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What are your (if any) deal breakers for sex?

-if they have bad hygiene
-hair unkept (I guess we can have sex but no blowjob!!)
-STI/STD same thing but please no.... ugh.... even if there was a condom in place

I have some others but those are my top ones
 
-if they have bad hygiene
-hair unkept (I guess we can have sex but no blowjob!!)
-STI/STD same thing but please no.... ugh.... even if there was a condom in place

I have some others but those are my top ones

i would fuck an hiv positive person.. specially if she had the decency of telling me, you know what i mean??

(i mean that a lot of you people probably did have sex with someone who had some kind of STD and they just didn't tell you)
 
Loud, shrill porno style orgasms. More generally, being loud and screaming and stuff period. It sounds retarded and is a huge turn off. Doubly so if it's loud and cheesy shit.

Soft moans and whispers are on the other hand, hot.
 
Scat...I met a guy once who told me that he thought shit was "the smell of sex" and I was all OH OKAY BYE NOW I HAVE TO LEAVE THIS CONVERSATION IMMEDIATELY AND NEVER RETURN 8o

Vomit...I have had not one, but THREE separate incidents where guys were so wasted that they threw up while we were fucking around...one of them on his own face, and that guy was surprised that I didn't want to hook up with him again!

Blood/knifeplay...I was seeing a guy once who was really a super nice guy and very hot, but he was really into playing with knives during sex. Though he understood I wasn't into it and never pushed it, just knowing that he liked it was too much of a headfuck for me and I broke it off with him. I have had bad experiences with cutting in the past, so it's not really something I would ever be comfortable associating with getting off.

Banal conversation during sex...there is a lot of different verbal activity which can happen during sex which I am okay with...maybe you're a moaner, a grunter, you're into dirty talk, even if you want me to call you daddy I will do it as much as I think it's silly and weird...but if I am going down on you or someone's dick is in someone else and that's the time you think it's okay to ask me if I like my job or what kind of movies I'm into...INSTA-MOOD-KILLER.

Animals and kids...not cool for obvious reasons.

That's probably it as far as definitive deal-breakers....there are other things that will vary from guy to guy....eg: there is a guy I hook up with every now and then who doesn't really like kissing at all which kinda bums me out because kissing is a big thing for me, but he is so good at pushing my buttons in a lot of other ways that it makes up for it...but yah aside from the above (which I think are pretty extreme), I am generally open-minded enough to at least try something new if I trust someone enough.
 
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