) once. I've told skanky exs to fuck off n die after they begged me for sex after I'd found out they cheated on me with so called close friends... fuck those sluts... that girl I hadn't been with though I really regret, I think she legitimately liked me, and I REALLY liked her.. or at least the idea of her.. but I turned it down because someone else told me a ton of lies about her and my dumb ass believed them

now I'll never know what could have been
 
Small penis, unruly body hair, any sort of scary tattoos (swastika, confederate flag, etc), a disease, a vagina, man boobs.
 
A girl who seems promiscuous, or acts dumb because she thinks its endearing. I guess these are things that other guys go for, because I can't imagine why else I meet so many girls with low cut shirts, high cut skirts, and a third grade education level. Please ladies, an intelligent and self reliant woman is far more attractive than a underdeveloped slut. If a woman can't keep up with me mentally and physically it is a huge deal breaker.

Also, pants with words written on the ass. WTF is that shit about?! Fucking retarded.
 
hyroller said:
Lol, bad tattoos are just bad. Period. The best kind are the ones that have been well-thought out and done in a tasteful, careful manner by an artist who takes pride in their work :)

anyway, aside from a small penis and poor hygiene, a man who is too sexually inhibited would be a turn off for me. I get that some people take time to reveal their sexual persona and/or come out of their shell, but I really do need someone who is in touch with their carnal instincts to satisfy me in the bedroom. Someone who was not as innately adventurous or did not share my love of variety (in approach to lovemaking) simply wouldn't be someone I could maintain an active intimate interest towards. I figure since we spend so much of our lives living within society's confines, containing thoughts and emotions so as to keep ourselves in line, the last place I am going to temper my volcanic sense of passion is behind closed doors!!!! there's just no way known ;)
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Exactly my feelings, except from a guys perspective. The first time I was with a girl who didn't have a problem letting her carnal side out it blew my mind. Prior to her I had never been with someone who was able to let go like that.

Sigh <3.........now to find a girlfriend on the same wavelength =D.

-djstrip
 
User Name Here said:
Absurd dirty talk (like in pornos). Sorry but "Yeah! I wanna fuck your tight little pussy you little slut!" is NOT hot to me. In fact, if a guy were to bust something like that out (and they have in the past), there's little I can do to stop myself from laughing out loud. That's a total mood-killer.
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Many women really like that in my experience.

I'd be really good at making you burst out laughing

=D
 
djstrip said:
Exactly my feelings, except from a guys perspective. The first time I was with a girl who didn't have a problem letting her carnal side out it blew my mind. Prior to her I had never been with someone who was able to let go like that.
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they're few & far between :\

I just can't put my heart into the act (not insofar as being in love is concerned, but as in wanting the experience completely) with someone who limits that part of themselves... even though it's their hangup, you start to second-guess what you're doing because they're not allowing themselves to let go! They need to express themselves in a way that gratifies my need to be wanted/desired - even if it is just for a fuck! <3
 
  • Armpit hair
  • Leg hair
  • Period blood
  • Penis
  • If she is unsanitary...
  • Bad breath
  • STD
  • Too many piercings/tattoos
  • If I suddenly sober up and realize that she looks like swamp thing
 
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hyroller said:
they're few & far between :\

I just can't put my heart into the act (not insofar as being in love is concerned, but as in wanting the experience completely) with someone who limits that part of themselves... even though it's their hangup, you start to second-guess what you're doing because they're not allowing themselves to let go! They need to express themselves in a way that gratifies my need to be wanted/desired - even if it is just for a fuck! <3
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Haha, yup. Couldn't agree more.

-djstrip
 
A major deal breaker would be a guy who isn't interested in trying some new and exciting things together - basically, anyone who is a bit narrow minded and not adventurous in the sack. Oh and also anyone who takes themselves/the act too seriously! Sex should be fun and no matter how deep down and dirty, you get you should be able to laugh about it.
 
A major thing i absolutely hate is when a guy is really perverse. Like, too forward about sex. That is a HUGE turn off and a guy could never get me to do a damn thing with him.
 
^^I don't think that acting "slutty" is very attractive to either sex, yet it is something both sexes do for attention. Its like putting up a flag that says "free for the taking". And shit, if its free it probably ain't much good. Haha
 
If he assumes he can do everything he wants with my ass. I've really got a problem with that one haha
If he doesn't smell good
Erm piss fetishes I'm really not a fan of
 
Only really two things I can think of.
#1 turn off that is completely non negotiable is if a guy feels entitled to me because he has a higher social standing / more money than me.
#2 is poor hygiene / smells
 
Poor hygiene and all that are obvious ones. I'm getting really sick of the married men approaching me. It's really turning me against marriage. I realize men get bored and want to play, but they always give the lamest excuses and always say they are leaving their wives. I swear there is a book of "what to say" for married men.

I just like fun. I want to have fun with someone who is on my level. It's hard to find. My sister's hubby and her go out all the time and travel and have a ton of fun. That's what I want.
 
- Crotch rot / BO / mouth rot
- small penis
- outrageous body hair
- an obvious STD
- fat
- being whiny
- wanting to have sex in the dark when I've never even seen them naked
- virgins
 
Lysis said:
Poor hygiene and all that are obvious ones. I'm getting really sick of the married men approaching me. It's really turning me against marriage. I realize men get bored and want to play, but they always give the lamest excuses and always say they are leaving their wives. I swear there is a book of "what to say" for married men.

I just like fun. I want to have fun with someone who is on my level. It's hard to find. My sister's hubby and her go out all the time and travel and have a ton of fun. That's what I want.
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Yes fucking married men. My married manger hits on me all the time, and shit he just had a baby with this women and complains about no sex?? WTF:? dude get a life.:|
 
gr33n3y3z said:
Yes fucking married men. My married manger hits on me all the time, and shit he just had a baby with this women and complains about no sex?? WTF:? dude get a life.:|
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Yep, it gets worse as you stay single and get older. LOL I'd have more respect for them if they'd just tell me they want to have some fun.
 
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